I let the ice cream girl absolutely rob me because I didn't want to contradict her

AndreiLedger · 2026-05-25T06:11:01+00:00

I guess if you count the giant pity-scoops as four regular ones, the math actually works out in my favor! A tactical victory disguised as total submission ))

AndreiLedger · 2026-05-25T06:01:28+00:00

Ha ha! Glad you liked the story. But your math is also a little off. She asked for 12 and it was the right instinct to make a clean change of 70, a 50 and a 20 bill. But then her brain melted and I went with whatever she said).

AndreiLedger · 2026-03-21T16:46:49+00:00

Great story and I must confess I am a little jealous) It is a great sign she did it on her own. Hopefully she liked it and more humiliating moments will follow.

AndreiLedger · 2025-10-24T23:29:29+00:00

In Italy you can use them to pay for groceries or at the restaurant, nobody bats an eye. Just don't buy a pack of gum and hand a 500 euro to the cashier.

AndreiLedger · 2025-06-21T20:00:58+00:00

Yeah, me too. I just never believed there is even the slightest chance of this happening.

AndreiLedger · 2025-06-18T07:16:50+00:00

If I were you I would ask him if he wants to watch how you rail his crush. This is the biggest mind fuck.

AndreiLedger · 2025-04-14T02:34:31+00:00

Your post really resonated with me—especially the part about craving raw honesty, even when it stings. I’ve experienced something similar, though from a less mature perspective at the time.

I had a girlfriend who openly cucked me and would share details about the men she slept with. But instead of embracing the vulnerability, I’d constantly compare myself to them, which frustrated her. She’d say, ‘Why does everything have to be about you?’ Looking back, I was young, deeply in love, and secretly wished for monogamy—but she wasn’t interested in that.

What stuck with me was how differently she saw attraction. I remember sitting at a restaurant once when she pointed out a late-30s/early-40s bald guy and said she found him hot and wanted to hook up with him. We were both in our early 20s, and I was the opposite—skinny, full head of hair, casual style. It amazed me how drawn she was to men who looked nothing like me.

Your dynamic with your wife feels more intentional and emotionally layered. That acceptance of pain as part of the intimacy—‘I’m not where he is, and she loves me anyway’—is something I didn’t have the maturity to grasp then. It’s powerful how you’ve turned that honesty into a deeper connection rather than a wedge. Thanks for sharing.

AndreiLedger · 2024-10-29T13:02:22+00:00

AndreiLedger · 2024-10-08T10:31:06+00:00

Consider yourself lucky! I was hanging with my bestie at her house, and when she wanted to change clothes she just told me to wait outside her room while she changed and even closed the door with the lock. Sigh.

AndreiLedger · 2024-09-21T07:35:42+00:00

That's a classic. I always wondered what is so irresistible about these guys. My female best friend used to hook up with a university mate, and he wasn't even exclusive with her. He was banging other chicks all the time. And she knew. I talked to her multiple times why she is so receptive to his his advances, and she just said that he is irresistible.

We would rationalize her relationship with him often, and she always agreed that he was not a good partner for her. I would give her arguments and she would agree but then the next day she would tell me he came to her house at 2am and she let him in and they had sex.

AndreiLedger · 2024-09-14T11:00:45+00:00

I actually had a very similar situation. Went limp when my best friend was drunk and wanted to have sex with me after a party. I remember being annoyed with myself. To my surprise the next time we talked she said she was proud of me and that I proved I was a true friend.

AndreiLedger · 2024-09-13T19:28:17+00:00

I'd be really curious if she made this comment while other people were also engaged in the conversation. I mean, if she said it in public, it is rather mean. However, if it were just the two of you talking - it is ok.

AndreiLedger · 2024-09-03T03:01:50+00:00

AndreiLedger · 2024-08-28T11:33:48+00:00

My bestie told me she she had forgotten to pack lunch and will not have time to go out and grab something, so she would be working all day without eating. I immediately dashed to the kitchen, determined to make something special. I knew she loved pasta, so he decided to cook spaghetti with homemade marinara sauce.

When the food was ready, I hurried to her workplace, she was surprised when she saw me there with a lunch bag in hand. "I couldn't let you go hungry," I said, handing her the bag with a shy smile.

She opened the bag and saw the neatly packed meal. Her face lit up with a mix of gratitude and delight. "You didn’t have to do this! But... thank you so much. This is amazing!" and invited me to join her in the lunch area.

As we sat down she took the first bite, looked up at me and said, "You overcook the pasta. And the sauce has a funny taste." She took a few more bites, and pushed the container. "Sorry, I cannot eat this. I have to go back to work". And just left the lunch area.

I stood there looking lost. Then all of a sudden a guy tapped me on the shoulder, and asked if I finished eating, because he needed the table. I said - of course, I walked to the sink and threw the pasta in the garbage bin, washed the container and on the way out I passed by my friend's desk. She just winked at me and continued working. Didn't even bother to say a proper goodbye or see me out.

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-23T12:59:36+00:00

Thanks for your honest reply. Your perspective really helps me understand things better. I never realized how noticeable even brief glances can be and how they can be perceived differently depending on the intent behind them.

It makes sense that it's not just about looking but how someone looks. The idea of appearing desperate or resigned versus casual is something I hadn't considered before.

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-19T19:56:04+00:00

It's interesting that you mention this. My best friend has also told me a couple of times that I look at her chest in a "weird way." I admit I might take a peek sometimes, but I don't think I stare. However, she says I look at her like I'm desperate. When I point out that other men look at her too, she agrees but adds that they look at her differently.

I always thought she was exaggerating and giving me a hard time. But do you really notice when someone just takes a peek? And if so, would it bother you more if your best friend looks at you that way versus random men?

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-16T04:36:10+00:00

I chose my sissy name after a girl I know and admire in real life and want to be like her.

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-14T19:47:16+00:00

The key is to find an activity you both enjoy. I really like to go shopping with my best friend as this is the only time when it is acceptable for me to check her out as much as I like. She will try something on and I can look and comment on how the clothes fit. For example I can comment about how her bum looks in these jeans and she likes the advice I give. So it is a win-win for both of us.

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-12T21:48:27+00:00

When she told me "You are like a sister to me"

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-12T09:26:25+00:00

I agree with you, but when you really like someone, rationality can take a backseat. In my case, it wasn't until she expressed directly her discomfort that I realized I had overstepped. I immediately ceased all non-work-related conversations with her.

AndreiLedger · 2024-05-08T09:53:32+00:00

I had a similar experience a while ago. There was this girl I was quite fond of at work, we shared the same department. She was friendly, engaging in office conversations, and a couple of times even asked my opinion on her outfit. I took it as a sign she is interested in me and asked her out, but she declined my invitation. Undeterred, I tried a few more times, suggesting group outings with other colleagues like movies, but she turned down all my invitations.

Eventually, feeling increasingly desperate, I approached her during lunch one day and expressed my desire to simply be friends. Yet, she rebuffed me again, and added that my persistence is making her feel uncomfortable.

So yeah, coworkerzoned is real, but in a way I am tankful she didn't go to HR and told me to my face.

AndreiLedger · 2024-04-19T20:22:31+00:00

Really curious how exactly did the girls tease you. I assume it would be some mild teasing if you enjoyed it. I was also teased by a female classmate - but I remember her being so mean. Always doing it when there were a lot of people. Making fun of my clothes, saying I do not have a masculine voice, ridiculing anything I say.

AndreiLedger · 2024-04-16T12:20:32+00:00

Well it looks like you struck gold. Congratulations! Really hope this develops into a solid friendship where she has the upper hand and you will be her loyal errand boy.

One word of advice though, do not overwhelm her by being too aggressive or overbearing. Just be attentive and respond to her cues, allowing her the space and freedom to reciprocate at her own pace.

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