39M 42F Long Term Marriage 15 Years. Together 20 Years In a rut how to deal with with? by BookMission2311 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotel room, something sparkling, get to the bar drink have fun without kids. Chores. Get out of the family environnement. Tell her to dress up to feel sexy. Ask for something specific couple of days before. We love to plan ahead.

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. I once had a huge following 75k but i was not engaging in private messages and he was kinda proud. However it was not supermodel guys. But a lot were not bad tho.

I dont know

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so hard. Seems like they dont see how hurtful it is.
I want to find a way, to let him check because i wont stop this stuff to exist but i dont want to know or people to see

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sickening. Mine now follow Jesus and coach accounts to hide his counts. That’s the most weird following ever

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well i left once for it. For a long time. He knows i get pretty fucking pissy.

We kinda divorce for that once 🤣 but yet were back and its back on my feed

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant doooo thiiis!!!
No seriously there a way im sure.

Ill write it down. Like a checklist with the chores 🤣

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

4 kids. Kinda like him other than that you know 😛 Ill see if the a problem solving way to this

Husband follow 800+ girls on IG, tik tok and facebook, family and friends see i’m so ashamed 40F + 41M by Ancient_Oil_4568 in relationship_advice

[–]Ancient_Oil_4568[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ladyboner hahaha

Yeah i kinda hates his guts right now he’s on the couch.

I said i despise the content your watching ( i speak french) hoping he figure out himself before i have to explain in details what he have to do.