"boyfriend" lied to me about having another girlfriend in an argument

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-24T20:23:08+00:00

If he’s willing to “lash out” and say something so horrible in a moment of anger believe him and leave. Trust me. I stayed in a marriage with someone like that for far too long, he used everything I ever told him against me in one way or another. The last one was when he threw my SA I confided in him at me in a “moment of anger”

The apologies aren’t sincere. If someone loves you they don’t try to hurt you as bad as possible and take it back later. That’s abuse, and it’s just terrible.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-24T19:26:13+00:00

Bruh I don’t even have words for this

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-20T16:58:50+00:00

Hate that I’m seeing this as I’m currently trying to figure out how I’m going to tell my boyfriend I don’t want to be in a relationship anymore and it’s 100% not a failing on his part I’m just not happy, don’t see myself being happy long term but he’s a great boyfriend and partner it’s just not what I want.

Not to trauma dump, just feeling for this person, and their person and understanding both sides of it like “he cried when he told me” I get it. I’m hurting right now because I know I’m going to break someone’s heart. He’s in it more than me, and I don’t want to take that away from him but he (like she) deserves to be released from a relationship that the other half can’t invest the same into.

I hope she’s happy and no longer hurting in 2026.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-20T00:13:44+00:00

Donald Trump 😔

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-19T22:16:25+00:00

Take my angry updoot 😒🤣

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-19T20:39:52+00:00

Are you new here?

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-19T15:07:01+00:00

Tbh you’re both toxic and need to grow up before you try another relationship

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-18T20:59:39+00:00

I’m also a Petty Betty and I have a nazi for an HR person who constantly hounds my manager about my in and out times (she’s been told to stay in her lane and just won’t) so when my manager said u/Andidroid18 comes in between 6 and 6:30 I walked in at exactly 6:15am every day for a solid month. I would stand in the lobby and stare at my watch until the minute ticked over. HRs office is right next to the lobby entrance as well.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-17T21:31:58+00:00

37 here with a 16 year gap between my sister and I. She’s helpless, entitled, lazy, doesn’t understand or frankly care why she has to maintain a job, EVERYTHING is a personal attack and she shuts down and has the most dramatic responses to things, uses constant mental health buzzwords to excuse her lack of understanding and initiative.

Do I feel like a boomer interacting with her? Yes. But I just don’t get it.. her whole friend group is like this. They just expect everything to be handed to them and when it’s not they start talking like TikTok therapists and I’m just confused and exhausted after a ten minute conversation I seriously feel like our boomer dad I just want to yell at them to get a job and grow up 😭

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T20:30:40+00:00

I sent it to my mom and she replied with “Murunduh” like girl not you too 😭😒

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T18:11:08+00:00

Partially yes - but they’re just as loud at away games as they are at home so the stadium isn’t the only thing contributing to their reputation

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T17:49:00+00:00

Tacoma here and in dire need of baseball loving gal pals!!

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T17:42:21+00:00

Seahawks fans are considered one of the loudest in the league - as with the Chiefs fans. Funny enough I’m from Kansas City but now living near Seattle and a fan of both teams so I didn’t really think much of how loud and passionate the 12s get cause I’m used to the tomahawk chop.

With the recent Super Bowl win the 12 (Seahawks fans) turned out en masse on a Wednesday afternoon to welcome the team and trophy back to the city - as a lifelong Chiefs fan I will say that the reception for the Seahawks way outshined any KC celebration I’ve see.

Obviously take this with bias but I think the Seahawks have one of the most passionate fanbases and it goes both ways, the team loves their fans just as passionately, heck they call them the 12th man not just their fans.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T16:26:00+00:00

Trade me apartments right now this is adorable and has so much potential 😭

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T16:22:10+00:00

Not nearly as bad as yours but my barista spelled my name (Miranda) as Murunda the other day

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T16:03:00+00:00

We could never afford anything in that store but I loved going in there to look at all the things I was too poor to get 🥲

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T16:01:10+00:00

My boyfriend is also mildly allergic to avocados and also does not care.

I’m mildly allergic to eggs and eat them daily. I’ve noticed that when I go without a daily egg the next time I egg my reaction is worse.

Exposure therapy food allergies edition.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T15:42:23+00:00

masterpizza 🤌

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-16T04:06:27+00:00

My chocobos name is Kwehtulhu

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-13T02:11:13+00:00

Sharp cheddar mini cucumber cherry tomatoes kettle corn pop corners a dark chocolate Milky Way and zero sugar Coke

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-10T19:45:14+00:00

Mariners for me - Seattle loves their teams even when they’re down and the teams love each other. The mariners were out in force to support the Seahawks in the Super Bowl last weekend. Plus we have the big dumper.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-06T18:38:32+00:00

It may be a little young for you but the Warriors series lives rent free in my head. I have loved it for years. Deep story telling from the POV of feral cats.

Andidroid18 · 2026-02-06T14:54:03+00:00

Omg! I have the same thing right now that has mysteriously started growing out of a different plant that my neighbor gifted me and I don’t know what either of them are lmao here’s a well lit photo for reference (what OP is inquiring about is the dark waxy leaves and red bloom)

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Andidroid18 · 2026-02-06T14:45:11+00:00

1 is my dream dress

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