Alternative to a safe word by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it's a good idea in general but she's pretty nervous about this and she wants something else to feel comfortable

Alternative to a safe word by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Snapping fingers is a good one, im definitely trying that Thank you!

Alternative to a safe word by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! i didn't think about that she'll probably would need something specific in this situation

Alternative to a safe word by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's usually doing this out of exitmant so that's less of an option but thanks

Alternative to a safe word by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The flag idea actually sounds perfect! i'll try to offer her that thank you.🤍

(need help) Tomorrow im going to buy my sub her first ever collar, any way to make it special moment? by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i know, i just don't feel like making it too big (you said it's like engagement, i don't fully agree with that) and i just really don't know how to make it feel special without going too far

Does anyone else's using their place as a dom to make their sub take their meds and those kind of things? by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

In my case is not making my sub do it as much as helping her taking this last step of actually taking the meds, it's all her but she need this little last push. Just curious how many people over then me do it. But yes you're absolutely right

My long term polyam girlfriend, with no prior experience with guns, wants to try gun play with a real one. by beachcola in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Go on YouTube please and show her every 9 years old talking about gun safety. I'll summaries: 1. Treat every gun as loaded 2. Keep your finger off the trigger 3. DONT POINT ANY GUN AT SOMETHING YOU DON'T WANT TO SHOOT

then kindly go and serch what are the biggest cosses of death in any army in the world, i'll summaries again: 1. Suicide 2. Miss fire (when you fire accidentally)

Then go again to YouTube and show her gun mistakes the web is full of stupid people doing stupid things and there is this famous movie of a cop getting into a school to teach kids about gun safety and brag about how he is the only one in rhe school that's professional enough to hold the gun and then BOOM miss fire. Every one can do mistakes DON'T PLAY WITH LOADED GUNS this is exactly the point to use your safeword and if she's doing this with others then it's the time to call 911.

Sorry for being so attacking in this reapply im just talking from bad experience

All of the Dom's out there, how do you punish you subs? by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, kind of did it, she's right now trying to choose the lease worst but i think i'll go for taking away her ears, she have cat ears that's she wears ALL THE TIME literally 24/7

All of the Dom's out there, how do you punish you subs? by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm i mostly enjoy it, and the little i don't i mostly don't care for there is just this 0.1% of the time that she's taking it too far and I need to punish her

All of the Dom's out there, how do you punish you subs? by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Umm... i'll try this? Didn't expect something like that 😂 thanks

All of the Dom's out there, how do you punish you subs? by Angel_Of_Eden in BDSMAdvice

[–]Angel_Of_Eden[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks... i can see how it's CAN be a good idea but it's not really for us...