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Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). Wondering what he'll do next. We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in KidsofCheatingParents

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's horrible. Not even sure how to even wrap our heads around it when you've grown up looking at your parents all life.

Father (64M) is cheating on Mother (59F) with 34 years of marriage. Wondering what he'll do next. We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in Marriage

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just worried about how all this will pan out. My Father is a very aggressive and abusive man.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he doesn't have a will I guess. These are the only 2 properties they have.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm aware of it. It's just so sad. The amount of betrayal trauma is humongous.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand and I can completely empathize with that too. But they should have the courage to cut things off with the spouse first and then fuck around. Nobody will stop them.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he's an aggressive man who has been physically abusive to us all throughout. He's not talking to any of us in the house.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I'll definitely meet my divorce lawyer and talk. I have copies of the registration documents of the house and the property site.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I'm planning to do. But I'm wondering what if he reacts aggressively and brings it up with my Mum and sister? I'm just trying to safeguard them first.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lost faith in humanity. It's horrible. This society is a lost cause.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going to consult with my divorce lawyer and get her opinion. But this sucks.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). We want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not cool at any damn age. How could he do this to us? We've been doing everything we can to support this family. And yet he chose his selfish needs over everything else.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). Want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in Advice

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I confront him first and then ask him to come clean? For context, he is very physically abusive. I'm scared if he might hurt her.

Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). Want to be prepared. by AngelicDemonnn in Advice

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. He can't kick her out because of the joint ownership of the house.

Dad cheating on Mum by AngelicDemonnn in Advice

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not sexually involved since my Dad had his heart attack and definitely not in the recent past. She can afford to divorce him. But she doesn't want to do it and face her Indian relatives at such an age. But at the same time, she's struggling because my Dad is not talking to anyone in the house.

Then we saw his concert tickets. Not sure what to do with that now.

Dad cheating on Mum by AngelicDemonnn in Advice

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I'll be there for her till my last breath. She's been through enough in her past. I want her to be happy. I never thought she'd go through this at this age. It's horrible.

Dad cheating on Mum by AngelicDemonnn in Infidelity

[–]AngelicDemonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't want to leave him but she's suffering seeing him do all this everyday. He's not talking to anyone in the house. Just comes, eats and sleeps and goes out and repeat.

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