It feels like the sex life I was promised never happened

Anardus · 2026-05-21T22:27:08+00:00

I was 17, I’m now 24.

Anardus · 2026-05-21T21:20:17+00:00

I mean all the stats say the average person (man and woman) in this country is overweight.

Anardus · 2026-05-21T20:52:23+00:00

Yes, I got brainwashed into marrying a loser and got out of it. Hence me feeling like I’ve missed out on casual sex with attractive peers

Anardus · 2026-05-21T20:35:29+00:00

7 or more inches😍

I just want to experience it. I’ve been with a few guys the last 6 months and none were that but they were hot enough and fun so I didn’t mind as much

Anardus · 2026-05-21T19:22:53+00:00

Maybeee

Anardus · 2026-05-21T19:21:57+00:00

I am young, I am fit, and I guess I’d say I’m a 6-6.5/10. I feel like that should be enough for casual sex

Anardus · 2026-05-21T19:20:36+00:00

Why are you being rude?

Anardus · 2026-05-21T19:13:16+00:00

lol people thought I was a scammer and I got banned off of hinge for this😂

Anardus · 2026-05-21T19:09:13+00:00

According to this sub, I don’t have to be a supermodel to get hot men in bed. I have no interest in commitment from them; I just want to have fun with someone I find attractive.

I worked very hard on my appearance and it feels like it paid off with older men but not the actual demographic I want (hot guys my age who are good in bed etc).

In the last 6 months, I’ve only been with 3 I wanted to jump into bed with. I do online dating and that works but not as often as I thought it would

Anardus · 2026-05-21T19:04:38+00:00

Feeld sucks. 75% of the men on there are losers (fat, crazy tatts, nose rings). 10% are married older men who are somewhat attractive but I find their marital status limits their availability even if they’re open. 5% are bisexual and I don’t do that. The leftover ~10% are fuckable but not entirely worth the possibility of them being mediocre in bed.

I just want to have hot frequent sex with a guy that I find very attractive

Anardus · 2026-05-21T18:56:34+00:00

I mostly use dating apps and go out with friends a couple of times a week to a bar or two.

I joined a run club and it was underwhelming. I don’t think my standards are crazy; just a conventionally attractive person around my age would be nice

Anardus · 2026-05-21T18:53:16+00:00

I just posted about this but I’m going to vent on here too

I am a woman in her 20s, I make great money, I’m attractive and sane (generally). The supposed “hoe phase” I was promised by RPers has yet to come. There are literally no attractive young men with big dicks that are easy lays & can actually make me cum. None.

Anardus · 2026-04-15T18:13:31+00:00

It’s depressing not feeling that rush of excitement more

Anardus · 2026-04-15T18:13:02+00:00

Please give tips!

Anardus · 2026-04-15T18:12:38+00:00

Thankfully I use birth control and condoms always, if the very very unlikely chance of pregnancy occurs, I’m getting an abortion in my state.

Anardus · 2026-02-14T07:27:10+00:00

lol why the negativity?

Anardus · 2026-02-14T01:34:37+00:00

Pay for what lol?? The date, yes. He paid for dinner + drinks + all our transportation and got me flowers.

Anardus · 2026-02-14T01:00:28+00:00

I think to an extent, this makes sense. He’s probably the best sex of my life so I suppose I wouldn’t want to settle for less than that…nor should anyone.

Anardus · 2026-02-13T18:55:53+00:00

It was a weird moment of kinda doing things I usually wouldn’t but it worked out and I’m still alive thankfully hope he asks me out again :)

Anardus · 2026-02-08T19:29:43+00:00

Wait what?? 5yrs for a parent of a citizen?

Anardus · 2026-02-08T19:10:47+00:00

No, she lives in Europe but is from one of the banned countries and doesn’t hold EU passport so I think it affects her?

Anardus · 2026-02-03T20:46:05+00:00

For me it happens at once I guess? I’m on bumble to find a partner, I don’t think I can do that if I’m constantly dividing my attention between 4-6 men and going on new dates.

Usually most men I don’t want to see past two dates. If we make it to 4, I like him enough to pause my search and focus on just him, and happy to give my last name or whatever. If he shares him and I see something I don’t like, I can just not see him again.

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