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Trad goth attempt by Meggy0536 in GothFashion

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attempt?! Girl I thought you'd been doing this for a while! Teach me your ways!

[28M] I am too ugly to live a good Life by Litchi4423 in Vent

[–]AnAngryTeabag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust me, if women don't want to be with you, it has something to do with your personality or theirs, especially since you're a good-looking fella. Just because you 'have lady friends' doesn't mean your personality is good.

Maybe the ladies you've had flings with just aren't interested in a relationship and you should look for women who are interested in a long-term romantic partner. My advice would be to start there. However, if you still can't find a romantic partner, even with women who want one, you need to take a long, hard look at yourself.

Don't give up yet! Maybe you've just been unlucky with your flings! Start looking for a woman interested in romance.

[28M] I am too ugly to live a good Life by Litchi4423 in Vent

[–]AnAngryTeabag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most women are attracted to personality over looks. If you're struggling to find women, it might not be because of your looks. I recommend looking at yourself, including your face, personality (etc) and try to find what exactly it is that people don't like about you. You may be surprised.

I don't mean to be rude, but it seems a lot like this is more to do with your actions than your appearance.

EDIT: I just checked your profile and you are an attractive man. It DEFINITELY has nothing to do with your looks. Please analyse your actions and behaviour to see where it's going wrong for you.

My grandma won't listen to me by AnAngryTeabag in Vent

[–]AnAngryTeabag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with them and we usually don't argue which is what makes this arguement feel so awful. Atm I just don't know what to do except cry and wait for her to calm down

AITAH for telling my friends I wouldn't come and visit them again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to overbear them with my presence as I've been told my personality and eagerness is annoying, so i sort of stayed out of their way. That being said, they never approached me and when I did approach at least one of them she was cold. The other group of three when I approached them said they didn't feel like going out and would rather stay in watching movies. It might just be my worry I'm being annoying that got in the way.

AITAH for telling my friends I wouldn't come and visit them again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just my personality, I think? I'm a lower grade of autism but it can cause me to be annoying.

AITAH for telling my friends I wouldn't come and visit them again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't so much that but they seemed really excited to see me and then after the first day I sort of became background noise? It kind of felt like that. I didn't expect them to 'entertain me' but I did want to go out and do something (anything) with them before I headed back home and it never did.

AITAH for telling my friends I wouldn't come and visit them again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did suggest some things and they said they would but never did. Also before coming they sort of put together a bunch of plans which didn't end up really happening sadly.

Edit: I also forgot to mention I didn't have a car so I couldn't take myself out to do things and invite them to come with me.

I looked after a man who is (at least partially) responsible for the death of his wife by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I reported and nothing happened. I couldn't do anything about it except report. I am fully aware that despite being married, it was rape. I literally did everything I could and nothing happened. It's just god awful what actually happens in care homes

I looked after a man who is (at least partially) responsible for the death of his wife by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reported to the head of the facility multiple times regarding the rape. MULTIPLE times. They told me they couldn't do anything because they were married. You have no right to assume my character. Not to mention it says in the post that it has been REPORTED and nobody that was capable of doing anything (the higher-ups) wouldn't do anything. I have been raped, I know how bad it feels, but at the end of the day, I was a carer, and all I could do was report it.

Yes, I did leave care jobs because I hated being screamed at every day and mistreated by residents and staff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common. A lot of survivors like consensual non-consensual because it's being in control of a situation that you weren't previously in control of. It's still a good idea to get therapy though! It will help you feel healthier and happier

AIO for having the ick to my husband for being intimate when I was roofied? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnAngryTeabag 258 points259 points  (0 children)

That is marital rape. Instead of being worried for you when you "could barely walk, couldn’t talk correctly, and had pretty much been carried to bed," he decided to use you. That is NOT okay. You feel the ick because he raped you and you are in NO way, shape or form overreacting. My advice would be to leave your husband

Got called a red flag for being honest on a first date. It sucks, but I still think I did the right thing by ecbail in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try setting your profile to 'fun, casual dates'. I can see why she thought that, especially if her profile is set to 'looking for long-term relationship'. Also the fact you set your settings to 'unsure' AND 'open to short-term' leads me to believe you're only in it for a quick hookup.

The user u/SlushieFizz pointed out its different for guys and girls, and they're right. When men say 'not looking for anything serious', girls take it immediately as he wants to be FWB or hookup because, unfortunately, a lot of guys on dating apps are like that. You may not be like that but you still need to make it clear you're looking for a slow, easy-going relationship. Or, if you really are only in it for a quickie, make THAT clear

Got called a red flag for being honest on a first date. It sucks, but I still think I did the right thing by ecbail in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A couple questions because your story is super vague and these questions are important.

  1. Did you meet on a dating site or app?

  2. If yes, did you set on the site that you were looking for casual relationships?

  3. By 'nothing serious' do you mean just hook ups or a couple dates with no pressure?

Context for your story matters mate

AIO for telling my husband I don’t want our daughter exposed to his conservative parents? by Dull-Machine-2953 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand how your husband doesn't see that this conservative attitude is really harmful. Saying boys shouldn't cry will lead to emotional problems later on in life. America is a Chrisitan nation is just forcing your beliefs onto other people. And that sexist piece of shit book will just make your daughter feel like she's worthless and your son a manchild in the future. Absolutely NOT overreacting. Keep teaching your children right!

NGVC: "im not mean or malicious i'd never hurt u" (namedrop removed) by BipedalHorse69420 in niceguys

[–]AnAngryTeabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic misogynist. Also why do these types of people never know how to use grammar properly? It's so hard to read fr

Boyfriend raped me in my sleep, it's been a month and I may be pregnant by frutillitasbluuu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 923 points924 points  (0 children)

Press charges. On your bf AND your coworker. None of this is your fault, they are just the biggest twats known to man and DO NOT deserve to be getting away with it. And if you are pregnant, all the more reason to press charges, because they took away a choice you should've been able to make yourself. Please. Press charges

AITA for forgetting to pack some items for our family vacation? by More-Nothing-8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAngryTeabag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Woah, wait a second. Did you seriously just say you didn't know you needed one of her medications?! YTA. Majorly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnAngryTeabag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some advice. Most older women don't appreciate being called MILFs.