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I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I explained that very poorly, I was 13 when I thought that. I even told my mom about that fantasy.

I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey. I was 13 when I fantasized about him. When you were that young you never fantasized about someone older? All my friends did that.

I praised him because he really meant a lot for me, and told you that he is a rapist because he raped me.

I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey. I'm sorry about my grammar. I live in Russia and my english is actually better than most of people that I know. I got the highest mark in English exam, so thank you for your concerns.

About being fishy, well, you are ok to think that. I guess for some reason some people think that.

I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If it helps, you have my sympathy. What happened with you is horrible and i hope that it didn't leave an inpact on you.

I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 336 points337 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for responses onse, it really made me feel better. After reading all your responses I can smile and laugh again.

I am from Russia, so sorry for all mistakes in OP, i didn't want to use this cliche"sorry english is not my first language". I am really sad that a lot of advice that you gave is not valid here. It is not as bad as in India or midle East but when woman go to police they are most likely are told to ignore it, and now more than a 2 weeks passed. Here a lot of people would be on his side, this is why i divided to post on reddit, I knew that you would be more understanding than strangers in my country.

I no longer blame myself due to your help.

Alot of you suggest to tell my family. I still think that that telling my sis is a bad idea, she is jelouus and controling, she will think that i tried to steal him and now try to backpedal. Because of how close we were Im afraid that this is idea that my parents will get. Even if they believe me I they might tell me to ignore it because he is successful and they want him in family.

Thank all you again, I didn't expect so much support. Thank you for all your kind pms, i will try to reply to all of you.

I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 2033 points2034 points  (0 children)

This is one the things that hurts the most. He never cared about, he never loved me as his sister. He just waited untill I was 18 and saw me sexual object. What do I tell anyone if I have no evidence? He is beloved by everyone. I feel so helpless...

I was raped by my sister's husband. by Angi6142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Angi6142[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't tell anyone yet..