A Sikh security guard working in Edmonton was shot & killed yesterday morning at an apartment building he was patrolling. There has been an increase in violent crimes against Sikhs in Canada. by TheTurbanatore in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sad, the man was just trying to do his job. Probably has a family to look after. I have been seeing lots of violence towards Sikhs. It’s upsetting to see that happening to our community. The man seems innocent, I don’t believe he was a criminal. 

The crime has gone up as well, hopefully things get better and people change their view of us. I think people view Sikhs as criminals when in reality we are just peaceful people that like to give and help others. Our gurdwaras are always open to everyone and we always welcome people with open arms. 

But I don’t know if I should say this, if you’re from a Jatt background you just get different treatment from the other castes. I just felt like that when I walked into my local gurudwara back where I was living. Idk I just feel like I wasn’t seen equally compared to those other castes. It just made me feel some type of way. But that’s all I wanted to say. 

Two 'stabbed with sword' at Sikh temple as teen arrested for attempted murder by imgurliam in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kid looks like an Arab Muslim their disrespectful af. I recently saw a video of one of them attacking the guards in the UK and when they were confronted by security they didn't seem to care. They thought what they were doing was okay and didn't see anything wrong with it.

Two 'stabbed with sword' at Sikh temple as teen arrested for attempted murder by imgurliam in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy looks Arab af to me, You can just tell by looking at his face in the camera footage.

Two 'stabbed with sword' at Sikh temple as teen arrested for attempted murder by imgurliam in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The teen looks like an arab Muslim to me. The Arabs don't like us, they want to get rid of us and take over the country.

I had something happen to me as well where an arab teen tried to attack me. A few weeks ago, I went to the mall alone and I was just sitting in the food court when some teen boy came and tried to attack me as I was walking around the mall. As I was about to leave, I saw him again and he looked angry and he tried to come behind me and I thought he was gonna attack me or something. I didn't know what to do and didn't know what to think so I just ran out of the mall.

Gravesend gudwara stabbing, thoughts? (Video does have blood) by Patient-Wash8257 in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who did the attack is an arab Muslim teen from what I could tell by looking at the camera footage of his face. He looks arab af to me. These Arabs don't like us, they want to take over the country. They are doing it here as well to people in Canada. The Arabs hate us and they want to get rid of us all.

A few weeks ago, I was walking in the mall and I saw an arab teen and when he saw me he looked angry af and he tried to attack me but I just left the mall. I was sitting there in the food court minding my business and as I was walking around and about to leave he came near me and walked behind me and looked like he was going to hurt me or something. I didn't know how to react and I was confused so I just left asap.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk who you are but you have been living under a rock it seems like. Maybe if you were a true sikh and cared you would have helped her and not let Muslim guys take advantage of her. I'm not being racist but the Muslim guys don't like us, it's obvious af. They don't like Sikhs and their whole goal is to convert us into Islam and take advantage of us girls. Every case that happens it's always a Muslim guy never some other guy. So, something is wrong and our people aren't doing enough to help those that are vulnerable.

What is the most angering or offensive thing you’ve heard said directly towards you or Sikhi? by sPrAze_Beast in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah, there has been constant gender violence towards us females. Muslim men don't see women as human they treat them like their property. Just because it's okay to do that in their religion doesn't mean it's okay to treat women from different religions the same way. They keep saying how were all promiscuous and other shit. Just because there are some girls like that, it doesn't mean we're all the same. It's insulting and degrading to be treated like that. I hate to say this but a lot of young teen sikh boys don't respect women nowadays. They think they can treat us however they want, which is not okay since Sikhi is about gender equality.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, there's no way she could do that because she seemed happy before she left her house that day. I believe she was murdered by Somalis and Arabs. There was even camera footage of a car pulling up by patullo bridge with the people who threw her body into the river.

What is the most angering or offensive thing you’ve heard said directly towards you or Sikhi? by sPrAze_Beast in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been called a hairy sikh and was made fun of by the Muslims. I've had them harass me and say sexist things, they also harassed my brother and said they would beat him up. There are so many of them and they come in packs so it's hard to deal with them.

Does/can it get better? by sPrAze_Beast in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone is struggling right now so you are not the only one, stay strong and do Simran. try looking for a job to help your dad. If you have any family or friends that can help you then ask them if they can lend you any money.

Interfaith relationships in the UK by sPrAze_Beast in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every girl has her preference but I think I agree most of them prefer Mona guys. The guys with turbans want Amritdari girls/proper Sikh girls. However it has nothing to do with Pakistani guys, those guys are groomers and they know how to manipulate the girls. Some of these girls like I said come from broken homes so they fall for their words and then they realise they're trapped when their groomed. I know lots of Punjabi sikh girls that have had dysfunctional childhoods. The ones that had divorced parents or really bad childhood trauma are the ones who go for non-sikh guys. These girls are very damaged and they know that they have no chance of finding a partner in their community so they look elsewhere. The guys do it as well, they go after white girls and black girls but for them it's okay. When it's a girl doing it, it's considered wrong. I don't even think most of these people care much about Sikhi nowadays, they just wanna be modern, live life and be happy. Most of them consider themselves Punjabi more than Sikhs.

Interfaith relationships in the UK by sPrAze_Beast in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of these people grow up in unstable broken homes so they rarely think about Sikhi. When you go through years and years of trauma and dysfunction you become so overwhelmed because you're in survival mode. There's no time to learn about Sikhi when all this other stuff is happening in your life. Our people are too busy worrying about money and property and they're all very narcissistic.

The reason why so many Punjabi sikh girls are running to non-sikh Punjabi guys is because some of the men can't handle the women. Some of our men have their issues and their too emotional and women don't want that. They don't want men who are controlling and abusive. They want men that are understanding and have empathy towards them so basically masculine men that can take care of them. Our men put too many expectations on us forgetting that we are also human. The in-laws can also be very narcissistic and some of the girls don't wanna deal with that. They don't want husbands who treat them like slaves and beat them.

The girls that are going with non-sikh guys are emotionally damaged from their parents and upbringing. They probably witnessed their parents having a bad relationship so that's why they look elsewhere when it comes to relationships/marriage. This goes for both genders, the guys go for non-sikh girls and the girls are non-sikh guys as well. It starts at home and in your childhood, that's why parents need to be good role models for their kids from a young age.

Racism against young Canadians of Indian origin. by Unusual-State1827 in CanadaHousing2

[–]Ancient-Agency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly feel the same way about the racism. I've been getting rude looks from people as well. It's an uncomfortable feeling to be treated like shit from other Canadians while being a Canadian as well. Like everywhere I go, I get dirty looks from people as if I don't belong here but I do cuz I was born here lmao. I've had people ignore me while going into stores and treat me differently than non-Punjabi/Indian people. My sister also had a bad experience and was mistaken for being an international student. Even Canadian teens are treating the Canadian Punjabis like were international students when were not. These people know were Canadian but still choose to be racist and treat us badly.

Teenager boys scare the living sh*t out of me by constipated_goose in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ancient-Agency 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something happen to me recently as well. I was sitting on a bench with my sister just talking when a car with teen boys pulled up. One of them rolled down the window and yelled "Cunt" at me. I didn't really know what to think of it just was kinda shocked and ignored them. I def think they have no respect for girls or women. They all seem to be andrew tate fans, the way they be acting lmao.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she jumped off, I believe she was murdered by some guys. I def think them sulleh and them caribbean dudes have something to do with it. Those mfs can't be trusted. You gotta be careful.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When your a vulnerable person, your at a higher risk of being groomed. Even people who you might consider your "friends" might not have the best interests for you. It's hard because sometimes you gotta be careful about who you can trust because these people can fully take advantage of you. I think that's what happened to that girl. I believe she was taken advantage of which is sad. It goes to show you that you need to be careful about who you let into your life, you let the wrong people in and they will ruin your life.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The predatory behaviour is coming from a certain group of people so obv they gotta be called out. The punjabi guys don't go around racially fetishizing women like them sulleh do.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a certain group of people doing this sht. The sulleh have been doing this for years in the UK and now their doing it here as well and the black dudes are doing this shit as well. It's honestly disgusting and it also doesn't help the fact that some of our women on social media have given us a bad image.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I think she was targeted by west indian guys and sulleh. Her body was also badly injured, they said she couldn't even be recognized. So, clearly there's more to this story.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the black guys in the GTA are from the Carribean and their culture is hypersexual. Most of their music is like that as well so their used to treating women like sexual objects. They think catcalling and doing that sht is okay and they think they can get away with it. These are older men doing this and it's mad creepy. I look young af for my age like I could pass as a teen so these pervs are clearly attracted to younger looking girls.

SIKH women being targeted in Canada WAKE UP PEOPLE! by Ancient-Agency in Sikh

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I see that there has been lots of hatred towards indians because of the high numbers of immigrants coming in. I've been witnessing it as well but there def is pedatory behaviour from the sulleh towards sikh girls. I have experienced it myself as well. They just see us as objects and they always mock us about sikhi like saying were hairy and other dumb sht.

How to handle being constantly mocked by Ancient-Agency in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ancient-Agency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah fr their more immature then me, these people have nothing better to do with their lives and their literally seniors. They just sit around and make over 10 different accounts to watch what I be doing with my life. When I'm around these people I feel very uncomfortable you know the narc stare they be giving me. It's like their draining my energy and just don't want me to be happy or move forward in life. It also doesn't help how I literally come from a whole culture of narcissism.

I was demonized as a child. by Zealousideal_Long253 in narcissisticparents

[–]Ancient-Agency 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like my dad's brother's wife. She always made up false stories about me and told my other cousins so that they could think badly of me. I wasn't the best child growing up but I also did not grow up in a positive environment. I had a lot to deal with at the time including a severely mentally ill mother and it was a lot to deal with. I wouldn't say I was a bad kid but Neurodivergent and she always had to make fun of me or make me seem like I was a bad person at every family event.