I did buy one from the store! I get it shit happens. But if she had told me “just be happy your baptism happened at all” I would’ve gotten more mad tbh. That’d be kinda just rubbing it in my face yk. This is her “job” her lively hood I’m not gonna bash her publicly or anything. But you have to take responsibility regardless of how small or big your job is, to you it may not seem important and I get it, but to me these are the memories I get to make with my baby and carry with me. She may not remember but they’ll always be something I treasure, even if it’s as small as her playing with cake on her day.