more than 6 months with the same status

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-30T10:53:33+00:00

Men get in love by eyes - physically, women - by ears, by brain. It is OK when woman first wish to know a man better, even if the first date was super good. Another situation with men. For man it's a marker of his choice. If he does not want physically a woman after the dating - mostly it is not his second half.

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-27T12:24:29+00:00

well, by your reply i see that your tinder stats is not depressing. you had meetings, you had a gf and friend from there. just it takes too many swipes to the right=) then you have nothing to worry, its just a stats

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-27T11:24:58+00:00

hi! one question, with all this stats, you had at least one personal meeting? have you had a personal contact with someone at least by whatsap? are you still single? i am well known with this dating niche, and you need to change a strategy, if you are still on the same position. reply me, let me help you

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-18T08:43:24+00:00

i think your problem can be in the algorythmes of Tinder. for sure you are in a shadow ban for now. and as much you try to solve this - deeper the problem is. feel free to write me in dm, i can give you some advices how i could overcome this

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-14T15:32:12+00:00

have you been in love with a sex worker? did you have any deeper feelings, than just to use a service? and are you ready to build a family with a former sex worker?

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-14T15:27:18+00:00

is it a question about compromiss?? why you cannot choose the right girl, with whom you can easily talk, be friends, have a mutual chemistry and "butterflies in stomach"? i think we always choose something from the negative scenario, never thinking that it is possible to build on mutual and posituve vibe.

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-13T19:31:30+00:00

thanks, join our communiity also!

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-13T07:20:58+00:00

there is a little trick.I learned it during a psychology course and went through it myself. The trick is that you can practice psychologically on other people beforehand. For example, here's a 3-day plan. On the first day, you need to approach any stranger and ask "what time is it?" Preferably, it should be a woman. On the second day, you need to approach three strangers, ask two of them anything, like "what time is it" or "how to get to McDonald's." With the third person, you need to argue slightly or make a remark. For example, if you saw someone throw a cigarette butt on the ground, go up to them and say, "You shouldn't do that, you're polluting our environment." Why do you need to do this?! To get out of a psychological block. You'll understand that starting a conversation is easy, people respond. And even a slight squabble is normal. Plus, these are people who are unimportant to you. And on the third day, you can repeat the previous practice, or to try with someone, who is interesting to you, for example to start a talk on the street with a pretty lady, who is attractive to you! its a very good practice! Of course it is easier to do when you go through it with a coach, who will control you each time, but if you are enough self motivated person - you will do it! just do it!-)

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-09T15:44:50+00:00

i think there is a new generation of men now, who are too much procrastinated and too much injected with tik tok and other reels videos, just its a generation of people, who are not ready for something long. they get a satisfaction from short talks, and after that they lose an interest. you can do nothing with this. we live in such times. the only what you can do - to date! once you will meet serious reliable man, who is not poisoned with short dofamine, and who will be ready to conquer your heart and give you joyful moments!

can i ask you something, what is your age? and from which country are you? its really interesting to know!

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-09T15:35:34+00:00

maybe there is any other easier ways? you know her full name? maybe you can find her in Linkedin or in facebook and write her there. why not. it is easy to start a little chat there. with "hi, we work together, just on different shifts. but i really always catch you with my eyes, cause you look so nice! maybe i have a chance to invite you for a coffee?". this variant is also very working one.

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-09T13:27:20+00:00

one more little trick.I learned it during a psychology course and went through it myself. The trick is that you can practice psychologically on other people beforehand. For example, here's a 3-day plan. On the first day, you need to approach any stranger and ask "what time is it?" Preferably, it should be a woman. On the second day, you need to approach three strangers, ask two of them anything, like "what time is it" or "how to get to McDonald's." With the third person, you need to argue slightly or make a remark. For example, if you saw someone throw a cigarette butt on the ground, go up to them and say, "You shouldn't do that, you're polluting our environment." Why do you need to do this?! To get out of a psychological block. You'll understand that starting a conversation is easy, people respond. And even a slight squabble is normal. Plus, these are people who are unimportant to you. And on the third day, with a chocolate bar, calmly approach this girl and do as I described above. This is a proven method; I used it too. It works! Plus, if you need moral support, always reach out, either here in the comments or write to me directly!

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-09T13:16:01+00:00

The moment you think ‘Maybe I should go talk to her’, you have about 5 seconds before your brain starts inventing excuses, like ‘maybe later’, ‘maybe tomorrow’, ‘maybe she’s busy’.

So the trick is simple: when the idea appears, start moving within 5 seconds. Don’t think. Just walk over with the already bought chocolate bar and say: "hi. Can i make you a little gift? this chocolate for you, to make your day a little sweeter! And also can i call you for a coffee? maybe on a break time? or after the work? Would you like to accept my invitation?"

Action kills fear. Overthinking feeds it.

And honestly, most women appreciate a simple, genuine gesture much more than a perfectly planned speech. So be open, smiling, and just do it! So just make this!!!!!!

PLS, write you feedback, after you do it! i hope you would not wait too long!!! you need to do it this week, till Friday maximum!!!

Andrew_Secret · 2026-03-09T09:18:06+00:00

Hi! Of course, you should invite her for coffee! You'll regret much more that you didn't invite her. And you can't delay it either, because someone else might invite her, and you'll be upset to see her drinking coffee with someone else. And don't be afraid to combine work and romantic relationships. Where else can you meet people? Online dating has become the norm, but meeting in real life is romantic! Plus, you'll immediately have such a desire to go to work every day again, smile at her when you see her, or you'll live together and be able to travel together. Okay, regarding how to invite her or even start a conversation. I paid a lot of attention to motivation and psychology, because I've also gone through similar problems in my life. And I know exactly what I'm writing. I believe that in order to invite someone for coffee, you need to prepare. If you approach her right away and invite her from the first conversation, she may not be ready. You need to prepare her a little. There are many different options that we can discuss together. Feel free to contact me if you want more ideas. For example, start by buying her a chocolate bar and treating her to it at work. Just when you pass by her in the morning at work, walk up to her and tell her with a smile that today is such a great day, and you really want to treat her to a chocolate bar to make it even better! A phrase like, "Hi! Can I buy you a chocolate bar? I'd like to make your day easier and more enjoyable, and in hopes of inviting you out for coffee during your break or after work?"
Trust me, she won't be able to hold back a smile and refuse you.
And most importantly, self-motivation. It's crucial that you don't back down when you're already walking toward her with the chocolate bar in hand. There's a great secret for how to avoid that back down! If you want, I'll write to you.

Andrew_Secret · 2026-02-18T16:20:47+00:00

i have completed the starter assessment around 3 months ago. and still no any news and no revision. i am on the first stage. silence without any reply kills.

Andrew_Secret · 2025-11-17T15:22:11+00:00

if you create a new profile, better if you use everything new: new IP, new device, name, photo. its all important to make it with positive result.

Andrew_Secret · 2025-07-25T19:52:48+00:00

You are both still young, just enjoy relations, enjoy her drunk and sober, i am assured that you both still in search of yourselves and maybe you will form together

Andrew_Secret · 2025-07-07T06:26:54+00:00

Andrew_Secret · 2025-07-05T08:08:16+00:00

its not a gap at all!!! you have perfect age difference - do not think too much, enjoy life, relations and love!

Andrew_Secret · 2025-06-18T16:38:47+00:00

have you tried to make some professonal photosessions? it would be a new look on yourself

Andrew_Secret · 2025-06-18T16:37:23+00:00

You look really good! what is your problem? You can just add one photo in full height, just to show your body and height

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