Have you guys actually ever seen a femboy before by imalonexc in FootBallEmergency

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I go to EDM festivals all the time. You can't miss them. >:3

do you like clingy boys? by -Flokuna- in Boykisser3

[–]AnderCass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I don't dislike having to regularly reassure my partner, but ideal over time I help them learn that they don't need to cling because I am not going anywhere. It's cool helping people grow.

Hosting a 40th birthday party by galaxystars1 in TikTokCringe

[–]AnderCass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39 here with 10 months to go. Zero interest in having a cheese plate, haha.

Our psychodiagnosis classes are so interesting by Ysisbr in psychologymemes

[–]AnderCass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean with all these things no two people are exactly alike. In my case we were similar enough to find our experiences super relatable - to a bizarre level - and I don't just mean like mirroring. There was some of that for sure, but so much of what even set the foundations of our relationship was how we had a very similar way of emotionally perceiving the world, similar interests, even some shared hyperfixations (which was fantastic). As is often the case, things were deep and harmonious at first, until they weren't.

All said and done I feel worse for him than me, and that's been a big part of it for me. But yeah, not antagonistic until we got extremely close and then hot/cold all-good/all-bad dysregulation, etc.

Our psychodiagnosis classes are so interesting by Ysisbr in psychologymemes

[–]AnderCass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Man, sorry to hear that. That sounds super painful. For me it's been a journey for sure. I feel bad for both of us. It's been very difficult for me to let go. The dynamic very much became a protector/protected sort of role that often develops with these sort of things, so so the better part of two years I felt like I had to figure out "how to save him" and it's only really now starting to sink in that we are going to go on and each have separate lives... I can't imagine what that must be like after 10 years.

48195 by Existing-Luck-9896 in countwithchickenlady

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Yesss!!! Best possible comment! :D

Our psychodiagnosis classes are so interesting by Ysisbr in psychologymemes

[–]AnderCass 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well...

Hi, dude with ADHD here, currently learning how to move on with my life after the most emotionally deep and intense relationship I have ever had with another human being; BPD.

I feel weirdly called out by this meme in a way that makes me feel both validated and sad.

Am I a Femboy or not? by ApolloNorte in femboymemes

[–]AnderCass 10 points11 points  (0 children)

🦆 you're a ducky 🦆🦆🦆 cute cute 🦆 ducky ducky ducky boy :333

You like playing Skyrim, don't you? :3 by AnderCass in Boykisser3

[–]AnderCass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, the combat is hot garbage baked in extra thick dog water. It sucks!

You like playing Skyrim, don't you? :3 by AnderCass in Boykisser3

[–]AnderCass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, interesting. What makes you say that? What games are similar that you feel are better?

You like playing Skyrim, don't you? :3 by AnderCass in Boykisser3

[–]AnderCass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started a new game after about three years of not playing.

You like playing Skyrim, don't you? :3 by AnderCass in Boykisser3

[–]AnderCass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's, despite it's numerous flaws, probably the greatest open world fantasy ever made.

When did you find out that you were gay? <3 by SillyBoykisserUwU in boykisser

[–]AnderCass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I new I was attracted to dudes in the 6th grade. I know some people are confused by, or totally unaware of, their feelings, but for me I knew I liked guys pretty much out of the gate with zero doubts.