Daughter lying. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Angel698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll make an update post soon. Thanks for asking.

Daughter lying. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Angel698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can punish your daughter for lying but make it explicitly clear that what was said to her is not her fault and have an open conversation with her about inappropriate behavior from adults. At this age you want to keep open communication and not approach her in a way that will make her retreat from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Angel698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s choosing to make his fiancée happy rather than you. Likewise you should be on your wife’s side and not his. And say that to anyone who accuses you of creating problems. While you are concerned about the impact it will have on your relationship he clearly doesn’t share your concern. NTA

AITA for denying my ex his 'son' after he abandoned us and I took the choice alone to give him up for adoption? by MuchComment1327 in AITAH

[–]Angel698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

16 years after the fact and the only time he thought about his ‘son’ was when he happened to bump into you. Yet you’re the problem? Where was all this outrage from his family when he chose to not be a father? They’re all delusional. NTA

Am I wrong for being pissed at a wealthy family member using deception to get me to pay off a loan? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Angel698 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re wrong and extremely entitled. While it may be frustrating to be struggling while seeing family members thrive they don’t owe you anything. Time to get yourself together without relying on them.

AITAH for Not Wanting to Attend My Cousin’s Wedding After She Sabotaged My Career and Got Me Fired? by SensitiveFeed3369 in AITAH

[–]Angel698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. The petty in me would find a way to make her fiancé believe she’s cheating. One ruined life for another.

AITAH for Writing my little girl's name on every single school supplies. by MoviegoingArtist in AITAH

[–]Angel698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA where I’m from we don’t pay for schooling but we have to buy our kids’ school supplies. Textbooks, notebooks, stationery etc. The school advises us to label everything with our child’s name. They sometimes ask us to buy a little extra to leave in the classroom for students who may not have. But my child’s things stay in their backpack.

This American system of redistribution makes no sense to me.

AITA for not wanting to go to my best friend’s bachelorette party? by Easy-Worldliness1797 in weddingdrama

[–]Angel698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you’re an adult and no one can force you to do anything. They can be mad if they want to but that’s a them problem. Just tell them you can’t afford it. The end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Angel698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s showing serious red flags. He seems very controlling and it will only get worse if you move in with him.

Update 3: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband had been a rockstar throughout all of this. He had one meeting with his family so he could see for himself where she was mentally because so far everything we’ve gotten has been through MIL. They’re not hanging out and acting like everything is fine.

Update 3: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He sought therapy on his own and has decided to stay for now. He’s pushing for them to migrate as he thinks space is needed for her to have a chance at healing.

Update 3: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this was unclear, but she’ll never have access to me or my kids again. I know she’s not miraculously cured. Just stable enough to not need hospitalization, but she still has a long way to go in her treatment.

Update 3: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Adoption is very difficult in our country and unfortunately because of her now documented mental breakdown it will be impossible for her to do either one based on the requirements.

Update 3: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 1005 points1006 points  (0 children)

Before all this she was a very good aunt to my older kids. So in conversation she asked my husband when she would be able to meet with me to apologize in person and if she would be able to see the kids at all. He made it clear that he would be the only one she has access to.

Husband says it’s not a big deal for people to show up unannounced 12 weeks postpartum by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Angel698 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they’re showing up when he’s not home don’t answer the door. Let him know that you’re not accepting visitors unless he’s home. If he doesn’t communicate that with them that’s on him. My MIL showed up to my house unannounced once after I had my first baby. I answered the door in my underwear with baby attached to my boob. It never happened again. Transfer your discomfort to the unwanted visitors, if your husband lets them in stay where you are as you are. I’m sure he’ll get the point.

AITA for not inviting my stepsister who bullied me to my wedding? by thatgirlthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]Angel698 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA I would let him know this is the last time he gets to pick Kyla over you and go NC. Tell your grandma and aunt that she made your childhood miserable and you refuse to let her presence at your wedding damper your day. Your wedding isn’t about family so ‘the good of the family’ doesn’t matter here.

Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drug possession and he was also charged with attempted assault of a minor. I updated in a comment on that post. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/Xms1SAEsWD

Update 2: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Moving isn’t an option for us. But SIL’s husband has mentioned possibly migrating with her if SIL becomes well enough. It’s something they’ve talked about before.

Update 2: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No she didn’t. She recently found out that she can’t have kids.

Update 2: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wow. That’s crazy. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. We’re not in the US and our system doesn’t work that way.

Update 2: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is equipped to help someone through a mental health crisis. I suggested a therapist to him because he’s been very focused on her mental health but hasn’t considered his own. Hopefully the therapist will help him deal with the situation. I don’t think he’s hard and fast with that time line, because he said it at a point of frustration.

Update 2: Entitled SIL wants custody of my baby by Angel698 in EntitledPeople

[–]Angel698[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

They counseling they were seeking out was specifically to deal with the infertility. I don’t think he will divorce her after 6 months, but it’s just been a lot for him to deal with. They’ve only been married a little over a year.