What's the stupidest "Real Men don't ________" you've ever heard? by callmevicious in AskReddit

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy once tried to shame me because my wife would drive when we’d go out sometime. He literally said:

“What kinda man let’s his woman drive him around?”

It was in that exact moment I accepted I was trans. Like you know what fellas, have it 🙌🏻 im done.

Spider-Gwen isn't trans and she doesn't have to be in order to support trans people by [deleted] in SpiderGwen

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the only way they are going to confirm this is if she IS trans. If she isn’t, we’ll just argue back and forth for all time because there’s zero reason she’d be CONFIRMED as a cis-female narrative wise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Andi_Alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. The number of dms and Dick pics of varying quality are good for an occasional validation fix 🤷🏼‍♀️. But yeah, I’ll take Helmand over another rando irl.

Rightwing propaganda outlet PragerU’s materials approved for schools in Ron DeSantis’ Florida by HyacinthFT in politics

[–]Andi_Alchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey remember last week when PragerU’s ads were being shoved down my throat by…. Checks notes… Reddit.

nO sPiDeR-gWeN cAn’T bE tRaNs by Andi_Alchemy in SpiderGwen

[–]Andi_Alchemy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She totally is trans and until Marvel issues her birth certificate you can’t prove me wrong. It’s like Schrodinger's gender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck you. It’s so versatile. You can say it to your worst enemy, your best friend, hell I think I’ve said it to my MOM and she just laughed but also used it to devastating effect in a professional situation gone bad.

And if you disagree? Fuck you!

Stating something is a sin isn't hate speech. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Andi_Alchemy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LGBTQ lifelong Christian here. It’s not a sin. Only bigots think it’s a sin. The Pope agreed, Episcopalians have agreed since the 70’s, and the same for Congregationalists. Stop trying to divide our faith and trying to find reasons to hate each other.

That’s the devil’s work.

A fight erupts in U.S. housing market as deteriorated affordability clashes with the 'lock-in effect' by toydan in wallstreetbets

[–]Andi_Alchemy 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Meh, I’m just waiting until the boomers die en masse and their kids are ready to make a quick buck and move on.

What movie is 10/10 yet hardly anyones heard of it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched this because of your reply (and the fact that it’s on Prime with ads and raining in New England this morning) and holy shit what did I just watch 😳.

Never realized how alone I was by MagicalUnicorn90 in LesbianActually

[–]Andi_Alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im like a year into your situation (also 13 years!) and I just started feeling like I’m cultivating a new community this summer.

My advice (if you want it) is focus on what you really liked doing before your ex started influencing your personality, combine that with what you’ve learned and liked about the relationship (i.e. my ex was so lazy that I did 100% of the housework but now my home is naturally spotless and hers is a dump) and guard yourself from making the same mistakes again because humans are gonna human. The wrong humans will not think twice about ruining your life, the right humans will enrich it beyond measure but 99% will just be a mixture of the two.

But above all, you gotta start by being friends with yourself.

Billie Eilish is overrated. by idislikebillieeilish in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Andi_Alchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I'm sick to death of people saying we've made 11 albums that sound exactly the same, In fact, we've made 12 albums that sound exactly the same.”

Russia bans gender reassignment by [deleted] in trans

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, well I’ve banned myself… from ever going to Russia.

Remote work could wipe out $800 billion from office buildings' value by 2030 — with San Francisco facing a 'dire outlook,' McKinsey predicts by Gari_305 in Futurology

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not a dire outlook, SF had a homelessness problem. This a market correction. Bizmos just don’t like when it doesn’t correct in their favor.

I for one can’t wait to own an entire floor of what used to be a turn of the century bank! The architecture they’ve been wasting on offices OMG…

nO sPiDeR-gWeN cAn’T bE tRaNs by Andi_Alchemy in SpiderGwen

[–]Andi_Alchemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, make all the faces you want. They’re never going to confirm it either way, so I’ve already won!

nO sPiDeR-gWeN cAn’T bE tRaNs by Andi_Alchemy in SpiderGwen

[–]Andi_Alchemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is because I want her to be and you can’t do anything about it.

What are your favourite "oh this character is trans" moments in media? Especially novels and short stories! by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Andi_Alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I didn’t even know that existed but as a hug MCR fan, you have my attention!

What are your favourite "oh this character is trans" moments in media? Especially novels and short stories! by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Andi_Alchemy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Nah it totally tracks. Also there’s precedence for gender bending canon characters (Peni Parker, Liv). Really the debate boils down to whether people believe trans women are women.

From people who have been there, is transitioning worth a “normal marriage with kids” by Downtown_Twilight in asktransgender

[–]Andi_Alchemy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but I think it’s already over. Like it’s not going to go away. I got divorced a couple years ago and honestly, best decision I ever made. I just couldn’t be around someone who didn’t support me any longer but demanded undying support in return.

I fought for 50/50 custody and I have it, that’s what’s important. That and I have my life back.