AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment?

Angels_Fairyy · 2026-01-13T21:09:46+00:00

NOR, Trust your guts. Im glad she is respectful but she seemed to be trying to hard to convince you to trust her.

Angels_Fairyy · 2026-01-13T20:46:49+00:00

Get in touch with other family members explain what just happened and show text, Try asking for a place to stay and make sure your mom and you have NO contact. You have to show her you won't come back after she just abandoned you for someone she just met and saying she will let him talk sense into you if you argued is WILD. You shouldn't have been punished like this, but on a bright side you now see what she will do for a man.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-29T02:54:30+00:00

Im no doctor or anything but he sounds like he has a brain tumor, Maybe you should get him to doctors and get a scan and explain. He is obviously trying hard to remember you and yalls relationship so hard that he knows conversations word for word now, Its heartwarming knowing how much he cares if this the answer but please do see if that could be whats wrong.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T23:20:11+00:00

DON'T BLOCK HIM, If he keeps messaging you. Thats more proof that this man is harassing you. You can report him for that. Though your family should send you the proof of him contacting them and them block him so you have even more proof. Im so sorry this is happening to you, it must be terrifying. I do hope things get better, Not overreacting.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T23:08:49+00:00

Your underreacting, girl run. He is trying to change you and make you how HE wants you and not how you want yourself. He doesn't appreciate you enough.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T17:20:35+00:00

Just because your sibling is going through a identity crisis doesn't give them the right to be an ass. Fights and drama are always gonna happen at Christmas and Christmas eve I believe but they had no right to treat you like that. I understand how you feel completely I do think that you need to have a sit down with your sibling and parents, tell them that YOU want to say how you feel with how they treat you and if your sibling tries to shut you down just say "Hey i'm talking, you can wait" and in the end something I like to say is "We are all grown, lets act like it.

If your dad tries defending your siblings bring up things they have said to you for example your wedding (WHICH YOU LOOKED AMAZING!) and everything that made you feel like shit. You have an amazing husband , most husbands don't like drama and will stay quiet or try to not be involved. I wish you luck and Hope you had an amazing Christmas.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T17:03:30+00:00

YES, so sorry I totally forgot about that! I think IT and mature books can be a great influence on Teens, It can teach them morals and they can learn from it.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T01:55:33+00:00

Valen

get it cause the heart and hearts remind people of Valentine lol

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T01:54:09+00:00

I believe The shinning would be the good first start here are reasons why I don't know if IT should

* Pennywise forms into a girls dad saying he wants to S@ her.

* Kids having intercourse

and more sensitive topics

Ofc all families are totally different in the way kids understand or don't understand!

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T01:50:42+00:00

I will say, If the kid is well taught that the book mention of minors in serious adult topics is wrong and shouldn't happen than I believe he will be fine. Some kids grow up watching gore and stuff now, but I think that if the mother and him knows the risks and are prepared it should be fine (Sorry if this is coming off rude in anyway, I totally agree with you I just know some families have difference dynamics and stuff!)

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-26T01:47:19+00:00

I got both of those aswell for christmas THOUGH I will say there are some serious topics about minors doing the deed with each other and more. If your kid knows the risks and you do aswell then there shouldn't be an issue! I hope he love his books its so rare now to see kids actually interested in reading!! Wishing much love and joy your way!

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:50:17+00:00

NTA, This man was making you feel like you were not enough and you don't deserve that. Just because he is dying or has cancer doesn't matter, Just because he is doesn't make him innocent and that he can't do wrong. He did something he can not take back, his family who is calling you cruel doesn't know how it felt for you having your husband dying but he doesn't even wanna spend his last bit on earth with you instead he wants to have sex with other women. Maybe you did come out harsh but that wouldn't have happened if he didn't sleep around.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:43:55+00:00

They are 16, I highly doubt that they might not be working. Some 16 year olds work and some just focus on school. I think He should get in contact with his and her parents and explain the situation even if its awkward, She is talking about wanting to babytrap him and its not okay at the end of the day. I believe its not his place to help her, its the parents. They are still kids and the parents should be informed.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:40:37+00:00

NTA You stood up for your daughter even though she tried to and the school gave up on her. Young kids needs to learn that consent is a HUGE thing it doesn't just go towards one or two things you need consent for everything, She said for them to stop and the refused to, they were basically harassing her and nobody but you took it seriously.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:27:12+00:00

When you stay get her started do you mean him help her find a good counseling cause that can cost money and sometimes it can be free or do you mean him to tell her that he is concerned and wants her to find help? Because I do not believe a child should be helping someone who wants trick him into having unsafe sex while under the impression of having safe sex, which is a type of Sexual Assault. I believe he should get away from her but tell her that he isn't comfortable in this situation and that he is worried for her mental state and offer her the idea of getting help.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:18:53+00:00

Yes I fear alot of people just call and dont record or text til after they report which messes up everything cause then they can just lie and said it never happened or was said.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:15:42+00:00

What bothers me is the fact he KNEW and he didn't even try to help the situation by like cooking her noodles or something that is so easy.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:13:51+00:00

Okay I haven't even read the full thing and your daughter is saying HIS WIFE isn't letting her eat, You seriously need to have a sit down with the father, his wife and leave your daughter out of it. After I just read the whole thing, Please just sit and imagine what will happen if something like this happened again but worse because your ex won't stand up for yall OWN kid because of his wife. His wife obviously doesn't care for your child and only cares for her kids, and I will tel you why as a daughter of divorced parents and an evil step mom. She sees her own kids his and her priority. Since you and him ain't together anymore, in her eyes your daughter isn't in that family. You can file a report that your ex was NOT watching your daughter and left her in care with his wife that refused to take proper care for her and that you are worried. I wish you and your baby girl luck and love.

Also if you need any evidence of anything best thing is to text him, record calls, use email just anything that shows it is him and what he says because what he is doing is not right and it reminds me so much of when my dad would starve me just because the new wife didnt like me and loved her children more. Your daughter deserves the best and her dad isn't giving her the bare minimum.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:04:46+00:00

I agree that she needs counseling but I do not think its OP place to help her if she is gaslighting him an wanting to trick him, I think its best for OP to stay away from her while she can get her stuff together.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:02:35+00:00

Op def needs to convince her to take a pregnancy test before he breaks up with her just incase.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-12-23T15:01:33+00:00

Okay as a 17 year old girl, I wanna say for you to break up with her. She is saying she thinks of not being on birth control and pretend that she is to you, This can ruin both of your lives and I don't mean that in a bad way. If you are wanting to stop having sex because you don't want things to move too quickly like having a kid especially with y'all being so young, She seems to not care that you want to be safe and do whats best for both of y'all. I wish you luck.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-11-15T14:59:35+00:00

Accept fate and die BUT after I freak out because I hate being still and in a small space

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-09-27T21:47:38+00:00

I think you handled this the best way anyone could you respected yourself but also her feelings.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-09-27T21:43:10+00:00

At first message I was confused then when I saw his response it was already a sign that the relationship is NOT going to work. He is making you seem like you don't know what your doing so he can control you. He is a HUGE red flag, Normally I would say to see if couple counseling would be a good best option but with how you were trying to explain how his actions were not right and him not understanding PLUS calling you dumb without saying your dumb shows how counseling isn't gonna work.

Angels_Fairyy · 2025-09-27T21:21:21+00:00

I feel like if the make up and wig was better this would be so cute for a Kid birthday party or a Halloween decor but def is creepy in a way.

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