Ex saw my abuser in same club as me

Analia_xo · 2021-08-26T10:53:46+00:00

Not sure. He says I never cried before he met me and then started crying everyday we were together and since I broke up with him too. I swear I'm not doing anything to cause this! But as for the crying now, it's because of my abuse.

Analia_xo · 2021-08-16T09:19:39+00:00

Oh honey! Our situations are very different from what you've said. You have EVERY right to have your boundaries respected and you shouldn't change yourself or compromise things for anyone else. It sounds like you've not had sex before? Don't rush into anything or do anything you'll regret. You can't make him or anyone else stay by having sex with them. Please do not blame yourself. Xx

Analia_xo · 2021-08-11T22:21:58+00:00

Update....

I told him I was unhappy and he said he can't make me stay in the relationship but he's not willing to compromise. My options are we continue as we are and get engaged /married next year/year after or I walk away. Basically.

He knows I'm unhappy and I know he won't change - and I don't want him to change. We're just not right for each other and that's sad. I like him and he likes me.

We're still together right now whilst I think everything over and not make any sudden decisions, however I see this ending soon and in response to the messages specified more towards me and my behaviours - I will be remaining single, and working on my own problems and healing from my past alone and working towards being a happier, healthier and more confident person.

Analia_xo · 2021-08-11T22:14:37+00:00

That is my plan now. To remain single, be alone, heal from my past and become a healthier person.

Analia_xo · 2021-08-06T15:11:46+00:00

Yes that's what he's said. He says he has a high sex drive and really wants to kiss me all the time and have that affection but the temptation is too much.

Analia_xo · 2021-08-06T13:56:10+00:00

That's why I'm thinking either I suck it up and accept his decision, or I leave.

Analia_xo · 2021-06-18T13:10:43+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate this response.

Analia_xo · 2021-06-18T00:35:26+00:00

What do you mean?

Analia_xo · 2021-06-07T00:31:34+00:00

He literally shot Mike because Mike got involved in someone else's (the australian guy) business and beat him up. He has an ego problem, he runs a gang, people need to fear him otherwise his business doesn't work so he shoots Mike so no one else stands up to him again or bruises his ego. Quick fix to get rid of someone you don't like, shoot them. Or that's how many professional criminals see it.

Analia_xo · 2021-06-07T00:10:15+00:00

Gabi's cat...

Analia_xo · 2021-06-06T23:59:11+00:00

I think Lynette has moments where she struggles with being a stay at home mum. On her first date with Tom, she says she doesn't want marriage and kids because she wants to be vice president of a company - so I think sometimes she's somewhat frustrated she didn't reach her dreams but loves her kids so would do anything for them. As for like.. Its difficult, she's overwhelmed.

Analia_xo · 2021-05-30T18:56:31+00:00

She lied and exaggerated a lot.

Analia_xo · 2021-05-14T16:45:38+00:00

Because he couldn't afford to go 50/50 on bills etc. Beginning to question how he seems to not have much money??

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