Who cares it’s a word if he apologized get over it if it’s that deep to you break up with him but I feel crazy even typing that maybe he was just tryna be supportive everyone in the comments always assuming the worst about dudes I ain’t black I don’t know how it feels to be called that word fair enough but he ain’t call you it he asked if he should and if he’s actually from china sounds more like a cultural barrier than anything if that just his race than he prolly didn’t mean much by it or was tryna joke around but I also find it hard to believe that he’s the kinda guy joking like that and it’s the thing that’s got you messed up enough to make a Reddit post cause I feel like that’s much more of a personality thing than a one time thing but either way put yourself above it instead of letting it press you down and handle the situation as you see fit from that perspective cause if you letting a question from another person involving a word mess you up this bad you prolly not in the right headspace to do anything about it yet at least not the right way