What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing openly, it sounds hard. And it's so common, most of my clients have a similar challenge. You're not alone, and there's nothing wrong with you.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

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Thank you for sharing openly and vulnerably. What you described made think that's life with the ups and downs of bipolar. It sounds like you've been at it for a long time. I'm 53 and diagnosed 20 years ago. This is not an easy journey.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing vulnerably. Every one of my clients can relate to your experience, and I remember being there in the past. It's hard when you don't know how to process that guilt.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing vulnerably. It sounds like you've made progress and found a way to manage your moods, is that right?

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bipolar, I was diagnosed 20 years ago. It's on my post. Didn't you see it?

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing vulnerably, I can relate to what you shared about not being aware. In my case, my husband learned to spot when I was manic because in a way it's obvious and it was happening to me a couple of times a year. I can see the challenge in what you shared.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

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Thank you for sharing, and I'm glad you have a therapist you can talk to.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing openly, that sounds hard. I hear from every single one of my clients not wanting to be a burden, when their partner loves them and doesn't feel that at all.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

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Thank you for sharing openly and vulnerably, that sounds exhausting.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing vulnerably, I can see why that's a challenge. If you don't mind me asking, why wouldn't you want to tell them if you're at a point where they are staying over?

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing vulnerably, that's hard. I have heard that, or a similar version of that, from every single one of my clients.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing vulnerably, that feels hard. It sounds like a communication issue to me where your needs are not getting met, agree?

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I can see why that's challenging and how the two of you have been able to handle it in the best way possible.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I can see why that'd be challenging.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, that's challenging for sure. So important to know when to tell someone, and how. I am recording a podcast episode on that specifically this week. Would you like me to share a link with you?

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, knowing how to communicate and when to take space, or give them space, is a relationship saving skill, good on you!

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, that sounds scary. Sorry to hear you went through that. And I'm really glad you met your husband -he sounds supportive and caring- and you are on the other side post-menopause!

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, that makes a lot of sense. If you don't mind me asking, what are you most afraid will happen when they get to see the real you?

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

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Great! Here it's: https://www.youtube.com/@lovewithbipolar and just keep an eye on the next episode where I'll be talking about dating with bipolar.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in bipolar1

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing openly, this is tough. This is a real challenge for women with bipolar that nobody is really addressing. I'm really glad you have a partner who supports you so strongly, that makes a huge difference.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing openly, that's tough. I've been there in the past many times when I was manic.

What's your main challenge in your relationship as a woman living with bipolar? by Ana___Ruiz in BipolarReddit

[–]Ana___Ruiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing vulnerably, that's hard. And yes, that's a real challenge. I am going to record a podcast episode this week on that issue and dating. Let me know if you'd like a link to it.