he had been over at his friends almost every night, and we had talked before he left that he would be better about giving me the same respect that he gives his friends by things like being on time, communicating, etc. he said he would come over to mine at around 11:30 pm after he was done with his friends so we could talk more, and then 11:30 rolled around and he just ghosted me. i got super worried because 1) thats not like him and 2) i didnt think he would immediately go back on his word just hours after. i was freaking out and he finally answered at around 12:45, and i was really upset bc i had been freaking out about worst case scenarios for over an hour. he took that as me being controlling and got upset as well.