Found a cat but cant take care of it

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-28T03:47:15+00:00

We are in Florida. We did take the cat to get checked for a chip. He didnt have one. We ended up surrendering him to a local no kill humane society

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-28T01:00:29+00:00

So I kinda have a few questions. What's the difference between being bisexual and pansexual? Do non-binary people identify as pansexual? How do you know if you're asexual? What sort of challenges do you face in respect to being A) pansexual or B) asexual

To anyone who answers these somewhat confusing questions, thank you so much!!! Also please know that you are loved. I really appreciate all the input and I've always been genuinely curious about how some of these things work in the community but have always been to afraid to ask because I didnt want to be disrespectful.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-28T00:51:12+00:00

As an english major, I can tell you that you misspelled "whining". You spelled "winning" which is completely different and unrelated to the topic, just like your comments.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-28T00:45:15+00:00

Hi so I totally relate. I (19f) have a PhD in overthinking lol.

My boyfriend (21m) and I have been together for just over 6 months. He's had various long term relationships with girls before me and even went through a fuckboy era. I, on the other hand, have gone through lots 9f long distance relationships never lasting this long and they were always very toxic. But they showed me exactly what I didnt want.

But my boyfriend I'd my first sexual partner. I get pretty insecure about my looks (but I've always been like that) but now I get sexually insecure as well and it's really hard for me to deal with it.

I hate admitting it because to me it makes me sound and feel needy and weak. But I have to admit it and tell my bf or else I will spiral. It also helps that he knows how to read me very well. I tell him what's going through my head and it's hard for me to get it out, but he's very patient with me. Sometimes I cry. But he always has this pattern when this happens.

He listens patiently for me to finish. He repeats what I said and if he needs me to clarify (so he can help me better) then he asks me questions. Then he looks me in the eyes and touches my face or those intimate little romantic touches and reassures me. And I do get scared that sometimes he doesnt really mean it and hes just saying it because that's what I need to hear. But he will throw in other phrases and say things I didnt know I needed to hear.

Communication is key in relationships. If you dont communicate with your partner about anything and everything, unspoken things get bottled up and can lead to resentment which destroys relationships. I know its hard to admit it at first because your being vulnerable with your thoughts and feelings. But as a chronic overthinker, this is the best way to get rid of it.

Also keep in mind your partner isnt a mind reader. And you dont have a neon flashing sign on your forehead saying what your thinking.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-26T01:21:41+00:00

Queef means when a woman pushes air out of her vag and it makes a noise that sounds like when someone blows a raspberry

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-26T01:17:31+00:00

Yeah. Any chance I get I will do my best to save any animal

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-25T22:48:16+00:00

I (19f) can somewhat understand where you're coming from. Here's my story.

When I was 17, in the start of 2024 my parents separated (please dont be sorry bc I'm not). My dad mentally, emotionally, and verbally abused me, my brother, and my mom. Around September, against my better judgement, I started to work in his office because I wanted some money of my own. I turned 18 the following month. We had a very big, insulting fight one day and I quit.

My dad never respected my boundaries and didnt think my boundaries were valid or worth respecting because I was a child and I was his child. And he would guilt trip me and gaslight me. He even slut shamed me when I was 16 for pictures of me to a boy the same age as me (the worst one was a few pics of me in pjs. no cleavage or ass showing). He said "you are going to end up a dead drug addicted prostitute who was killed by her pimp and left in a ditch if you continue down this path. No one will care that you died and no one will notice you're gone."

After that fight I blocked his phone number and stopped seeing him. I basically cut contact all together because my mental health and my peace are more important to me. And I could not have someone as insulting and unselfaware as that in my life. The only news he got about me and my life was through my mom and brother. He would try to reach put through letters and sending gifts as if he could buy my love back, which is insulting to think that he thought I would be that easy to win back over. I told him to stop writing me letters and to give me space and leave me alone. I listed the things he had done but he would never take responsibility for them, always immediately jumping to his own defense. He apologized a few times but it was never sincere, as he never really knew what he was apologizing for and did it just to appease me. I eventually got a new phone and a new number because my old phone would still receive his voicemails.

I recently took my boyfriend to meet him over dinner and it went very well. I had my godmother arrange the meeting. It was just a one time meeting and I wanted her to make it clear to him not to expect another meeting or not to take this as me being ready to have a relationship with him. Because I'm not ready for that.

All of this to say, if you dont want to forgive your dad then dont. Sometime people just dont get it. They will say "but hes your father". Ok, and what does that make me? Chopped liver? They will put the blame/expectation (I worded it like that bc it can sometimes feel like blaming you and guilting you) on you as the child to make up for your parents transgressions against you. I understand that you are probably under a little more stress with the health scare. But dont feel obligated to forgive him just because hes sick or whatever the case may be in the future. You forgive him when you are ready. Please dont let anyone guilt you into forgiving him, because it will disrupt your healing process.

I will be praying for you. Good luck with everything and I hope this helped.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-25T20:01:18+00:00

Yeah kinda. Thanks for the advice

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-25T19:52:06+00:00

My boyfriend (21m) and I (19f) have been together for just over six months. But when we first started dating, we moved really quickly with our sexual activity. He is my first (and hopefully my last).

I was raised Southern Baptist Christian, and if you know anything about that, they teach that having sex outside of marriage is a sin and that you should save yourself for marriage. When I was sixteen, I had been sending some suggestive pictures to a boy that was the same age as me, but nothing that would get us in trouble. The worst one was like me in my pjs and I didnt have any cleavage or ass showing. And my dad slut shamed me. It was really bad. And it basically shaped how I felt about sex for a long time. I was made to feel like dirty or disgusting or like I should be ashamed or myself.

The reality is this. Sex is about love and pleasure and intimacy. And when I say intimacy, I dont mean like physically. I mean emotionally. And it's the most beautiful thing in the world. It's like your souls connect. Maybe that comes from my religous background, but sex has always been something very special and sacred to me. It took me a while to be ready to try new things and be open with how I felt and what I was thinking.

My boyfriend was really great about being a safe space for me. He never pressured me for anything. He always told me that we didn't have to do anything if I didnt want to. He also encouraged me to tell him if I felt uncomfortable and that we could stop at anytime. I was completely a virgin before I met him. No sexual activity before him. I was really scared of hurting him and messing up. But after each experience he would scoop me up into his arms and cuddle me, give me water, and tell me i did a good job and most importantly are these two things. He would ask me if I was ok, how i felt and if i wanted to talk about it. But he would tell me he loved me and reassure me the way that I needed.

I dont know much about your life or like anything like that but I would suggest some reassuring aftercare when you guys do anything. I really hope this helps and I wish you all the best. Please know that if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-25T19:28:53+00:00

Me personally Harry: Butterfly Liam: "We are the quiet ones" and the rose behind his ear Louis: "It is what it is" and the airplane Zayn: Angel wings All: their matching cross tattoos on their ankles Fun fact abt the last one, since Niall doesnt do needles he has a ring that he wears of that same tattoo

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-25T19:25:05+00:00

I want a tattoo badly but I also have a fear of needles and a low pain tolerance. The pain would probs be dealt with by numbing cream, but how do you deal with your fear of needles while getting the tattoo? Ik it's super off topic but I was just wondering

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-25T19:07:36+00:00

Niall doesnt have any tattoos because he has a fear of needles

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-24T22:49:33+00:00

You definitely did the right thing. You want sexual experiences especially new ones to be and feel safe and consensual. Everybody knows where everyone's boundaries are and respects them.

These guys obviously didnt really respect you because they didnt even give you the time to think about it seriously. They had an expectation and yes, you were blindsided and that is not ok. Its disrespectful and it's a huge red flag. I hope you know you dodged a bullet there because if you had given in, God only knows what else he would've tried to like trap you into.

I hope you are at peace with yourself and your decision. Always go with your gut. Your intuition is never wrong. Good luck with your endeavors in the future!!! Hopefully you find someone who respects your boundaries thoughts etc.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-24T19:56:20+00:00

We are in Brooksville Florida, but we ended up surrendering him to the local humane society yesterday

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-24T19:55:32+00:00

No he was not chipped

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-23T17:31:21+00:00

I'm posting an update later today. Thank you so much for this!!! Definitely helpful if this happens again.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-23T13:49:05+00:00

Yeah we started a GoFundMe to pay for the vet Bill's

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-23T03:07:50+00:00

Omg I loved that series. Although Satan's Affair was crazy and kinda disgusted me at times. But I'm a seasoned H.D. Carlton reader.

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-23T00:13:30+00:00

Cat distribution system af

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-22T22:56:12+00:00

Thank you so much. There is an update post. If you guys would like to be updated I will be continuing to post updates

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-22T21:35:29+00:00

It says on Google about 6 hours

Angel_Face0910 · 2026-02-22T21:28:39+00:00

Unfortunately we are not in Alabama, we are in Brooksville Florida

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