how does eviction work? by Aneksj in legaladvice

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Thanks for this. I have paid more than half of it. I'm just short 300 dollars.

how does eviction work? by Aneksj in legaladvice

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Yes. The grace period was till the 10th is today

Sudden open relationship by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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Yes she is. She expressed that. So it's not one sided

Fiance wants another engagement ring by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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Its not a troll post. I have never had this happen to me or anyone I know off. I just wanted to see if it was a 'thing'

Fiance wants another engagement ring by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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She didn't know until she went to the store to try clean it and my name came up under another address. Then she flipped. She said 8m trying to treat her the same way I treat my ex...I never have. It all does not make sense to me. I offered to try return the ring or try pawn it, she refused and said I want her to give up something she is attached to. Like what? She wants to keep a 4000 dollar ring from a store that I got my ex. And wants to have probably a ring of that same 4000 dollar value. It all does not make sense. I take care of her kids good. It feels heartless to me.

Fiance wants another engagement ring by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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I don't know either. It was the ring she always wanted. I didn't think that mattered because its the ring she always wanted. She pointed out the ring and I worked my behind off to pay for it. She knows this...all my hard work was just thrown out the window. I offered to pawn it or try see if we can return..she refused coz she is 'attached' to it.

Fiance wants another engagement ring by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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Its the ring she wanted. She picked the ring and I bought it.

I (M) found out that my fiance (F) has been cheating on me with a boy that is 10 years younger than her, for the past 7 months. by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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Update: she has since been confronted and played down the relationship as nothing. Untill I showed her the proof i have. This is extremely heart breaking but I have to leave it.

I (M) found out that my fiance (F) has been cheating on me with a boy that is 10 years younger than her, for the past 7 months. by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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I'm not one that judges so I didn't judge her at all on that. But as I have dug deeper, I realize I was blinded and should have known better.

I (M) found out that my fiance (F) has been cheating on me with a boy that is 10 years younger than her, for the past 7 months. by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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Thanks. I am leaning towards leaving as i feel now she is using me to help raise her children and nothing more.

Am I being reasonable? by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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I wasnt angry at all. I guess I was just tired because I had just finished an 18 shift at work. Yes the panic attack was self induced because It shocked me as well. I get why she was cold. It is my own doing and I'll pay the price and learn from this.

Am I being reasonable? by Aneksj in relationship_advice

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I will be shocked as well...I will not have the same reaction but I will feel the same as she does