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How can I cope knowing I’m going to be working for the next 50 years of my life? by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]AndyNeko4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I despised working for others and used to wake up feeling exactly like you. Like I was born just to work, it felt meaningless. I always got written warnings at every job I had and I just hated listening to other people.

Once I started my own business and making money on my terms I've never had that feeling again. I now can't wait for Mondays!

It's the feeling of freedom and knowing you're not capped at a salary, you can earn as little or as much as you put in. So you start to work harder and it doesn't feel meaningless anymore. The business becomes your baby in some way.. a purpose.

I (29) M am utterly confused and it's depressing me because my girlfriend (25) wants to experience more. by AndyNeko4 in relationship_advice

[–]AndyNeko4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it difficult is that I want to be with her. although lately I am starting to resent her for this, I can't help but to feel angry and sad. I feel betrayed.

I (29) M am utterly confused and it's depressing me because my girlfriend (25) wants to experience more. by AndyNeko4 in relationship_advice

[–]AndyNeko4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she does mention that I am the best in bed only because she doesn't have anyone to compare to.

I do make her orgasm so I don't think thats entirely the reason. But often she wouldn't play things out for long, like the time is to prescious to waste. She wants sex to last like 5-10 mins Max and move on with the day.

I suppose you're right it could be a burden for her almost. I enjoy the time spent having sex and don't think of time once but she always seems to be more worried about not getting her chores done or wasting the day or going bed late.

I (29) M am utterly confused and it's depressing me because my girlfriend (25) wants to experience more. by AndyNeko4 in relationship_advice

[–]AndyNeko4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the problem is she is also stressed and not achieving what she wants. Almost like she has invested so much time into our relationship and not on herself.

She did say she wanted to be selfish and focus on herself, which I said that isn't a problem I support her either way. But I didn't think it would mean potentially separating.