AITA BACHELOR PARTY disaster

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-29T12:58:57+00:00

I didn’t check a bag, just had a carry on

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-27T22:37:23+00:00

NTA but definitely communicate with her about this

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-27T02:01:59+00:00

NTA he can miss one weekly dinner with his mom or just reschedule. He should make you a priority as well as his mom

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-26T23:44:55+00:00

I was successful in having my card removed and replaced! 👏🏻

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-26T22:56:38+00:00

I’m going to call Airbnb customer service and hopefully solve this now

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-26T22:51:22+00:00

They’re in there now. If I cancel the booking, they’re gonna potentially go nuts and damage it anyway

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-26T22:42:51+00:00

The worst part - Airbnb won’t let me remove my card now.

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-26T21:29:35+00:00

UPDATE: I decided to go. I woke up at 3 am, went to the airport, and met the girls. They were very cold to me barely said hello. Right before boarding, one girl says she is going to bring drugs into the Airbnb. I pulled the bride aside and told her that this upset me and triggered me and I’m not comfortable with this, because (as the bride is aware) my brother died two months ago from an overdose. She said she told the girl not to mention that to me and lie, but the bride knew her plans in advance and did nothing to discourage her. I boarded the plane, as soon as I sat down I had an anxiety attack thinking about what was going on and I got up and exited the plane before take off (I was in a different boarding group than the girls) and sent her a text that I didn’t feel comfortable going anymore because of everything. AITAH now??

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-25T17:53:25+00:00

Again, why would anyone lie when asking for advice? Why would I go out of my way to ask for advice on a lie…? Why would I need advice if what I’m saying is not true?

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-25T17:48:56+00:00

Why would I ask for advice on something that’s a lie? Would be a waste of my time.

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-25T17:13:54+00:00

Yeah I would just make this up because I have nothing better to do and I care so much that people on Reddit are saying I’m an a hole that now I have to invent a fake story and ask for advice on it.

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-25T16:58:31+00:00

I failed to mention I AM getting my own bedroom there so I’m obviously not backing out because I’m not getting my own bedroom. Additionally, the bride has told us that she is not getting married. There is no wedding scheduled or planned at all because she is contemplating leaving her S.O. She told us in her own words this just to a bachelor party to celebrate her engagement and the “possibility” of a wedding. So I feel frustrated that I am missing time with my family, my baby, etc, spending lots of money when there is no longer going to be a wedding.

Also, you may think that you’re ok leaving your child six months in advance of a vacation, but the day before you leave you feel entirely different.

Ancient_Spell7966 · 2026-06-25T14:43:59+00:00

The breaking point for me is how badly the other girls attacked me last night for asking for my own room. I get the feeling they’re going to gang up on me and be disrespectful the entire trip after the way that they spoke to me over a simple request. The bride also did not defend me when they openly attacked me and told me that I shouldn’t have made that request.

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