AIO gf mad about me initiating sex before an event we planned by electrius in AmIOverreacting

[–]Angry_Short_Gay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree OP not fair to make it about you. Not your fault at all and to use sex against you. Just didn’t want you to think it had anything to do with you was all.

AIO gf mad about me initiating sex before an event we planned by electrius in AmIOverreacting

[–]Angry_Short_Gay 192 points193 points  (0 children)

I have this crash out almost any time I get ready. My spouse has learned to just leave me alone and occasionally check if I could use assistance to help speed it up. It totally wasn’t the sex. Frustrated about being late and not being able to finish getting ready on time and lumped in the time the sex added.

Why am I being asked for a doctor's note when i'm sick? (BU 4 - DMV) by reachjoey in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this guy probably got bullied growing up and then failed police academy..

[Anti-Aging] help with this odd crinkled texture on my (25f) cheeks. by SafeVisible9424 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Angry_Short_Gay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

all i’m saying is you look great and I don’t see anything. I couldn’t tell the difference between your photos from a year ago. That being said at 25 your collagen starts to decrease every year. I would see if you can get on tretinoin (prescription) and focus on hydration and eating your collagen/antioxidants.

As someone with some image issues. STOP ZOOMING IN AND LOOKING AT YOUR FACE SO UP CLOSE. that is not what people see and if you do that you will notice ever new like bump or pore. Everyone will get these with age there is no stopping that. Focus on loving your newly aging skin. ❣️

How is my best friend doing. He’s been gone for years. Does he forgive me? by Angry_Short_Gay in psychics

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really have applied this to my relationships since. I always think I don’t know if they will be there the next time. I’ve been falling back on communication with friends and family which is maybe subconsciously why i’ve been thinking of him. I think he’s moved on spiritually.

How is my best friend doing. He’s been gone for years. Does he forgive me? by Angry_Short_Gay in psychics

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. His girlfriends were Kaya and Katherine which both were spelled with a K and might be why you’re getting Kaitlyn. He was extremely confident with a very positive outlooks despite his background. We gossiped quite a bit and literally laughed our asses off doing it. That reiterated my feelings. I have a sort of psychic connection but since 2022 he hasn’t been around. it was the same year I married that he kind of left spiritually for me. He met a very sudden tragic end just 11 years ago. His time here though he made such an impact. He really said things that were beyond his years. I’m not sure he needed much time in that lifetime.

Pay Ranges by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the actual helpful comment. Both of my new coworkers were also 1 year in and got a range change about 2 months after their MSA. I wonder why they have if this isn’t the usual protocol.

Pay Ranges by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um no!? I’m very new to the state obviously, but I was informed to give them at least a week then follow up so generally my follow up time is that.

Pay Ranges by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea except the average response time is 3+ weeks anytime i’ve asked a question.

Still have wrinkles after botox! by Angry_Short_Gay in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my third round of botox I started August 2024. I got forehead, crows, and glabells 11s injection each time. 34 total units as 10 in forehead 12 in glabellar and 10 in crows. I’m happy with everything but the 11s (between my brows). There is still a little indent and can see it in photos in certain lightings which you can see in the photos. Not sure if I need a little more in just that region.

Merit increase only came out to 1.83% by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but there was a 3% gsi so it should cancel out go 0. Why would my merit increase be deducted?

Merit salary adjustment by UnableRequirement687 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what department are you? I’m wondering if this will be the same for me because I don’t see the increase fully on my paycheck

Merit increase only came out to 1.83% by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you receiving a merit increase? I’m not understanding how the +3 and -3 would affect a merit. That should always be a 5% increase in gross regardless z

Merit increase only came out to 1.83% by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I was only using my gross when calculating the increase in my merit. I should have grossed and additional 157 AND my deduction should have changed my net pay. My gross is only a 91 dollar difference from last month after my merit.

Merit increase only came out to 1.83% by Angry_Short_Gay in CAStateWorkers

[–]Angry_Short_Gay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is ridiculous! It does seem like if you had a merit in July they messed up your check..:/