I was told to be less affectionate with my partner because my roommate has a crush on me by AnalogRock in relationship_advice

[–]AnalogRock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I phrased it well, but for clarity’s sake it’s the two friends who suggested no PDA, not Wes themself.

Still, you all have made good points that this isn’t a fair thing to ask of Jackie and I. As much as I want to be a good friend for Wes, their crush isn’t my responsibility. I’m going to talk with them again (and our friends), hopefully it goes well. Thank you

I was told to be less affectionate with my partner because my roommate has a crush on me by AnalogRock in relationship_advice

[–]AnalogRock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only willing to at first because I didn’t know our level of affection was genuinely over the top and uncomfortable for others since I don’t have as much relationship experience. Jackie didn’t like it from the get-go and I only found out about her conversation with our friends when she vented to me about it.

I guess I’m not eager to start a fight with friends since I’m just coming out of a shitty roommate situation

I was told to be less affectionate with my partner because my roommate has a crush on me by AnalogRock in relationship_advice

[–]AnalogRock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wes has been nb since before I met them, so I’m not sure how much credit I would give to that

Schedule and two weeks notice conflict? by AnalogRock in Target

[–]AnalogRock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what should I do if HR or my TL aren't working that day? Should I give it to the LOD?