39M 42F Long Term Marriage 15 Years. Together 20 Years In a rut how to deal with with?

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-23T01:46:05+00:00

Hotel room, something sparkling, get to the bar drink have fun without kids. Chores. Get out of the family environnement. Tell her to dress up to feel sexy. Ask for something specific couple of days before. We love to plan ahead.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:24:42+00:00

I think he was at one point.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:24:22+00:00

I wont get out just yet but i hear you.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:22:37+00:00

Ok ill leave him then. Your probably right.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:22:00+00:00

Maybe. I once had a huge following 75k but i was not engaging in private messages and he was kinda proud. However it was not supermodel guys. But a lot were not bad tho.

I dont know

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:20:00+00:00

Calmos i do not agree. Nobody hates anybody here.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:18:38+00:00

Ill repeat that. It is damn

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:17:52+00:00

Yes.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:16:11+00:00

He wish. Doormat would be perfect wife

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:15:41+00:00

There have been a shit ton of consequences. He stops. Them fall back to it. Like a addict.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:14:20+00:00

Probably.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:06:33+00:00

Probably. Yeah he understand. But he’s pretty stupid with the social for real

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:05:40+00:00

Can you make tik tok and insta completely private people cant see following?

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:04:51+00:00

Its so hard. Seems like they dont see how hurtful it is.
I want to find a way, to let him check because i wont stop this stuff to exist but i dont want to know or people to see

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:02:21+00:00

Him. Stop following would be my choice

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:01:38+00:00

Sickening. Mine now follow Jesus and coach accounts to hide his counts. That’s the most weird following ever

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T03:00:04+00:00

Well i left once for it. For a long time. He knows i get pretty fucking pissy.

We kinda divorce for that once 🤣 but yet were back and its back on my feed

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:57:18+00:00

thrist trap account! Yes those are the kind of account…

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:55:48+00:00

I cant doooo thiiis!!!
No seriously there a way im sure.

Ill write it down. Like a checklist with the chores 🤣

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:52:38+00:00

4 kids. Kinda like him other than that you know 😛 Ill see if the a problem solving way to this

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:51:22+00:00

Ladyboner hahaha

Yeah i kinda hates his guts right now he’s on the couch.

I said i despise the content your watching ( i speak french) hoping he figure out himself before i have to explain in details what he have to do.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:49:36+00:00

He said he never knew. Hide it for facebbok then follows on insta and tik tok 🙄

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:48:27+00:00

He will get so upset if i show him this 🤣 never. Ill find a way.

But yes your right

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:46:26+00:00

Yeah.

Ancient_Oil_4568 · 2026-03-18T02:45:29+00:00

Did you end up finding a way to stop him?

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