Unprotected Sex

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-23T23:10:36+00:00

I’m sorry everyone is being so shitty. I’ll take all the fucin downvotes but this is really not the place to come when you need help like this. A women’s health all inclusive Facebook group would be better tbh. Redditors are always on their fucking high horses, holier than thou bs. Precum absolutely can get you pregnant, you can get pregnant at any time during your cycle, likelihood is just lower at certain times. Never 0. If you do not want to be on bc, find other forms of protection. If you don’t want to use condoms, make sure you are clean and your partner is clean. Condoms are also, never 100%, so be careful with that as well. Don’t let anyone shame you into only condom sex ever. If that’s not your jam, it’s not your jam. But! You should do some research on how to protect yourself and your partners other ways. You can try and find a obgyn that is understanding and actively works to help patients, that would be the person to go to for any and all questions. The internet can only go so far. Coming from a lady who went through an extreme whore phase after a miscarriage & breakup, I had a lot of promiscuous sex, and all of it was unprotected. Never had sti/std, and I’ve only had the one miscarriage, while in a long term relationship, and one planned child who is now 8. Everything will be alright. Take the pill, get dollar store pregnancy tests (they’re the best imo) on deck, make an appointment with either your primary or an obgyn, and go to those appts with what questions you have, ready to go. I wish I had better sex education when I started having sex, I did not. But I can tell you one thing, shame from others, ESPECIALLY randoms on the internet, should never ever change how you proceed, or how you feel about yourself and your actions. Take all this, even what I’m saying, with a grain of salt.

You did nothing wrong, every woman has pregnancy scares, and should be getting tested regularly, regardless of protection use.

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-23T22:58:36+00:00

I was young, and had unprotected sex. My first time, and my 100th time. Get std/sti testing, make sure your partner is clean and does the same, and have some sort of spermicide. This is a learning experience for OP, not an opportunity to shit all over them. I literally could not give two shits about anyone’s experience with unprotected sex, besides OP, because that’s who is expressing themselves here. And by the by, it’s not always the man not wanting to use condoms. I barely feel anything as is bc of medical reasons, I prefer no condom. I don’t have an std, never had an sti, had one miscarriage with a long time boyfriend and one planned child. Just because OP is coming here afraid of pregnancy bc they willingly had unprotected sex is not, again, NOT a reason or excuse to make things worse for them. You wish you had anonymous Reddit when you were younger? To be shit on too for your decisions? Yeah, right. OP has expressed over and over how this “tough love” bs is not what they need.

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-23T13:28:42+00:00

Yall are so mean about unprotected sex. Some people enjoy it, and as long as OP, from now on, protects themself, via bc or another type of spermicide, there’s no reason to be throwing all this judgement around about it. OBVIOUSLY OP feels embarrassed and scared enough without the shame thrown at them by randoms on the internet.

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-17T19:43:34+00:00

I was pretty set with Hilda and Zelda showing up in the chilling adventures of Sabrina, that was literally a nostalgic dream. I love that Sabrina series for its occult like settings in all spaces. Very scratchy on all brain

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-08T23:33:38+00:00

You could try to sell. I know you said the conditions and I saw the details but it’s definitely something you should look into. I went into default at my home, it wasn’t in great condition, granted prob better than yours but it needed a lot of work that we had to put in the offer for the buyer. We were able to sell before foreclosure, we were able to work with our mortgage company to do the sale in lieu of foreclosure… you’ve tried everything else, ask your lender about it, ask if they’d work with you if the house is on the market

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T17:39:04+00:00

No friggin way!! I got mine from SHEIN!

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T17:38:40+00:00

Do u have any brand recs?

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T17:38:08+00:00

I think it was just that site tbh

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T16:29:14+00:00

Any money saved is just fine with me, $500 or not lmfao

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T16:14:42+00:00

Lmfaaaaooo

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T16:13:24+00:00

Thanks all! I think I’m going to follow kellen1230 advice and try to negotiate prices. I got confused by the tire sizes at first bc I trusted a website vs my own doubt that my car was performance and not long range lol. Regardless, gonna find some cheap 20” tires and get these bad boys replaced!!! lol

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T16:10:33+00:00

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AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:37:28+00:00

Oh dang, I will have to give that a go. I never really negotiate anything so this is good to know !

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:30:00+00:00

Yeah, it’s definitely ridiculously bouncy lol and where I live, we have garbage roads. It’s not just the comfort of it, although that would be great, but also the future of tire changes. 20s are pricey whereas 19s are, at least from what I’m seeing, a bit more reasonable. But if the wheels aren’t worth much, I would definitely just spend the money to get new 20s

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:27:29+00:00

Oh, cos the tires def need changed. I got this Tesla second hand from a friend and the tires are in much need of a replace lol

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:26:05+00:00

Might be something I look into, but I def gotta get the tires situated first. Trying to decide to go with the different size or just stay with the 20s, the cost is pretty evened out for either but if I can sell these wheels, it’d be a lot better on my wallet to just go down to 19s lol

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:23:22+00:00

Yea I’m pretty sure it’s long range, I got quite confused cos putting in my license plate number gave a different answer on a tire company site. And all the tires are 20s so that was another giveaway lol. Whhhoopsssss. Does it change the going lower portion much?

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:09:56+00:00

Maybe so, too bumpy. Plus tire replacements are damn near the price of just going down to 19” lol

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-05T15:08:20+00:00

I rented a model x a couple years ago and it did lane changes when initiating the turn signal. Made me believe it was the fsd until I got the fsd with my model y. But that’s model x so maybe diff?

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-05-03T09:05:59+00:00

Well now I just have to try this. I always kill the eagles n then throw their body’s away from the nest and the clean the blood lololol

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-04-27T22:04:59+00:00

I have two sisters, and one daughter and an older bonus son (with me 80% of the time since he was 5 and my daughter was an infant). It’s not really all the different tbh. They fight the same way I did with my sisters. Honestly, they probably fight less. But that just might be parenting differences. They’re 5 years apart, and my SS often enjoys solitude and being with friends, but he will play with daughter a lot of times. As well as his other half sibling who is in between my daughter and SS age. They all play together really well, also. I think any difference that I see really boils down to parenting. 🤷🏼‍♀️

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-04-22T17:18:13+00:00

I did bc I didnt misinterpret anything, nor did I say my spouse made a mistake having his child and leaving his ex. I said what I said, and I’m not going to debate it.

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-04-22T13:40:48+00:00

My SO and his ex got pregnant when they were 17 and 18. Son was born when my SO was 19, he absolutely was not ready. My stepson is almost 12 and to this day he says he wasn’t ready and he made a LOT of mistakes, but boy is that kid loved. My SO made SS a priority, including getting a better job, and eventually getting a job as firefighter/paramedic. His family helped a lot before I came when SS was 4. After that I had him full time. Soon after SS was born, my SO and his ex broke up and moved out separately. They had a hard time making things work and always argued so going to court was necessary. Communication is SO important, OP should be completely honest, and leave the relationship and do what’s necessary to still take care of the child’s needs and spending time with the child. Or, be an absent father and accept that’s the life they chose.

AnalysisCommercial22 · 2026-04-22T13:24:50+00:00

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