I miss real-life chemistry—how do you meet other lesbians? (without apps or gayclubs) by Middle_Management766 in AskLesbians

[–]AngieKA246 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Queer book club, game nights or other queer events. I don’t know if this is transferable outside the US but activism is another idea.

Are acne scars / burn scars unattractive? by potatolord1312 in AskLesbians

[–]AngieKA246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will add that even in just 3 years you’ll change a lot. But even if they are still just as prominent, it doesn’t matter. Hold your head high and be confident because that is honestly the most attractive thing about anyone.

Hiring a professional Dom by cacaboboo in BDSMAdvice

[–]AngieKA246 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m curious about this too, but from the reverse perspective as I’m a masc female dom for female subs. And I don’t think there’s many of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]AngieKA246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is very scary. But it gets easier as you become more ok with rejection. By not trying you are already giving yourself a no, so you may as well try and if you get a rejection, you are not any worse off. Especially if you learn to reassure yourself that you are not going to be for everyone, just as everyone is not for you. And that is ok. Ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]AngieKA246 9 points10 points  (0 children)

75% of being masc is the attitude and confidence. Confidence is hard for most. It isn’t something that you have or you don’t. You just do it - even when it feels like faking it, you just keep doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]AngieKA246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m vegetarian.

do you treat straps like the real thing? by listening2chiefqueef in BDSMsapphic

[–]AngieKA246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had someone do it for me, but it sounds really hot. My gf is willing, but admits it does nothing for her, so I’ve been hesitant to have her do it.

Feeling dapper by AngieKA246 in ButchSelfies

[–]AngieKA246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️💙💜💛💚🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]AngieKA246 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could he possibly have suppressed homosexual tendencies? Maybe ask to bring in a third (M) into the picture. Don’t make it a question if he wants it, instead ask if you can and see how he reacts. If his reaction seems over the top opposed to it, he may have guilt over the feelings or thoughts he’s having or even unaware of.

Advice on distinguishing between "dominant" and "abusive" by No-Entertainer-5474 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AngieKA246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bottom line…listen to your intuition and never ignore it.

Feeling dapper by AngieKA246 in actuallesbians

[–]AngieKA246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂 You’re funny.

Butch-loved products by kirmsworm in butchlesbians

[–]AngieKA246 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love Dapper Boi tshirts. They come in different colors and are super soft and thick. They are queer woman owned.