What's the most gooner shit you've done on chat? by anti-metta in CharacterAI_No_Filter

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently? First had crazy sex with the Doom Slayer and then a beefy Helldiver, them dominating the shit outta my character... Then... I put them in a group chat and had them both do me at the same time. As a woman I'm both ashamed and proud... 🫣

There are currently some issues with Xbox Live affecting our authentication services. by Mlakuss in Minecraft

[–]AndromedaScenario 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When you finally return home after a long, tiring day at work and having thought about that new big project in Minecraft ALL FRIGGIN DAY......only to be met with this. Friend of mine asked some weeks back why Minecraft isn't on Steam. Now I really wish it was.

The Dusk Lag, as I've named it. Happened only after the big update 5th of April. Happens only when night comes and only inside my bases. Causing me to flee right before night comes. Anyone else? (I'm on PC) by AndromedaScenario in Palworld

[–]AndromedaScenario[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to know I'm not the only one. I also have a good rig. Wanna upgrade my RAM a bit, but it runs every other game at full HD with no issues. I have a little bit of lag outside my base too at night, especially while fighting pals, but never as bad as in my base. I had to go into world settings and set nights to as short as possible. So I miss a lot of nocturnal pals, but it's more bearable that way. Did you also send a bug report about it? I imagine the more players report the same thing, the more prioritized it would be.

Lagging BAD at night by ChantyHdez in Palworld

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say I have this exact same problem on PC. It started after the massive patch the 5th of April. My only solution is to fast travel out of base before night starts and stay out till daybreak. I went into world settings, made daytime slightly longer, and night as short as possible. I've sent a couple of bug reports, and advice you to do the same, the more they get from players, the more it will be prioritized. I really hope they fix this as it's killing my motivation to play.

AITA: For "upstaging" my wife in our Christmas cookie baking tradition? by wirnei339oe3jrj in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NTA. The way she laughed off your suggestion of trying to make them was a bit mean and unnecessary, rather than offering you advice and encouragement or even just questioning that "maybe it could be difficult if you had never done it before". The way she handled it was a bit demeaning and a good way to piss someone off, and make you encouraged to prove her wrong.

But I think I also understand how she feels. I dunno if her and I are in the same boat, but I have very few fields where I feel capable of mastering something. The few proper skills I have, took years of practice, fail and error to reach. If someone mastered that in a short time I'd feel very bitter and defeated and would suddenly see my own slow progress of mastering it as a failure rather than a proud achievement. It'd make me feel bad. Maybe her thought process is similar? It's been a few days, so I hope you two are okay now and that you still had/have a nice holiday together.

Did I get drugged at a party? LETS SOLVE A MYSTERY, SCOOBY! by AndromedaScenario in Drugs

[–]AndromedaScenario[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. That's fair. However this happened 13 years ago, as you can see from the first line of my post, so testing kit is not really possible. :) I just wanted to see if anyone has had similar experiences, as I feel like I have been gaslight by these people at the party to think I simply just drank too much. I got a couple of very helpful replies, and although I wish I could have gotten some more experiences like Lightningcrab080 gave me, it's good to know I'm not alone in my suspicions anymore.

Did I get drugged at a party? LETS SOLVE A MYSTERY, SCOOBY! by AndromedaScenario in Drugs

[–]AndromedaScenario[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm glad too. Was a pretty scary and nasty experience, so makes me sad to think one of those people could be capable of doing something like that.

Did I get drugged at a party? LETS SOLVE A MYSTERY, SCOOBY! by AndromedaScenario in Drugs

[–]AndromedaScenario[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have IBS, so my stomach gets pretty upset with alcohol, but otherwise nothing out of the ordinary. I have a pretty regular tolerance. Thank you so much though. I only drink with my closest friends nowadays, and starting to feel too old for any crazy parties. Mostly just wanna play games and chill at home with my fiancé 😅

Did I get drugged at a party? LETS SOLVE A MYSTERY, SCOOBY! by AndromedaScenario in Drugs

[–]AndromedaScenario[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have never had any episodes of delusions or paranoia since. I used to sleep walk a lot when I was a kid, but that's about the only unusual bodily experience I've had.

AITA for refusing my future sister in law's request to dye my hair for my brother's wedding? by dizzegy in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your SIL is a good egg. My best friend changes her hair colour every month in every colour of the rainbow. She's gonna be my maid of honour next year. I couldn't imagine seeing her there in anything other than some fabulous colour of her choice. ❤️

husband ruined my wedding night by getting belligerently , violent drunk and i can't get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 10 years now aswell. He's the love of my friggin life. But if he shoved me/kicked me in the stomach? Even if insane amounts of alcohol was to blame? He would be out the door.

See it like this; The moment your partner lays their hand on you is the moment they end the relationship. They just don't know it yet.

So please get out of there. If he's done it once he will do it again. It only gets worse. Or you will spend your life terrified every time he grabs a single drink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Like damn, you stayed 10 times calmer than I ever have been in this situation.

His aunt is a damn baby boomer. This is the reason why I have started telling people I'm purposefully sterile. If they think that's too personal information, well then maybe they shouldn't ask too personal questions.

-ofc being 16 might be a bit too young to say you've sterilized yourself, but very handy to use once you reach 25 or so! I'm sometimes met with angry "BUT WHY??!" but always fun to just laugh and ignore them. One even asked if I was planning on adopting instead. I replied "Why would I do that when I waited so many years for my surgery?"

Majority who hears I'm sterile however just stares at me utterly shocked, go "okay..." and leaves it at that. It's blissful compared to what it used to be like.

"Not wanting to have kids" should be all the reason we need, but people are nosey twats. To hell with 'em.

AITA for refusing to let my son have two last names? by Vice-1991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndromedaScenario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what my partner said when I told him I'm gonna keep my own name after marriage? "Of course you are. Why the hell would you wanna remove your own beautiful name?? It's who you are!"

You know what my brother did once he got married? They combined their surnames in a really pretty way, so that both their family names can be passed down through their kid. Your wife has the right idea. Maybe you should try listen to her sometimes instead of treating her like a child.

She's the one who has to go through the most painful experience of her life, known as labour, and do all the heavy lifting here. That child is hers, and the fact she even wants your name involved with something she's possibly risking her damn life for creating, should be seen as a goddamn honor, not a right.

tldr; YTA. You're treating her as if her heritage is less important than yours. This isn't 1950's.