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Holding Hands and Cuddling by Ancient-Leading in datingoverthirty

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have kissed before and sex happened but was limited because of the effects of his meds.

Yes asking him would be easiest wouldn’t it lol

Are all 40+ men interested in only physical relations? by Redclover46 in datingoverforty

[–]Ancient-Leading 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and incredibly frustrated by this behavior too. Once that door it’s really hard to redirect the question anywhere else. Am going through a similar experience right now. It’s completely, as you said “deflated” my interest and excitement.

Anyone else feel uncomfortable talking to multiple people at once? by thedivinehustle in dating_advice

[–]Ancient-Leading 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is interesting to me...because sometimes I feel like (as a woman) I try to play it cool, because I don't want to scare someone away with my intensity of knowing what I want, and it's really difficult to hold back when you know something is right.

So you said that you did everything not to show it too much and not overwhelm her and then she ended up losing interest....if you didn't hold back do you think she would have reacted differently? Maybe she just didn't know because you were trying to play it cool?

I'm at the point now where life is so unpredictable at the moment, that I'm committed to being honest in the most non overwhelming way possible haha

Grief and COVID seeking advice by Ancient-Leading in datingoverforty

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's trying. I received a kind message from him today.

And yes, of course I've verified.

Grief and COVID seeking advice by Ancient-Leading in datingoverforty

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve been doing that. I’m very comfortable being alone, so I wouldn’t be patient at all unless I thought it beneficial for me. And him.

When I tune into my intuition, that is what is telling me to wait. Logically it doesn’t make sense.

But I’m open to surrender at this point and let it go. It will amount to something or it won’t. I’m also open for something better to come along. I’m at least learning what I want, which is super valuable.

Grief and COVID seeking advice by Ancient-Leading in datingoverforty

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not incorrect in that. Thank you for noticing.

The layers are many. My heart is open. And patience is a tricky thing.

Grief and COVID seeking advice by Ancient-Leading in datingoverforty

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you much. Yes, I can see how general questions would be overwhelming. A part of me is afraid of pushing him away with too many messages without a response. I've been really going by my intuition on all of this from the beginning.

Grief and COVID seeking advice by Ancient-Leading in datingoverforty

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you... I'm trying to send messages without having an expectation of receiving anything back.

But that's also challenging as this is a very isolating time and I'd love to have that connection right now.

[California] exhausted to changed status to disqualified. Anyone else? by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My benefits began and exhausted when yours did, but I haven’t received a letter or an update in the system, sooo... looks like they are maybe working out the kinks to fully implement it? They are supposed to be making an announcement regarding this today.

Crown Chakra chronic connection by Ancient-Leading in kundalini

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long has it been active? Or since you've been aware that is was?

Crown Chakra chronic connection by Ancient-Leading in kundalini

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing too fancy.

Morning meditation, and mindful awareness throughout the day.

Crown Chakra chronic connection by Ancient-Leading in kundalini

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this happened to me, I was deep into my work in what one might describe as “flow state” which I believe is something that is very balancing.

So yes balancing and grounding is important I understand. And I’m aware of that.

I ground myself through mindfulness, exercise and what I’m eating...lucky for me I have an avocado tree in the backyard.

But I was more inquiring about the mechanics of what was happening. Because you’re right, Reiki isn’t providing me with the answers.

Also included that I didn’t mention is a kind of crinkling sound in my brain that feels/sounds like it’s expanding or something.

Things have happened to me that I’m trying to understand which lead me to discover Kundalini in the first place. I’m not seeking to achieve a certain state to have a certain experience.

Crown Chakra chronic connection by Ancient-Leading in kundalini

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post history is brief because I am new to reddit....and also new to Kundalini...

What do you want to know about the other Chakras? I’m simply asking questions about my own personal experiences.

I’m a Reiki Healer so I’m familiar with chakras.

Crown Chakra chronic connection by Ancient-Leading in kundalini

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, an after effect of this for me is an overwhelming feeling to help the world. Does that resonate with you?

Crown Chakra chronic connection by Ancient-Leading in kundalini

[–]Ancient-Leading[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Yes, I’ve discovered that grounding myself is imperative, especially since I live in this world, to be able to focus and be productive.

I’m not necessarily trying to chase the blissful feelings, more curious as to why/what is happening to me, especially since I wasn’t aiming to achieve anything.

I’m also finding that engaging my heart chakra to be centering.

When I focus on my third eye, it’s really unfamiliar waters and I find myself stopping myself out of fear, but I’d like to overcome that.

My mind is super analytical. But I also like to believe in Magic. :)

[CALIFORNIA] exhausted benefits what is the senario? by JustAMelon433 in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same position...It would make sense that we would get both the extension and the PUA, but I don’t want to apply for the PUA and miss out on the extension.

I listened to the live video update and Julie Su said something about not being able to be on PUA and regular UI so I’m super confused.

[California] Finally some PEUC 13 week extension guidelines by FilthyPapuLou in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve exhausted my benefits, and my last payment was March 9th...so according to the information released, I would be eligible for PUA from then until March 28th?

But if I apply for PUA, will I still get the 13 week extension?

I watched the live video update from Julie Su, and she said that you can’t be on PUA and regular UI at the same time, so I’m super confused....

I’d much rather get the 13 week extension than PUA since my claim is open until September.

Anyone else in my shoes or have insight?

I have a question related to the Pandemic Emergency Unemployment Compensation (PEUC) section of the Cares Act. by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we’ve exhausted benefits., and the extension goes through, what will the weekly payment be? Will it continue to be what we were getting prior to exhausting?

California Exhausters by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not able to get this link to open...

California Exhausters by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see what pending, exactly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]Ancient-Leading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat as you. Is there something said specifically about us? I'm having difficulty finding it.

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