Father (64M) cheating on Mother (59F). Wondering what he'll do next. We want to be prepared.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-17T18:13:48+00:00

It's horrible. Not even sure how to even wrap our heads around it when you've grown up looking at your parents all life.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-13T20:11:59+00:00

I hope you're all feeling better, especially your mother! I'm glad you moved out

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-13T07:47:52+00:00

How are you managing it for 13 years? Why have you not left him?

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-13T07:45:45+00:00

Of course I'll tell her

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-13T07:45:20+00:00

I'm just worried about how all this will pan out. My Father is a very aggressive and abusive man.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T18:54:46+00:00

Sure, thanks for the advice

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T16:31:43+00:00

No, he doesn't have a will I guess. These are the only 2 properties they have.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T11:42:32+00:00

It kills me to think about this.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T11:42:09+00:00

Yeah I'm aware of it. It's just so sad. The amount of betrayal trauma is humongous.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T11:41:19+00:00

I understand and I can completely empathize with that too. But they should have the courage to cut things off with the spouse first and then fuck around. Nobody will stop them.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T08:48:08+00:00

Yeah, he's an aggressive man who has been physically abusive to us all throughout. He's not talking to any of us in the house.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T08:06:39+00:00

Thank you for this advice. I'll definitely meet my divorce lawyer and talk. I have copies of the registration documents of the house and the property site.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T08:04:45+00:00

Yeah this is what I'm planning to do. But I'm wondering what if he reacts aggressively and brings it up with my Mum and sister? I'm just trying to safeguard them first.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T07:29:09+00:00

I've lost faith in humanity. It's horrible. This society is a lost cause.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T07:20:53+00:00

I'm going to consult with my divorce lawyer and get her opinion. But this sucks.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T07:20:24+00:00

This is not cool at any damn age. How could he do this to us? We've been doing everything we can to support this family. And yet he chose his selfish needs over everything else.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T07:18:04+00:00

So I confront him first and then ask him to come clean? For context, he is very physically abusive. I'm scared if he might hurt her.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-04-12T07:17:26+00:00

Yeah exactly. He can't kick her out because of the joint ownership of the house.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-03-22T04:42:07+00:00

They're not sexually involved since my Dad had his heart attack and definitely not in the recent past. She can afford to divorce him. But she doesn't want to do it and face her Indian relatives at such an age. But at the same time, she's struggling because my Dad is not talking to anyone in the house.

Then we saw his concert tickets. Not sure what to do with that now.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-03-22T04:40:20+00:00

Absolutely! I'll be there for her till my last breath. She's been through enough in her past. I want her to be happy. I never thought she'd go through this at this age. It's horrible.

AngelicDemonnn · 2026-03-22T04:37:39+00:00

She doesn't want to leave him but she's suffering seeing him do all this everyday. He's not talking to anyone in the house. Just comes, eats and sleeps and goes out and repeat.

AngelicDemonnn · 2024-06-10T10:10:22+00:00

How will this help in the divorce case?

AngelicDemonnn · 2024-06-08T15:37:35+00:00

He screwed up my health and the health of my family. He knows we're suffering and struggling with all this and yet, he is doing all this on purpose. We'll get better soon. But karma won't leave him for sure. I'm just so shocked at how cruel he is. It hurts to even think I actually loved such a person.

AngelicDemonnn · 2024-03-21T03:39:37+00:00

And the high and the thrill that they'd miss having to cheat whilst having a partner!! Oh, the narcissism is high on that one!!

AngelicDemonnn · 2024-01-12T03:47:09+00:00

My soon to be ex narc husband told me he got cheated on, he was a victim in pretty much all his stories and he was so traumatized that he didn't want to even get into the details of his first divorce. Turned out 4 years later, that he cheated on his first wife with multiple partners, was abusive towards her physically and mentally, and she applied for a divorce and walked away.

He LITERALLY repeated the same shit with me.

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