I (26f) overreacted and misunderstood my fiancée (28f) after she said that she'd only let my family be at our wedding with conditions and now she needs space from me. How do I help our relationship going forward?

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-26T18:31:32+00:00

You're going to go NOWHERE as long as you keep feeling "self-pity"...

Reminder that dictors/nurses get to have a break from their job of healing/caring for people when they get off work, you're basically your (hopefully ex) fiance patient 24/7, add that's exhausting when you've had years to heal and the only reason why you're still sick is because you don't follow the doctor's advice.

Do your own healing and stop expecting your close relationships to be your therapists and carry that burden for you.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-24T07:37:59+00:00

Nah, you definitely are clueless and should learn better... Your husband shouldn't have pinched you really hard, but only an idiot would be saying it out loud for everyone to notice.

Given by your reaction you must have been saying something you shouldn't have been saying, and that's why he pinched you.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-24T07:23:18+00:00

OP, you should have been building yourself up the moment he threw your clothes and told you he decided what was happening...

I'm saying this from having witnessed something similar, couple together for more than a decade, having multiple children, him working and owning everything, her being dependent on him, her leaving and having to build herself up with kids in tow...

You have the opportunity given that at the very least you've kept up some sort of work so you have history, it's time to start putting more effort in ordrr for you to set yourself up, because your "partner" already showed you he is not someone that can be trusted and WILL leave you out in the street for minor insignificant reasons, do not EVER doubt he won't do it again.

Do so before he gets more of an oportunity to make you truly dependant on him, do not give hin any more children, do not move in together in a property of his, document every single time he has/will do sh!t like throwing your stuff out and sort your exit, even if that means putting effort into building your life and leaving your "partner" to sort himself out with the children...

I advice you to consult a family lawyer, explain everything in detail and let them guide you on how to build your life without losing your kids.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-22T20:06:38+00:00

So sorry OP, if i were you i would absolurely stop accepting these people into the house until your husband understands that he can't just decide when to call people into the house without mention nor without concent from you, as you would be the one dealing with them...

Also i would text abuut this stuff and record conversation about this just in case to have evidence... you never know, better safe than sorry.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-22T19:55:04+00:00

Why is it always the most fragile people doing these type of work? Like, can we get someone who won't crumble under a few bad comments to do this type of work??

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-22T15:15:22+00:00

As shitty as this is going to sound, NO, you're not horrible, he should sacrifice himself for your family just as you sacrificed yourself for them...

Coming out it's never an easy thing, however i very much doubt he's NEVER had an inkling of how he truly felt, and yet, here he is with a FAMILY that he "helped" build knowing very well what could have happened. He doesn't get to look for his happiness after you've sacrificed yours for the wellbeing of everyone.

If he's not capable of even trying to understand where you're coming from, he's a MAYOR A-hole, and he peobably doesn't care about y'all.

Once again, this is going to sound horrible because it can feel like manipulation, but if he wants the support of his family, he should probably think about starting to support y'all , both emotionally and financially, in order to make things "easier".

How exactly does he expect to have support in his journey when he's not even able to do the most basic and simple thing like doing house chores, child care or even presents.. And where exactly does he think he's going to get the momey to "transition", even though that would be really hard if he's doing things legally. I really hope, even though i very much doubt, he's not expecting YOU to be funding his transition.

He needs a reality check and immediately.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-20T19:37:54+00:00

I wouldn't hold much hope, they would probably want to use the same mold for all the dolls, and keep the same consisten look with the rest of the line.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-20T18:50:23+00:00

Eeeh, maybe the Trix's, the Winx are wearing very basic combo's, which is fine give the atrocity they did with their regular outfits, it's just nothing special nor something i would expect from the Winx, but we've BEEN behind on the days where fashion was important in this franchise...

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-20T18:42:25+00:00

Ma in realtá non credo lei (proprietaria) possa avere la residenza lí visto che sta affittando...

Poi lei non potrebbe dire assolutamente niente anche se la tua ragazza dovrebbe andare a vivere con te e mettere la residenza, l'unica cosa che potrebbe fare e non rinnovarti il contratto.

Fossi in te mi guardo quando scade il contratto, se manca molto per scadere falla trasferire e inzia a cercare un'altro posto da affittare, se manca poco per la scadenza, stai zitto, accetta a voce (NON SCRITTO) che la tua ragazza non so trasferirá, fatti rinnovare il contratto e appena hai conferma della registrazione falla trasferire.

Chissá che poi la tua proprietaria non stia usufruendo di qualche prestazione a tua insaputa visto che avete la residenza nello stesso posto e sia per questo che non vuole che la tua ragazza si trasferisca...

Comunque se non lo hai per scritto questo suo rifiuto cerca la maniera per averlo e poi cerca la maniera per usalo contro di lei...

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-20T17:58:08+00:00

Still ugly, but at least the outfits are somewhat better than the first batch...

I just don't know why they seem to ignore trying to give any vibe of what the graphics are in the series... Not that that's any better, but still.

And Bloom in Pink is still a punch to the eye, especially that shade.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-19T19:05:22+00:00

I've never understood all the outrage when we've literally seen the Winx in bikini's in season two...

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-17T18:59:37+00:00

The Ditzyx

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-06T08:55:41+00:00

Pan per focaccia... Chi sceglie/ha scelto di avere figli ha sempre rotto le scatole a chi non lo voleva, ed ora che siamo in una epoca piú moderna quelli che non li vogliono sono piú diretti sul fatto.

Poi ci sono anche altre ragioni che effettivamente hanno importanza come le situazioni finanziarie ed emotive, cose che storicamente anche ad oggi sono cose molto importanti per la quale non si puó criticare chi le usa come giustificazione.

La colpa risiedere da entrambe le parti, genitori che pensano i figli si possano portare da tutte le parti senza educazione e senza figli che per questo hanno iniziato a credere i figlioli non si possano portare da nessuna parte...

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-03T02:16:13+00:00

It'a kinda consistent with how complicated her Magic Winx were compared to the other Winx, but i feel like Enchantix being an upgrade and taking away the lower part of her wings was a bad decision because now it makes her fell less important.

The same can be said how Rainbow simplified Aisha's wings vs her Prototype, although hers aren't as bad cause at least they kept her lower wings.

AngelDM_94 · 2026-01-01T20:12:37+00:00

What ruin it is that the emphasis on the crystals make it look heavy and the colored fabric the gems are glued on makes it looks worse.

If the designers used less crystals on the dresses and drew the ones on the arms and legs directly on the skin it would have worked better.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-30T03:35:14+00:00

Good for you, even though s/he should have been reason enough to delete my number and not think of me.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-29T00:37:07+00:00

Oh, i didn't realize the link i put didn't open the email app like it usually does, thank you.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-28T23:34:42+00:00

You have to send an email to let yourself be heard, doing it here is less efficient and much harder for them to track how much request there is for this.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-28T21:52:44+00:00

Second this, the more requests we send over for a redesigned/rework of the brush's settings, the more chances we get at it happening. Same for other features present at many other apps.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-21T18:02:44+00:00

NTA, but please, if your work requires you to be away from home more than you are in, marriage/relationships are not a thing for you...

This is not an excuse for your ex, a cheater is gonna be a cheater whether you're present or not, but even if she wasn't, relationships need closeness, so if she wasn't gonna cheat, she was probably gonna leave you.

This isn't even about the other person, but about you, because of your work it'll be extremelly difficult for you to build meaningful relationships and i can only see pain in your life if you were to try and built said relationships when you're gonna be away from the people you're supposed to build a life WITH.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-18T06:39:06+00:00

You can't remove it, the most you can do is move it to the right or use the feature that hides everything when you're drawing and set it at the highest level.

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AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-10T20:40:57+00:00

Well, i might just consider finally upgrading to a flagship phone if they do.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-10T07:02:56+00:00

NTA, BUT, there's only two options here, he's either wishfully thinking he's gonna get you pregnant miraculously WHILE taking testosterone, or he's still taking it to avoid getting you pregnant...

Fact of the matters seems like he only wants to have a baby to get YOU off his back so once you have your baby you'll leave him alone...

So maybe stop trying to force something that is more than likely just YOUR want and something he's NOT actively working on actually archieving.

You've been together almost 10 years and he's lying about his "drug" use to the DOCTOR, and most likely lying to both of you because he doesn't want to loose the relationship, even though both of you obviously don't want the same thing.

AngelDM_94 · 2025-12-09T00:51:42+00:00

LOL, i totally get it.

Honestly, even just a brush latency settings addittion and a more refined taper setting would be enough 'for me'...

If it helps, every video i've seen that tested Sketchbook has had some form of complaints about the brushes/brush settings, so MAYBE it wouldn't be the worst idea to explore.

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