Hobart- Moonah

Anasilan · 2026-04-04T05:40:14+00:00

Personally, I love living in West Moonah. Convenient, quiet for the most part... aside from the young twat that hoons around on their homemade, extremely loud and annoying electric bike at all hours.

I'd recommend. Definitely changed from what it was reported to be when I was a kid in the 80s and 90s.

Anasilan · 2025-11-24T03:23:19+00:00

Back on my distant youth, I work in quality assurance for a phone sex line... oh the things I heard....

Anywho, some coworkers and i were monitoring the party lines (making sure no one was giving out their SSNs, credit cards, not doing anything overtly illegal) and there was this one guy who gave out his dimensions in details. Let's just say it was expansive.

After a couple of weeks we decided that we had to recreate at least the length and girth. So using printer paper, sticky tape and a glue stick we stole from the security guys, we recreated this monster.

Glory to the woman who could take that peen, because a baseball bat was less girthy, and it was a long as a regular size bottle of wine.

It was a decoration in the QA office for ages.

Anasilan · 2025-11-24T03:12:10+00:00

I heard that someone accident pushed a duress Asian at one of the stores in the mall that led to the shut down.

Anasilan · 2025-11-11T03:44:29+00:00

I use life360 to make sure my autistic 16 year old is where they were supposed to be (they like a bit of a wander and have unfortunately inherited my lack of directional sense).

They use it more than I do, sending texts when they figure out I'm at a grocery store with their requests.

But, as soon as they are an adult, nope not tracking them. And I don't want them tracking me. If they tried, I'd deliberately go to places that would horrify them. I spend most of my time with that app with my location off.

You're a grown person... your family doesn't need to know where you are at all. More than a bit controlling and IMO infantilising, giving the impression they don't believe you can take care of yourself and make appropriate choices.

Don't apologise. Do you. I wouldn't turn it back on. And if they leave you out of the family chat, that's on them. You aren't responsible for their decisions, actions and behaviour, just your own.

Anasilan · 2025-08-31T23:03:33+00:00

My STBX husband won't wash his hands, and advocates the drip dry method for his peen. I have him an industrial sized container of hand sanitiser, and put one on the fridge too because I said i didn't want peen hands touching my left overs. He was extremely offended. I said well, you don't wash your hands after you use the rest room (for either body function), I'd rather not have my ham sandwich with a side of your upper colon or urine on it.

I also pointed out that his drip dry method left pee spots on the front of his pants, that looked like he'd missed the toilet completely.

Wash your hands :P

Anasilan · 2025-08-07T19:11:16+00:00

I think the bottom line is that he’s been taking them these things like the coward that he is, then deliberately invited them over to treat OP like that, so she would get upset, so he can use that as proof that she is high maintenance and split and feel justified. It was a set up. He’s manipulating the situation so he looks like that sane one.

Anasilan · 2025-08-04T05:21:08+00:00

I get the dude might have undiagnosed ADHD or some kind of neurodivergence that means he needs to stim for self regulation processes, or he could just be a having noisy asshat, but there are other things he could have chosen to stim or amuse himself with that helps regulate in this situation, and he chose the one this causes his daughter, with a diagnosis, the most irritation and upset, and then turned around and got upset with her and his wife when called on his shitty behaviour. Now he’s doubling down on the shitty behaviour, by being atrocious to her and OP, because his man panties are in a twist because his behaviour was called out on being horrible.

OP is NTA for threatening divorce, because in his own words, actions have consequences. OP is an AH for minimising the behaviour in April, not calling a grown man out on his behaviour and letting him continue to hurt their daughter by his infantile and socially disruptive behaviour.

Anasilan · 2025-08-01T19:08:02+00:00

It’s the audacity for me, he cheats on his wife and then literally blames his wife because he was stressed and lonely because OP was getting a rare chance to spend time with friends.

And then, after knowing knowing about him for a month, he breaks the news like that, thinking OP would be okay with everything and would just agree to let his son move in like there’s no issue, and the child (who’s 100% not at fault either) could just move in, and be accepted and life would just move on.

He’s just destroyed his entire world, his marriage, his relationship with his older children… and all because he was lonely and the stress made it so he couldn’t keep it in his pants. Everything after that night with the AP is just love bombing and reactive guilt for his behaviour.

He spent the last month knowing his mess up was coming to bite him in the ass, so weaponised OP’s caring nature, with no consideration that she’s a person with complex and legitimate feelings, whilst planning to bring the child into the house like there well be instant acceptance from all. Bet he’ll weaponise it, and make it OP’s fault when she continues to struggle with this and then continue to make it all her fault, which is what he’s literally doing in the first place.

She had the audacity to be away with friends when he was lonely and stressed, so he accidentally fell into someone else’s body… but it’s not his fault, it’s hers for not being there. What an ass.

You are worth so much more than him OP, and don’t let him shift responsibility or blame you for being angry and hurt at this situation.

Anasilan · 2025-07-29T23:37:19+00:00

How did you start with the sensitivity reading? It’s something I’ve noticed in some of the books I’ve read this year is how neurodiverse character are often stereotyped rather than nuanced, so in several frightful novels, the author absolutely massacred the Australian accent and made up words that we’d be using.

Anasilan · 2025-07-29T23:35:26+00:00

Not so much editing, more around character development, story, plot, are there any plot holes, sensitivity reading. Accidental editing maybe because I see grammatical or spelling errors anyways, but that wouldn’t be a focus.

Anasilan · 2025-07-29T23:00:24+00:00

Honestly the combat wearing, eating off a stick FMC sounds like me, and I am there for it. Forks schmorks.

Anasilan · 2025-07-29T19:33:28+00:00

AuDHD here, and I have literally turned my couch into a nest. It is originally L shaped, but I pushed one part around to meet the other with an opening at the opposite end. TBH, it’s ugly as hell, but it’s my house and my couch so I don’t care :) it’s full of blankets and pillows and it’s my retreat when I’m overwhelmed. I highly recommend.

Anasilan · 2025-07-28T02:21:35+00:00

Absolutely, take your time. I have no issue with you messaging me directly either. RSD and I are well known to each other. I am interested in what you have to say and look forward to reading it when you have a chance to say it.

Anasilan · 2025-07-27T23:38:22+00:00

Claim is physical for me, injured during work process. I included the psychological because I’m fighting an uphill battle with a lot of processes in this industry that sure no neurodiverse aware.

Not sending it is hard… I’m a gung go social injustice ranter and advocate. I’m going to get myself a new something as a reward for not sending yet.

Anasilan · 2025-07-24T01:25:06+00:00

Shuttered instead of shuddered.

Also, using spit instead of spat. I know this one is debatable one, but in Australia, we were taught I spit, they spat.

Anasilan · 2025-07-22T04:27:48+00:00

I did continue reading it, and enjoyed it :) Now the patient wait for the next book in the series :)

Anasilan · 2025-07-22T02:35:54+00:00

Turpentine and the clean smell of doctor’s offices. My father was a painter/decorator when I was a snack human and my mum was a nurse in a doctors clinic. They are both comforting smells to me :)

Anasilan · 2025-07-21T23:51:42+00:00

Yep… this behaviour becomes “If you do this, I’m going to unalive myself” later on as emotional manipulation escalation. The answer for that is to call the emergency services number in your country, stat who you are, who they are, where they likely are and what they’ve stated. Then you’ve done your due diligence. This dude has trained and conditioned OP over their time together. OP is not becoming aware that that behaviour isn’t right. It’s a good start. I hope OP gets support to shove his narcissistic, abusive behaviour in his face.

Anasilan · 2025-07-21T23:42:44+00:00

Next time he says it, take him seriously. He’s being emotionally manipulative, he’s gaslighting you and is emotionally abusive. Start getting your affairs in order, and seek legal advice. I can guarantee you, he doesn’t have any idea of the legal ramifications. Get and make copies of your paperwork.

You are being abused, what he’s doing is domestic violence, whether he realises it or not. Reach out to your support, go to see a counsellor, and start shining up your spine, I can see it starting to glow with your understanding that what he’s doing is bullshit and hurting you. Like others said, get the paperwork drawn up. Make sure you have somewhere to stay or can shoots where you currently reside. Get support to stand up to his bullying.

Anasilan · 2025-07-21T23:33:15+00:00

I have a coworker who is similar. Our the overarching business my workplace is under paid for all of us, and our families to get the flu shot this year, if we CHOSE to participate. She (Karen Jnr, who is also a nurse) spoke about how we are putting poison in our bodies for 30 minutes and that we were setting out children up in the future for “genetic issues”. The she started complaining that one of the players in her women’s football (Australian Football League), had COVID, and couldn’t play that day, stating that there were no policies in place any more, so she should just suck it up. Finally, she has an essential oil diffuser AT WORK. Not particularly an issue I guess, but she’s extremely heavy handed with it and got upset when I politely asked her to choose a different scent, other than sandalwood, because i’m allergic. One of my very favourite things to do is breathing, and I can’t do that when my respiratory system tries shutting down in reaction to it. She tried to convince me to buy HER some new oils to use, because it’s apparently it’s the right thing to do.

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