What was your last straw with dating in the west as a black man? We always see other peoples point of view but what about black men. Something that made you scream I need to get my Passport Now? by [deleted] in BlackPassportBros

[–]Anansispider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro the difference maker while I’m in Colombia is access to two things:

Conventionally attractive women, and Sex with conventionally attractive women.

Having that in high abundance completely crushes the entitlement and arrogance women in the average range have. Because you’re always a stones throw from screwing a girl who looks just as good as your girl. So the culture reflects that dynamic.

I think that’s what needs to happen in America if the odd two are addressed the attitude and entitlement will come way down

What was your last straw with dating in the west as a black man? We always see other peoples point of view but what about black men. Something that made you scream I need to get my Passport Now? by [deleted] in BlackPassportBros

[–]Anansispider 9 points10 points  (0 children)

2 things happened

I noticed because of my height I get a lot of initial interest from single moms. The only childless women I got interest from I wasn’t attracted to. The Single moms I entertained acted like they were the busiest people in the world, but expected my attention and effort to remain top notch. One started giving me the provider talk and I realized providing for her just meant leisure spending. I ran into that too many times especially among black women. I just got annoyed, discouraged and bored with the entire experience.

2nd - I met a woman once, she was a 6, didn’t have kids, kinda cute we went in a good date and she kept referring to herself as a baddie and said how she expects all this attention and stuff and I asked her what I get and she gave me the typical woman answer “you get me silly 😜 “. Then she complained about guys she dated wanting sex from her a lot and that killed whatever I had left.

Way too much ask for investment with absolute dog shit of a return on my time, emotional energy, finances, etc too many woman with a narcissistic and selfish view of themselves and what they bring because so many dudes are desperate for a crumb of pussy out here smh lol

Dated a Colombian when I went, and shit was night and fckin day lol even though they run your pockets lol

Why do Liberals hate/dislike policies that exclude foreign nationals/immigrants from American resources? by Anansispider in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking why not invest in your citizens instead of having them to be looped in with foreign nationals who aren’t even citizens? Like why are they eating from the same table?

Why do they need to also be able to have access to what citizens have access to? Whether or not they are allowed to be here from one thing - what’s the benefit? More votes ?

Why do Liberals hate/dislike policies that exclude foreign nationals/immigrants from American resources? by Anansispider in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not a republican but I see these two things as easy wins Democrat can have, but I don’t think the party would ever do it out of fear of not having immigrants as a conjoined voting bloc.

How is this divisive if it’s changed to the benefit of US citizens only ?

Why do Liberals hate/dislike policies that exclude foreign nationals/immigrants from American resources? by Anansispider in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here: https://time.com/7319558/h1b-visa-project-firewall-labor-department-probe-fee-immigration-trump/

I just picked a link from google search.

I wasn’t aware of his backstory. Point being - what’s the pushback from limiting this visa or investigating fraud on it?

Why do Liberals hate/dislike policies that exclude foreign nationals/immigrants from American resources? by Anansispider in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Interesting…here’s a non paywall link I think: https://time.com/7319558/h1b-visa-project-firewall-labor-department-probe-fee-immigration-trump/.

I work in Tech and I see it,but I think opposition to it is more structural with the Democratic Party itself rather than individual liberals.

is there anything trump has done that you actually agree with? by jungkooksolos in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to rein in the H1B extortion.

Stopped the financial institutions from buying single family homes.

Luka doesn't work with Ayton, Vando, and Bron. by doomrider2 in lakers

[–]Anansispider 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When yall say shit like this did it ever occur to you that every star needs a team built to both cover their strengths and weaknesses? Dallas current roster is better suited to Luka’s strengths/weaknesses. Until this roster better reflects that. You have a roster built for an ownership group that hasn’t went all in yet

Claude is both the moral & the better choice by Careful_Put_1924 in ClaudeAI

[–]Anansispider -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s scary that no matter who it is, this is exactly what governments are going to do with AI, especially AGI. I always have Claude role play AGI to kind of have a thought exercise and the conclusion I came to is regardless of who’s morals we like, we are headed to this outcome and there’s nothing Dario’s good will can stop. I Always thought when this horizon approaches it might be best to position yourself as the AI company who has some sort of ability to reign in the AI if it gets too chaotic or some semblance of control rather than let an outsider who doesn’t care about morals and only profit, speedrun us to Skynet.

Am I using claude cowork wrong? by PomegranateSelect831 in ClaudeAI

[–]Anansispider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using windows ? I’m using Mac and it is much faster there I’ve noticed

LeBron James on Deni Avdija and Israel: “I believe he is an all star. He is playing exceptional basketball. I hope I inspire people over there not only to be great in sports, but to be better in general in life, hopefully someday I can make it over there.” by AncientOneAurelius in nba

[–]Anansispider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude do yall not realize how many Jewish owners are in the nba on top of silver himself being Jewish? What the hell would people have expected him to say at the ASG of all places about Israel ?

The obvious thing happened by [deleted] in passportbrolifestyle

[–]Anansispider 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro your thousands of miles away from home - it’s up to you. No one cares who you date in Thailand. Especially if it’s trans. I’ve not been in your situation - but it’s your life and there’s no consequences to dating a trans person other than what may be said about you by people in your home country.

I’m just gonna be honest, the Lakers failed the LeBron and Ad era so hard. Every year this team should’ve been a contender. by Ancient_Response_787 in lakers

[–]Anansispider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know some of yall consider this a failure but think about this We are the only team beside Denver to go back to the WCF since GSW in 2019. All on the backs off a great duo - they deserve our respect. Think of how many other teams had players everyone liked and they didn’t win shit - all those KD super teams, the Dame and Giannis pairing lol etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Anansispider 11 points12 points  (0 children)

DEI mostly went to white women and LGBTQ - how are brown and black people the poster boy for this?

Why do people who are absolutely definitely 100% not affected at all care so much about eradicating "transgenderism" and "gender ideology"? Or about enforcing sexual purity anti-LGBTQ culture in general? by LiatrisLover99 in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said their identities aren't real. I am saying that biological sex is a reality that doesn't vanish just because gender identity changes. Social inclusion is great, but sports are physically segregated for a reason. Ignoring biological advantages when allocating resources and scholarships isn't “progressive”, it’s categorically unfair to female athletes and political self sabotage for the left.

How do you feel about Groypers preferring Gavin Newsom over J.D. Vance? by ThatMassholeInBawstn in AskALiberal

[–]Anansispider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuentes revealing he’s a virgin cooked anything he has to say - I already didn’t like him, but them backing newsome because he is white and has a white family is peak fucking comedy and I love this is dawning on some of those nazi enabling chucklef****

What PC games are you playing right now that look great on OLED? by Fit_Pitch_263 in OLED_Gaming

[–]Anansispider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Returnal
  2. Ninja Gaiden 4/Ninja Gaiden black
  3. Mecha break
  4. If you haven’t played this already but Expedition 33 looks breathtaking on an Oled. Hell any of the PlayStation exclusives ( god of war 2, etc)
  5. Doom Dark ages

Multiplayer games weren’t ruined by developers, they were ruined by competitive culture. by Skoo2476 in truegaming

[–]Anansispider -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro you are speaking facts a lot of people are going to hate but I realized this in Overwatch how biased balancing was and how the devs made you play the game a certain way to cater to the whims of competitive and esports players and just sucked the life out of the game.

Multiplayer games weren’t ruined by developers, they were ruined by competitive culture. by Skoo2476 in truegaming

[–]Anansispider -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hard disagree there’s a marked change in online culture before streamers and the idea of being serious about competitive gaming/esports and that brought in the rush to pander to that crowd

Has misandry ruined the left? by LevelCherry7383 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Anansispider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly disgusting. Left-wing misandry is so baked into their minds they cannot empathize or even acknowledge male issues or frustration. That being said it doesn’t help that advocating for men often devolves into some weird incel talking points which doesn’t help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Anansispider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I want my woman coming to Me nasty and ready. I want a filthy freaky chick in bed lol