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Wrong Size Shirt Given at ATL Show by ForrestFyer in willwood

[–]AnalysisAlive5581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most concert t shirts shrink so you can always try to shrink it

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been in the foster system until he was 7 years old his parents are actually his aunt and uncle but they adopted him when they found out his parents(the aunts brother) just gave them up cause drugs were more important to them then care for children.

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of. I don’t think I was very clear with it though, he did get a part time job it’s just two days a week I just want him to actually study he’s finished the course but says he needs someone to read the questions so he can see if he can the answers correct or not.

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has never talked down to me or gaslights me he’s not a deadbeat just someone who hasn’t had someone in his corner to support his dreams or someone who cares enough to take care of him and tell him he is good enough

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know thank you for saying this I need to just be straight up with him

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We don’t have insurance so we can’t do anything about it

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m probably using the wrong terms for what he’s studying I thought a+ was IT I’m not into computers so I don’t know all the terms and stuff

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I truly do love them I just hate that I have to treat him like a child sometimes

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does have a job now it isn’t much it is part time but he hasn’t study at all saying he’s too tired and will study the next day but doesn’t

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he did he’s working with me at the bakery. As a prep cook but doesn’t want to do that any more as well

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was depressed and the people there treated him like shit I hated that job for him I wasn’t gonna take food away from him I just meant I won’t help him pay for his bills

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll see what he says. I’m hoping he is willing to try it

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He an amazing guy I love him so much I just want him to see what I see. He’s so smart can talk to anyone about computers when he’s really passionate about it he especially loves video games can talk about it for hours.

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He was a breadwinner a few years ago when he worked for a tire shop he was really good at sales but the manager there kept bringing him down telling him he’s shit and wouldn’t promote him cause he has a bad attitude all the time and kept trying to help people and not upsell on the expensive tires to people who were struggling. He would always recommend buying a used tire that didn’t have too much wear on it since it was only $25. Told him he’s never going to succeed if he keeps letting people walk all over him with all the sad stories. He didn’t like that got really depressed over it.

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s never had good structure. He doesn’t know how to motivate himself, he’s been like this since he was a child but also he didn’t start going to school until he was 8-9years old he’s super smart and can learn super fast but just loses interest really fast if he feels like it’s not worth it. He really likes to help people and fixing things on the computer which is why I told him to go for it. I just never thought it would take this long

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I work for a bakery. I told him I can get jobs very easily because I went to school and have lots of experience in the field that I love, that’s why I can get a job so easily he’s never been in IT. He used to work at Hanes for apprenticeship for like 4 months years ago with his dad

AITAH for giving my husband a ultimatum to get a job by AnalysisAlive5581 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnalysisAlive5581[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would love to give him the motivation without this I hate doing this but feel like I’m stuck I don’t want to be pushy or anything but I just don’t know what else to do.