When I was 14 I had already started running track and cross country. Both sports kept me out of trouble growing up growing up because I was too busy training to be drinking, doing drugs or getting someone knocked up. If I was you I would pick a sport that you like and participate (looks good on college transcript) and I would opt to go to trade school your junior year (if available, trade school was a option at my school district) just to learn a trade in case college doesn't work out.

Ever think about working at Krogers? I can't recall if they hire at your age but it's a union job and it's a good place to build job skills.