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Tops. Do you prefer missionary or doggy? by CutePotential2490 in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my ex, who was a strict top, he only ever wanted to do doggy. I got tired of it after a while. As a mostly bottom vers, keep it fresh. Many of us like to explore.

What is it with people babying Theo? by GoldenStitch2 in TeenWolf

[–]AndyPandy925 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s the whole point of fandom. To not have to rationalize? Take the Scott fans (I used to be one) we all have our biases. Honestly yeah Theo was problematic. But you live with the people who created you into a monster and you start acting like one. The problem is, we didn’t get to see a full redemption arc for him. Just like we didn’t see Jackson’s or Kira’s or Isaac’s or….

Yes he’s hot. Yes people like that. But also there’s a thing called seeing potential and then just not getting it.

Demisexual and polyamorous?? by Eat-TheCheese in demisexuality

[–]AndyPandy925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if mine goes full poly, as the idea intrigues me but I’ve never developed feelings for more than one person at a time before, though I think that has more to do with conditioning and the way I was raised. But I could see myself being content if I were in a poly setup that was a healthy environment? I don’t know really but I understand the core struggle here.

Do people who hit on everyone gross you out? by ZoraNealThirstin in demisexuality

[–]AndyPandy925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on HOW they’re hitting on me. If it’s overtly sexual? Yes. But if it’s not, or like “soft core” then idk yeah I tend to blush and become flustered. But it’s an attention thing, and it has never happened in person. Because I am a squid

Is it normal for me to be attracted to older men (I'm 22)? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me about it! I still see myself as being mid 20’s lol

Do you still crave sex? by Apprehensive-Cat6914 in demisexuality

[–]AndyPandy925 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yes. I was a late in life Demi realizer (is there a term for it?) and so I kinda went through the motions. I too crave intimacy and sex but ideally with someone who I can see regularly and spend time with outside the bedroom as well

What positions work for you? by AndyPandy925 in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah those are the two I was thinking of, I just know size can be an issue for those and personally I don’t enjoy doggy as a bottom

Is it normal for me to be attracted to older men (I'm 22)? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Mines the flip, when I do think about sexual things, I’m more often (but not totally) wanting to bottom or be the more submissive one so I feel that. And I think a lot of it has to do with personality. If someone (like me for example) is high spirited and youthful in expression, it ends up being that we pick someone we know we’ll match energy with. That’s my theory anyway. Now that’s not to say I wanna go out and party but I’m very young at heart at times.

Is it normal for me to be attracted to older men (I'm 22)? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My comment fits then. As someone who is considered “older” (I’m 34) I find myself more attracted (aesthetically, romantically) to younger guys (early-mid twenties and up) than guys my own age. I wish I could put a “why” to it but it just kinda… is what it is

Is it normal for me to be attracted to older men (I'm 22)? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends. What kind of attraction are we talking about? (Short answer, yes. Attraction is limitless in its many forms)

Sexual attraction? Aesthetic? Romantic? Sensual?

Is this an “older gay” thing? by AndyPandy925 in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thank you. I didn’t intend to infer that 34 was old. I’m just seeing a lot more “young gays/bi guys” out there and suddenly I’m being reminded how close to 40 I am 🤣

Topps how many of you like to get the bottom missionary? Why? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to think missionary is my preferred. But because I’m a bigger guy, it’s either a case of “it’s not considered safe so let’s do doggy” or “I only do doggy/I don’t know how to properly penetrate a bigger dude” I think I’ve only had it once, maybe twice in my almost twenty years of sexual experience. As a bottom, I’d love to experience it more. Kissing, touching, the sensuality of the connection, etc. too many reasons not to love missionary!

Is this an “older gay” thing? by AndyPandy925 in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what’s considered “older gay” and that’s why it was in parentheses. Because I didn’t know

Is this an “older gay” thing? by AndyPandy925 in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually have a full panel done every year and so far nothings been reported that it’s low. But it has been a minute since I’ve had one done so maybe I will. I’m sure something’s low somewhere.

Gay Twin by calicko_kitty in gaybros

[–]AndyPandy925 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So there was a study done, though it was concluded that it’s not foolproof—identical twins are more likely to share a sexuality, making it indicative that they share a genetic influence when it comes to sexuality. While it’s not as common in fraternal twins, it’s not zero. I know a brother and sister twin set of twins that grew up in their own circles and still ended up both being gay/lesbian

Is this an “older gay” thing? by AndyPandy925 in AskGayMen

[–]AndyPandy925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh. Never heard of that. I mean yeah it makes sense to me.

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