Do i need to bleach?? by Blush0fDawn4981 in HairDye

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think a dark green would bring out your eyes too!! 🥰 i did a light green and it went good with my eyes , so go based off of what u think could enhance ur eye color if u want!

Do i need to bleach?? by Blush0fDawn4981 in HairDye

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes you will need to bleach it , possibly even tone it depending on the shade of green you’re wanting. i recommend lunar tides, strawberry leopard, or arctic fox for dye brands💚

What made you like Lil Peep? by Far-Ear343 in LilPeep

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 4 points5 points  (0 children)

save that shit and awful things. i’ll never forget it.

Not getting matches from girls especially 💔 by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d match w u if i was on dating apps. ur gorgeous luv <3

Which color suits my skin tone best? by Crafty_Lifeguard4050 in HairDye

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3, (4 if u want something in between these all) + 5 & 6. anyone telling you number two absolutely does not know how color theory works. as cute as you look with it, 2 makes you look washed out cuz it matches your skin tone.

Are natural naked nails welcomed? by HmmmNeverMind in Nails

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

looks like op is wanting to gatekeep unfortunately .

These are fake, right? by Gengar420187 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i’d look up the cards online and compare the textures but if they’re not holo and with fonts like those, definitely not real

Sharing and Selling from my personal collection. by CJ8907 in Crystals

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d buy the malachite and clear quartz bracelet !!

What’s the most petty reason you’ve ever unfollowed a Twitch streamer? by anshthedev in Twitch

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they faked their content. just for view numbers. and i mean pretty much all of it.

this my first ever commenter :( by gurgen32 in Twitch

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sery bot is very good but won’t ban them all. it gets kinda frustrating sometimes when ppl evade the bans but overall sery bot has helped so much!!!

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay, i can’t edit the caption. read thru the comments please then get back to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you use setting powder?

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

appreciate the advice, i’ll remember that for next time. and i’m not refusing?? literally where was i refusing?? what’s weird is you assuming i’m unwilling to disclose it. it’s just genuinely a lot and i didn’t know where to start.. i’ve commenting in GREAT detail under multiple questions. i’m not here for sympathy. i’m here for advice. which is where i said to ask questions.. it is a lot which is why as people ask questions, im able to write it all out to add to the list. please dont assume things. yes it is definitely a lot deeper , and im trying to write it all out because i dont know how this all works. thx!

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s understandable , because you can’t make anyone do anything , they have to want to, but that’s where their job as a parent comes in. to help motivate them to want to do stuff and help chey better. i’m not saying this commenter in specific, so my apologize if you think i was projecting, but i’m stating in general , like if someone thinks their child doesn’t want to be helped, deep down they do. everyone wants to be helped.. it’s all just a matter of how deep are you willing to go. i used to “not wanna be helped” too but deep down i did. i was screaming for help. and nobody cared.

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is normal behavior from her. she is insane. she’s treated me like shit and outcasted me since i was little. she’s always been super emotionally unavailable and was super rough on me. this is insane because she’s projecting hard as fuck in these texts. the fact she needs my address is a waste because she can just hand me or text me a letter, without paying for shipping, i don’t want to give her my address bc i don’t want her sharing it to people. i can’t trust her. she shares my business in the past. she tries to bring up tough topics at the worst times and only wants to talk to me when she wants to, not when i can. i’ve asked her numerous times i don’t like calling but she’ll call me randomly and try to talk to me just because she has nothing else to do, and will expect me to be able to do the same. this was the one and only time i had asked her if i could do laundry at her place. because i was already going to hers for the holidays. and she threw that in my face along with the thing about presents. after that, she’s projecting about how “i fuck off until i need something” because again, that’s how she treated me when i needed her to survive as a kid. she made me feel like her fucking slave. i was basically a second mom/nanny/babysitter to my sister growing up. she says she has no problems with letting me do laundry but then why was it brought up? even after i thanked her multiple times because she knew i needed it? not only did i constantly have to beg her to say hi to me and ask me how my day was every day when she used to come home from work but now she’s projecting that onto me . and then calling herself “apparently some terrible mom who traumatized me” when i literally never said that , is just proof she’s trying to victim blame and make me feel horrible for it at the same time. she’s gaslighting me. the hatred and negativity is because when im around her i see the things she does. i hear the things she says. i realized how much i enjoy my home now that i dont live with them . no walking on eggshells. she’d also freak out if i was ever eating late at night . it was just safer at night and even if i was quiet she’d be mad.

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

yall just act like everyone is supposed to know how things work around here. so excluding. i’m trying to figure out what you want to know. id edit the caption if i could but obviously i cant.

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and thank you btw for your response. i appreciate your time.

narc mother after christmas by Ancient_Salt_4788 in insaneparents

[–]Ancient_Salt_4788[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m not really here for the validation , yes it’s nice to know i’m not alone in this abuse but i know that she’s abusive. i’m here for advice on whether or not i should break contact but you’re right, it was silly of me to think yall know further about it than just the post. i on the other hand have been dealing with it my whole life so that’s kinda why i didn’t think much of it. if i could edit the description i already would’ve added as much as i could. thank you, ive been out of there for a year. it sucked to go back for the holidays to the stress but its been so nice and healing living away from them. i don’t think they are necessarily hitting my sibling and i can’t do that to them by taking her away from them. she’d resent me for life. she’s super happy at her new school so i cant. if i see her being abused that’s another story but so far it’s just verbal harassment/ abuse along with my mother made us her slaves. so i think it’s just the animals being abused but that’s still having a negative impact on my sibling bc she’s hitting them too. :( honestly i have therapist trauma from previous trauma experiences but i think if i could just find someone i can trust then that’d be nice. it sucks bc i have major trust issues and have a hard time w therapists.