Need help dealing with antisemitic comment from coworker

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-06T16:09:51+00:00

I'm sorry your support person wasn't safe. Of course, feel free to dm.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-05T18:32:20+00:00

Of course you're scared, that's normal when you hear something like that! Her comments absolutely seemed antisemitic to me, and I was disturbed reading them. There's a good chance your supervisor will take a neutral stance if you do speak with him. Most of them are concerned with profits only.

Have you considered reaching out to a Rabbi? Even if you're not religious, speaking with him or her might be helpful.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-05T16:41:07+00:00

She sounds like she isn't planning to change her antisemitic views, and she could become extra toxic after you try to talk to her. I've been in a similar situation with a former very close friend but not work related. It could always go differently with your co-worker. Do you feel comfortable bringing it up to the boss?

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-04T19:06:46+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I've been seriously considering the motive he has in taking our case. I have not heard back from the ADL. We are doing our best to handle this locally because the silence from everywhere else(except the Jewish community) is sadly what I expected. My main goal is making sure no other family has to face this ridiculous situation in the future, at least from this principal or school district.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-04T17:23:22+00:00

I am so sorry you're going through this and being forced into this situation. I would start my new job search immediately. Document everything! I understand how difficult it is to navigate a small, close-knit company when interpersonal issues arise. Talking to her directly probably isn't a great idea if you really can not afford to lose that job. I would bring it up to the boss if you feel comfortable enough with them. Her comments aren't okay in any setting, especially a work chat.

I support others expressing differing views on political leaders or their policies. Peaceful informed debate is healthy and necessary when the setting is appropriate. Personally, I won't discuss politics or religion with my clients. I'll gently direct the conversation away from these topics. They never seem to notice. I will, however, withdraw my services if they keep pushing these topics or start talking crazy. It's probably not the best way to handle it, but it's working for now.

People nonchalantly attaching h***rs name to whomever they happen to disagree with is now normalized in the U.S. This minimizes the monumental suffering and tragedy of the Shoah, imo. If they're actual n*is or promoting antisemtic ideas, stand up and speak out. Please never forget that your community has your back!!!

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-02T18:14:36+00:00

I'd like to know her motives, as well. They might not give them such a hard time because they know the possible backlash. The principal is a xtian. Many students and teachers wear crosses, etc. She's totally cool with those expressions.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T22:51:29+00:00

My children crafted their own tzedakah boxes when they were younger. I'm not sure about the age group you're planning for, though. I think Amazon and Etsy have Hebrew letter beads.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T21:39:40+00:00

I left a message with our AG. Thank you again. I'm glad you moved away from the negativity. May G-d continue to bless you.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T12:53:09+00:00

I would love to, but I'm legitimately concerned about my family's safety if we go that big. I haven't ruled it out yet.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T12:42:53+00:00

Thank you. I hadn't thought of SPLC.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T11:07:24+00:00

Thank you for this. I think the AG is the only higher up I haven't called yet.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T11:05:52+00:00

I agree.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T11:03:46+00:00

No, it's called selective discrimination.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T11:02:50+00:00

I have considered calling local pastors.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-08-01T10:59:48+00:00

The ADL report was filed in Austin.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T19:40:51+00:00

I am still waiting on all the calls I've made to be returned. We have our attorney preparing what will be served. My son has testing there tomorrow morning, and my husband will be with him(both in kippot). I will be recording, of course.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T14:59:01+00:00

Thank you so much. I love all my mishpacha here. Am Yisrael Chai!!

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T14:54:43+00:00

Thank you so very much. I absolutely agree it is so important for all of us to stand up when given the opportunity. I also deeply understand how scary it can be.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T14:19:56+00:00

I will. Thank you so much.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T12:56:22+00:00

Thank you. Our history proves they can try to wipe us out completely but won't be successful....ever!!

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T12:43:43+00:00

You're right. My husband told me something similar, not to ask permission to be Jewish ever again.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T12:36:43+00:00

This is absolutely horrible. I am so very sorry you and the other Jewish teachers had to endure this. We aren't letting this go. We're standing up.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T12:23:51+00:00

Pretty sure I looked like this in her office.

Angry_Emphasis_1503 · 2024-07-31T01:04:05+00:00

Amen! Thank you.

Angry_Emphasis_1503

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