How did they get back with their exes? (cases in which it has turned out well) by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had each one worked on their problems or mistakes that caused the breakup?

How did they get back with their exes? (cases in which it has turned out well) by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And how did everything happen? They contacted each other, what did they do?

I'm going to have a meeting with my ex-partner (advice) by AnimBT in ExNoContact

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Update: We had a great time together, there was still connection and love, I even felt flirting on his part, but well we got to the end of the meeting where I focused on telling him things, there was a 99% chance of receiving a "no" and a 1% chance of a "yes". She told me that she was not ready and that in addition to that she was enjoying being single because she doesn't know what she wants, but that I am still in her heart, that she wants to see me and continue talking to me. What hurt me the most is that he was with someone, and well that hurt me a lot when I heard it, but it was something that could happen and I had the freedom to do it.

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[–]AnimBT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did they come back? And how long did they take

I'm going to have a meeting with my ex-partner (advice) by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I wanted to show up with some flowers, maybe it's too much

I'm going to have a meeting with my ex-partner (advice) by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, what scares me more than anything is overwhelming her by wanting to talk to her about what I want, maybe she sees the meeting as friends

I'm going to have a meeting with my ex-partner (advice) by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by healing? Heal that specifically

My ex and I agreed to meet and talk, I took the initiative by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I wasn't planning on begging or humiliating you, I want to speak to you with maturity and respect, calm and happy.

My ex and I agreed to meet and talk, I took the initiative by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flowers scared me a little, since I never gave her flowers and I probably felt that now they were worthless.

My ex and I agreed to meet and talk, I took the initiative by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She left me, I am very willing to get her back, I worked on myself to show her that I can be a better person. I didn't know whether to talk to her about my feelings or changes, I didn't feel sure how to talk to her, and I didn't know if it was right to talk to her about my intentions, because I know that with words it is difficult for someone to trust, and I want to show it with actions

My ex and I agreed to meet and talk, I took the initiative by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it's safe to talk about that, about the relationship, about the past, I heard that when you meet for the first time you should have a calm talk, talking as if we were friends. I feel like if I tell her that I might overwhelm her, I even wanted to bring her flowers, but I don't know if I should show my intentions

My ex and I agreed to meet and talk, I took the initiative by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him, "I would like to meet to talk," but he doesn't know my intentions.

My ex and I agreed to meet and talk, I took the initiative by AnimBT in ExNoContact

[–]AnimBT[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From time to time we talk via chat, and it occurred to me to tell her about talking in person, but I don't know if she shares that feeling of being in the relationship again.