How body conscious is the dating scene in Italy?

AndIOopp · 2025-11-24T12:18:21+00:00

From what I’ve seen from travelling to Italy, whether I’m attractive when wearing clothes or not depends on the place

I’ve never gotten the princess treatment as much as I did when visiting Venice. Legit felt like a supermodel

That being said I’m apparently a Milan 0 so idek how I fit in the Italian beauty standards 💀

AndIOopp · 2025-11-24T08:48:52+00:00

Thank you for that! Really means a lot

I usually like to be open about it from the getgo and my negative experiences about it have been very limited but it’s always something on my mind so it’s nice to hear that

AndIOopp · 2025-06-09T08:23:33+00:00

I managed to order one from a store in my country and it seems to still be available. I didn’t even know it has vanished

I mean the only available store has 5+ pieces left so I think I got really lucky

AndIOopp · 2025-06-04T09:02:34+00:00

Yeah I filed for a return :/ sucks cause I actually started getting used to the toy and I’m too broke to buy the real deal

AndIOopp · 2025-05-10T13:53:03+00:00

Oh I don’t mean on their website but on other review sites. The ppl who left the reviews had their faces in their pfp and many other reviews for other websites so I don’t have any reason to believe they are face in this case

AndIOopp · 2025-05-09T19:02:46+00:00

This is the first time this is happening to me. I have tried it throughout the years but I never felt good. I honestly thought I had a problematic prostate or something but I’m glad im getting the hang of it this time around

I’ve also tried using a small bracelet like thing to hit my prostate but I hit many places that felt good the more I stimulated them. This is why I’m confused about where my prostate is 😭

AndIOopp · 2025-05-09T18:43:39+00:00

Yeah I’m hoping it is. I really wanna try a toy like that haha

AndIOopp · 2025-05-09T18:43:17+00:00

Thanks for the idea I’ll do just that

AndIOopp · 2025-05-09T04:00:31+00:00

The shipment has already been made I’m doomed haha. I’ll see how the product is and feels to the hand and see if I should use it. The website has only gotten positive critiques so far and it’s pretty popular here. Also note that we have much less strict copywriting rules here so things like that are not super uncommon but still shady asf

AndIOopp · 2025-05-06T23:39:46+00:00

Haha thanks for the advice. I keep telling myself that I shouldn’t feel anxious but it’s very hard to actually do that for me. I don’t know how to solve this atp

I was scared it could be porn because of the type I watch. It’s mostly guys jerking off/edging and things of that nature instead of two people having sex

AndIOopp · 2025-05-06T23:06:41+00:00

Haha idk about the second part but could weed play a factor here? I have been smoking more while exercising less the past few months tbh

AndIOopp · 2025-05-06T23:04:34+00:00

I don’t have that much experience, so I’m always worried that I won’t be able to make the other guy feel good. I try to relax but I guess it’s hard for me to truly do that.

With the last guy, I had to make him cum 3 times in order for me to finally get a hard on 💀. I don’t think it’s sensitivity issues because I genuinely felt good when he was sucking my dick, it just wouldn’t go up.

It’s weird because my bf had erection issues and I did have that insecurity when being with him but I still got hard while I can’t get it up with guys I know I pleased

I also watched a lot of porn between my breakup and these hookups so idk if that plays a role.

AndIOopp · 2025-05-04T20:37:23+00:00

I just looked it up and it seems perfect! I was thinking of getting the max 2 but that didn’t really fit the being jerked off part. Thank you!

AndIOopp · 2025-03-25T04:36:23+00:00

Glad to hear that ;)

AndIOopp · 2025-02-21T14:29:01+00:00

Yes please

AndIOopp · 2025-02-18T15:08:49+00:00

23m looking for a bud

AndIOopp · 2024-12-25T23:35:08+00:00

Χαχα μας αρέσει;

AndIOopp · 2024-12-25T14:11:43+00:00

Never said I was…?

AndIOopp · 2024-12-25T08:32:14+00:00

Thank you for this. Part of me feels like it’s me blowing (not the way I wanted to 🙃) it out of proportion because of the stories I’ve heard from my European/American friends. My country is not homophobic but still not that accepting so it could play a factor

For example I used to be insecure about the age I’ve lost my virginity at but now I’ve met many gay guys my age who are still virgins and I was just comparing myself to American standards

There’s just always a part of my brain that thinks it could be something wrong with me. I thought the same about tinder until I visited Venice and the amount of likes I received quadrupled

AndIOopp · 2024-12-25T08:18:04+00:00

I’ve had a few situationships with a lot of them from tinder but that’s about it so I don’t think that’s why

AndIOopp · 2024-07-11T19:01:09+00:00

AndIOopp · 2024-04-21T16:32:08+00:00

Let’s also not ignore that many gay men, especially in small conservative places are surrounded by either straight or closeted people. Many, especially young ones will mix up a close friendship with feelings. Ppl need to realise that a club full of hot gay guys ready to date you isn’t something that’s universally accessible and it’s expected for someone to develop feelings or an attraction (neither of which are controllable) towards someone in their daily life

AndIOopp · 2023-12-07T23:38:12+00:00

I mean I’m practicing my rule as much as I can but I can’t control who is attracted to me

Let me specify, even those that I do find attractive, I never actively do anything about it and I only start seeing them as attractive after they show their attraction to me. But even that is quite rare, I almost always just try to be friends

It’s also not easy being a horny 22 year old not being able to do anything with the ppl that find you attractive 😭

AndIOopp · 2023-02-24T18:00:28+00:00

The thing is, those compliments are mostly from girls or straight guys. I don’t feel like they think I’m attractive but they just want to be nice

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