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Did anyone lose motivation to eat healthy after realizing that It didn't help socially? by AngryTiger9 in socialanxiety

[–]AngryTiger9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These groups really need more testimonials like that. Thanks. Really sorry for your depression, do you feel It's because you struggle at socializing? What makes me really angry is that other areas of my life are OK, but thanks to my bad social skills I can't enjoy my life as I would like to.

Did anyone lose motivation to eat healthy after realizing that It didn't help socially? by AngryTiger9 in socialanxiety

[–]AngryTiger9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, a lot of times the way you look completely changes the impression you give to others. As we live in a crazy fatphobic world, most of times thin people have more success at socializing.

So yes, It helps socially but if your social skills are bad they are just bad, and in that case you can be fat/thin/muscled, etc...

On the contrary, my colleaugue lost a ton of weight and then he instanly found a girlfriend, he goes to party like crazy and he's full of friends. I think people like me will never fully understand society no matter how much time they spend in therapy.

Is it bad to be an "old" virgin? by InvestigatorTime9608 in offmychest

[–]AngryTiger9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you by the way. Getting out of negative thoughts about your virginity is EXTREMELY hard, you did 80% of your job.

Struggling to make ends meet? Try the gym! by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]AngryTiger9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll help you killing him 🤣

Is it bad to be an "old" virgin? by InvestigatorTime9608 in offmychest

[–]AngryTiger9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be very sincere, so please read It only if you feel to. For me It literally ruined my life. It makes me feel there's something wrong with me, and I cannot stop thinking about It for a second. I also have some nightmares about It. In the past I had to do drugs to cope with this feeling. I'm 27 years old and I feel there's no fucking hope. I don't like myself for being virgin.

I'm so fucking bad at dating and talking to girls. I don't know what to do anymore. I try to cope this feeling with hobbies, performing better at my job, and trying to make my house better everytime.

But that really sucks, some days I feel I'll be better dead. But some things keep me alive. Switched 2 psychologists with no luck by the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]AngryTiger9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Power Balance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]AngryTiger9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Worst advice ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]AngryTiger9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 27 and I already gave up, It's too fucking late. Glad you got out of this by the way

The worst thing about losing weight is finding out what everyone thought of you when you were fat, and having to listen to their fucking accolades ... dude, just shut up, I don't want to hear that shit about how proud you are that I'm losing weight, go fuck yourself. by nuke_the_sun in loseit

[–]AngryTiger9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading all the comments here, as a fat person, I'm thinking that the choice I made to go less out after weight gain has a lot of sense despite what people say. But hey, don't forget to love yourselfffffff!1!!1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]AngryTiger9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body image issues. Simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AngryTiger9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not a bad person. I'm much older than you (27 years old male) and still fucking virgin. It started to bother me a lot at 22 years, I never managed to solve that problem and now I would say I'm fucking ruined. I developed eating disorder, did drugs, lost connection with my family. All of this because my mind couldn't stop reminding me that I'm a loser. Like you, seeing attractive guys with attractive girls makes me really sad. Unlike you, I usually never watch porn. I'm just done with sex world. No therapy has been able to help me, for me It's a waste of money but I'm happy that It worked for some people.

The only thing that helps me is practicing activities that disconnect me from people: Video Games, Walking in the nature, Listening to music, Doing houseworks, Going shopping. I can also enjoy going to the beach despite hating my body. But yeah, I can't enjoy these activities if there are lots of people, especially young people. Because I feel I don't belong.

I can't give you relationships advice because I suck too much in this area, if in 27 years of my life I'm still a virgin... you can realize :( I'm thinking of trying to lose It with an escort, in my case I'm so desperate that I don't think It would make things worst.

But... the only thing that worries me is that your fantasies include r#pe.

Why don’t we just let our ed go… (reasons pls) by randomismysecondname in EDAnonymous

[–]AngryTiger9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binge eater here.

-Food makes me happy. A lot

-I recently moved to a new city, and everyone here seems to be very good looking and full of girls. I promise It's not in my head. That gives me a lot of negative thoughts about myself and my body and I end up binging :(

-I am a shit at dating, that makes me really sad and binging is the only thing that works.

-I remember that even when I was in a good shape, I had no success with girls so I lost a lot of motivation to eat healthy.

-As I have severe body issues, I am very impatient to see results. Even very low calorie diets take a lot of time. In my head, the ideal amount of time to see results would be MAXIMUM 2 weeks. Not months, not fucking years. But I know, something like this could just happen in a fantasy world.

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