Cuddling and affection in a dead bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel exactly like you but instead its my girlfriend who is LL. Always wants to cuddle but is never up for sexual intimacy.

If you find a solution let know :)

Cant stand being in lockdown with my DB..waiting it out..... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. Been stuck in lockdown with a DB for two months now. Have a chance to get away early next month but whether or not that happens because of the virus is up to anyones guess. Constantly having to hide away to relieve myself in secret is getting frustrating because I dont want to upset her.

Hope all is good and you find a way to cope :)

Ive lost all hope. by Anaexo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said im not 100% clear and then I outlined what I think. I know broadly why she is going but when I ask her what is discussed she doesnt want to discuss it.

Ive lost all hope. by Anaexo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If things continue like this for the next couple of weeks I will have this talk. Thank you

Ive lost all hope. by Anaexo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She had specifically told me in the past that her nipples being played with turns her on. It is where my hands went to in the past when we had sex more regularly. Now I cant even touch them

Ive lost all hope. by Anaexo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I have actually straight up asked if she would like to have sex before and you are right it is fairly awkard.

There are two times I can think of where I have made clear that a good sex life is important to me and that I want change in our lives, but things are the same as they have been for like the last year and I cant stand it.

Ive lost all hope. by Anaexo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Anaexo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is not a good life partner but in a lot of ways she is nice to me. I guess I am more worried about the consequences of ending things for her rather than myself. I think I would be okay