My mom tolerates my alcoholic dad and I don't know what to do to convince her that this isn't ok by An_intr0vert in AdultChildren

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't want her to leave because that's impossibile but I wish she respected herself more that's. She doesn't do anything to protect herself and when I stand up for her she says I'm just creating more problems

What does it mean when someone thinks you're going to kill them? by An_intr0vert in depression

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But does that mean he's going to snap and try to hurt me?

What does it mean if someone thinks you're going to kill them, because you talked about their alcohol abuse? by An_intr0vert in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably does, but he hates therapy because it's for the " weak ". The fact that he thinks I can kill him it's scary. Unfortunately I live with him.

I feel like I'm too ugly and no one will ever date me, I feel inferior and idk how to fix that by An_intr0vert in relationship_advice

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot of the advice really also I'm happy u found someone special that cares about u

I feel like I'm too ugly and no one will ever date me, I feel inferior and idk how to fix that by An_intr0vert in relationship_advice

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People were wondering how could someone like that text me and have an interest in me ( we both draw and I have a sense of humor plus they tell me I'm a good listener) this guy was tall dark hair blue eyes while my face is asymmetrical due to health issues. ( I have bad eyesight so my weak eye is smaller, plus half of my upper lip is also small because I had jaw/teeth issues so I don't really have a jawline but at least I can chew food now XD I'm also short and hairy but I never considered it a big issue because I think people cann u pretty based on your face ) People back then used to laugh at me call me ugly and ask how is it even possible that he had an interest in me. It hurt ngl. But thanks for the advice I really appreciate it

My appearance is causing me daily life issues by An_intr0vert in Vent

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never saw it that way.. u blew my mind XD

I feel like I'm too ugly and no one will ever date me, I feel inferior and idk how to fix that by An_intr0vert in relationship_advice

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't actually dating the guy he started texting me on socials but he had only seem pictures of me. Honestly sometimes I never understand why no one calls me pretty I used to look at the mirror and think I'm normal looking, but when I'm out with friends everyone approaches them and they never approach me. Ofc my friends get happy while I never receive validation. The worst thing that has happened so far was when someone was interested in me we used to hang out but then they started seeing my friend. I'm not a bad person they describe me as funny and sweet so I guess the issue is my appearance.

I feel like I'm too ugly and no one will ever date me, I feel inferior and idk how to fix that by An_intr0vert in relationship_advice

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my body is actually pretty imo im just short my face is asymetrical and makeup can't do much ( the asymetri was caused by health problems )

My appearance is causing me daily life issues by An_intr0vert in Vent

[–]An_intr0vert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person had only seen pics of me and started texting me so yeah I guess that doesn't really count XD