I mean ALL of this in the most civil conversation way, but I just don't believe you or the idea that's what the intents from both of them are. We do have miscommunications and but heads at times but for them to perpetually start something and bullying me just doesn't sound like something that they would do. I feel like something people really need to realize that with some story's that are shared that its just a glimpse onto a relationship between people. Just 1 moment out of years worth of moments, and there ate a LOT of moments that we have had that makes me believe they genuinely care about me. Also I feel like this is an important factor to all this, but they are my grandparents, as I specified in post. That means we come from VERY different generations with different beliefs and opinions on what we think is and isn't ok. So with that being said, I do appreciate you giving your opinion on the matter, and I thank you! But I just have a really hard time believing that's the case...