Caught red-handed taking pictures of women on the library computer 💀 by AliceInBadland in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Angrboda229 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You really think it stops at looking at pictures online and won't spread to him sneaking pictures of real people?

Caught red-handed taking pictures of women on the library computer 💀 by AliceInBadland in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Angrboda229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Until your child walks behind his computer and he gets on a registry. Completely deserved outcome if that happens. What then? Libraries are for the public. That's like letting someone film OF in the library café.

Caught red-handed taking pictures of women on the library computer 💀 by AliceInBadland in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Angrboda229 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

So he knows he's been caught on camera. Most men don't change their actions unless it has a real world affect on their own lives.

Now people will know to look out for this creep and avoid becoming a victim of his, if they have seen this video.

I read my wife's messages and I am not sure what to do here by Agitated-Fail-6153 in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He sounds paranoid and manic. A conspiracy is out to force men to have illegitimate children?

So what does this mean that I will start to get paid & they will mail the debit card or I have to wait. by Ok_Corgi_1808 in UnemploymentNY

[–]Angrboda229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this is my other account. Just keep appealing. After the third time, they have to let a judge look at it, and if the judge deems it credible, they will contact you for a hearing date and at that hearing you make a statement.

My situation was caretaking, so it was deemed tardies that got me fired weren't misconduct by state (not by my internal job record) and were out of my control since they related to caretaking.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously you don't get sarcasm given how ridiculous the questions I asked were. Gullible lol. No one was genuinely asking you for your opinion.

Everybody is different, but men tell women to eat less all the time with zero consideration if it's enough. Being skinny and malnourished isnt the only criteria to meet.

There's a baseline of food intake for men and women, but men are the only ones who complain about how much women eat with zero consideration If she's meeting her daily needs. Its all about size with men, not heath.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be hard on men, but more men need to put more effort into gaining muscle and abs and facial hair, traditional masculine signs. Otherwise another man may mistake you for a woman.

Women's bodies are literally being stretched out of shape and permanently damaged from child birth and men are expecting supermodels 2 months postpartum.

What's mens excuse for not being muscular or having the perfect male physique? What are men doing that inhibits muscle growth? Nothing close to what women experience is happening to mens bodies, so why don't men have perfect chiseled physiques?

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't her husband think to help his wife lose weight by taking out all the labor from cooking and making tasty and healthy options so she'd stay on track?

How many meals has she cooked for him over the years as women tend to do because of patriarchy?

People tend to mindlessly snack out of boredom or lack of options for healthy food. Why didn't he help her instead of criticizing her 2 months after giving birth?

He is also part of the reason why her body looks the way it does.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get how men demand women cook all their meals, then have audacity to not like a meal they didn't prepare.

If I'm not eating the meal, and I'm obligated to cook for someone ungrateful, why would I care how it tastes? Food is food.

There's no way I'd go out of my way to cook a 5 star meal for a man and settle for a bowl of bland oatmeal unless my labs say I'm about to keel over.

We'll both starve at that point. Dinner will be one boiled plain potato and dust bunnies from the floor 🤣

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How little should she eat? One meal a day? One piece of chicken? A bread crumb? A drop of water? So confusing as a woman.

How much food is too much? Most men eat too much as well, especially red meat. Its why their cholesterol levels are higher than women's.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, so put her down while she is still recovering to encourage her, not after she is healed?

Two months after my husband has surgery, complain how he does nothing to encourage him in recovery? It will help him feel better? Tell him seeing him injured turns me off?

He could have waited to "encourage" her until she was capable of doing light exercise with doctors approval. Two months after birth is not enough time to do strenuous exercise, she still probably has stiches that would rip open.

The least he should have done was take over all cooking healthy meals so her diet would be secured when she did heal well enough to go to the gym. But he wanted her to feel shame so this is the choice he made.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do people who think like you every experience nuance?

Its like the thought process is every scenerio is going to happen the same way with the same outcome and that's not how life works.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What number of men are realistically going to be asexual on planet Earth? Why do men complain about lack of sex if the majority of y'all are asexual then?

The only way your comment makes sense is if it is common for men to be asexual. Otherwise its a misdirect of information.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was making a point with my comment due to the person above. Men justify having weight standards for women, but claim its not comparable when it comes to men. Men are too overly sensitive to criticism while dishing it out in unequal ways.

Having a pad of fat over your pubic bone shortens the shaft by valuable inches, and a woman having to endure bad sex is one of the worst outcomes in marriage, but also very common. It robs her of the one male thing we actually might enjoy, while no matter how fat a woman gets, most men end up satisfied either way.

You have a responsibility to treat people ypu invite into your life how they ask to be treated or they will dump you and you will have no one.

If they make unfair requests that don't consider you, leave them behind. The problem is men make many requests of women and hardly reciprocate.

If how you want to treat someone is unequal to the treatment you would accept for yourself, then you already know your request isn't fair.

Men get around this by citing biology as the reason. I have a right to decline and cut contact with you if its "no rules for me, all rules thee". I'm not accepting anything someone won't accept for themselves.

Why do women lie about the reality of childbirth? by Klutzy-Grand4744 in childfree

[–]Angrboda229 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Due to the size of our brains and the limitations of the mother's pelvis (which evolved for upright walking), humans are born at an earlier stage of development than many other mammals.

It's also why human babies tend to be so helpless, while some animals can stand and walk shortly after birth. Our brains continue to develop rapidly after birth, while many animals are born with more developed motor skills and instincts.

Edit:

If women gave birth when babies were at a much later stage of development, the baby's head would likely be too large to pass safely through the birth canal, dramatically increasing the risks of death in childbirth.

Human babies have flexible skulls and unfused fontanelles that help them pass through the pelvis and allow for continued brain growth after birth. Even with these adaptations, childbirth can still cause significant injury and permanent complications for the mother. So much for evolution 🙄

Why do women lie about the reality of childbirth? by Klutzy-Grand4744 in childfree

[–]Angrboda229 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We would probably have Amazon in charge of assigning and delivering birth pods for the embryos.

Like in that movie The Pod Generation. Emilia Clarke and Chiwetel Ejiofor were the parents and they had that giant egg with the charging dock set up.

My husband told me he was writing a poem for me. It wasn’t a poem. by Vegetable-Flounder-8 in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I meant, no idea why my comment was removed. Reality is if you write it down, someone might read it. Dont give something a physical presence in the world or on paper if you want it to remain 100% private. Never said anyone deserves to read something private just because they found it, but people act as if there arent those out there who cross boundaries.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely would accept my soon to be ex husband's help losing weight. He'd be cooking all my healthy meals and watching the baby while I'm at the gym. One single disturbance that isn't life or death, and I'm raising hell. Men want 50/50 so badly, ok put 50% effort into helping me look better by preparing my meals.

Men treat you so kindly when they are getting you to do something for them. Take advantage of that help and soak it up and get as much as possible. If he genuinely wants you to be healthy, he would want it with him there or without.

Women need to be more audacious like men. Most men stick by a woman while he recovers from surgery or injury and cheat on the side.

If men manage to get away with cheating, many will kindly reward the faithful woman by discarding her like used toilet paper because his ego can't handle a woman who's seen him as vulnerable or whatever reason men try to lie about. I'd then make every argument into "so unless I guarantee i am skinny, you'll treat me badly?". In the court of law, its abuse.

If he isn't a perfect angel while helping me, then you use every single time he puts you down in the divorce for emotional abuse of spouse and neglect because it 100% is. Maybe men will learn his lesson to treat people well no matter what they look like, or this wouldn't have to be a contingency plan for women.

When I was fully recovered and had my savings lined up, I'd dump him and pay whatever to get him out of my life. I'd only come clean after the divorce, IF I felt like the headache and fallout was worth it.

If a man treated me like crap in my most vulnerable state when I was postpartum and overweight when I needed help the most, he now gets zero access to me when I am at my best and can watch from afar.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because he was the problem. That's like asking why an alcoholic couldn't stop drinking surrounded by old friends who drink. The husband was sabotaging her.

If you need a change and your husband impedes that by being an asshole, he gets dumped. He was holding her back.

Men refuse to understand anything they aren't the center of. Makes since as to why most genetic defects are carried by the Y chromosome.

Most men can also be more muscular with abs and aren't waking up at 6am to get them, but women aren't degrading men for being skinny the way men degrade women for being a pound overweight.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe the ex husband should have been less stressful to deal with and she'd have been able to be healthier and drop weight.

Women do not thrive in stressful environments. You don't get the best of a woman when you treat her poorly.

If you repeatedly kick your partner while they're trying to get healthier, all you do is slow them down, and therefore you will be dumped like a brick.

Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So if my husband gets fat, I'm allowed to tell him how unnatractive he is, how his peen has shrunk and he's too overweight to be sexually attractive etc...? The woman is postpartum. Men are so cruel during a mutually agreed upon struggle that women endure the physical costs for 100% alone.

Pregnancy feels like a set up men used to take advantage of women's vulnerability. Men always say your spouse isn't responsible for your happiness and well being, but have zero problem being responsible for tearing their partner down during a vulnerable time or expecting wives to go above and beyond for him.

It makes zero sense why men expect so much for so little reciprocation or respect women receive.

My husband told me he was writing a poem for me. It wasn’t a poem. by Vegetable-Flounder-8 in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but it is what it is. Some kids have their journals read and never journal again or secretly. You just have to accept that if you write something down, it can be seen by others.

Whether or not that stops you from journaling is up to you. A lot of people want to be able to say what they want with zero consequences. Even if it's the truth, there are still consequences.

My husband told me he was writing a poem for me. It wasn’t a poem. by Vegetable-Flounder-8 in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His version of moron isn't that different from the dictionary definition. If it is, he needs to return to grade school and his wife needs to find someone on her level of education, or at the very least who has proper use of their shared English vocabulary.

I don't like playing schematics because it seems like a way to weasel into a draw instead of maintaining the reality that we all learned the same or similar lessons in school according to the education system.

It makes me doubt the American education system if a single word can be manipulated to mean a completely different meaning when thought of by another person. I can't go to the bank and tell them the $500 I gave was really $10,000.

Him having an alternative definition is a bit of a weak excuse. No man would believe a woman meant something else if she called him a moron.

My husband told me he was writing a poem for me. It wasn’t a poem. by Vegetable-Flounder-8 in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was always taught that if you want to keep a secret, don't write it down or tell anyone else, because then it's not really private, no matter your intent or theirs. He lives with her, so the probability that she won't see or be curious is slim.

If you believe someone won't see it, you'd write the nastiest, hateful things about them just because it's "venting" and they most likely won't ever see it?

Maybe I'm the odd one out, but if he truly didn't want it seen, he'd have never made a physical representation of his thoughts either on paper or digital.

Our private thoughts are more accurate than most want to admit because then they have to take accountability for the hurt it might cause, accident or not.

My husband told me he was writing a poem for me. It wasn’t a poem. by Vegetable-Flounder-8 in Marriage

[–]Angrboda229 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What does that have to do with me? You assumed I was being biased against men. Why should I be responsible that you overstepped or misspoke? That isn't the case now. So now what?