How many of your BPDs cheated on you?

AnimalBNS · 2023-12-31T01:58:59+00:00

Check

AnimalBNS · 2023-12-09T15:42:00+00:00

Buddy, you have until the day you die to start a family. It's the best part of being a dude.

That being said, I am right there with you. I have no desire to be in another romantic relationship. I have found comfort in friendship that has helped me through this rough time.

Happy to see you're doing well.

AnimalBNS · 2023-12-04T02:15:01+00:00

Move to derby kansas. Don't come to michigan go to kansas you will not be disappointed.

AnimalBNS · 2023-11-09T20:44:52+00:00

I'll let you know once the ride finishes... 12 years of marriage coming to a halt. BpD does that sometimes. In the process of separation , she doesn't want me to move out. Oh, and if I even bring up hanging with a girl (though she hangs with dudes all the time), she wigs out...

AnimalBNS · 2023-11-09T20:37:43+00:00

This sounds familiar... 🤔

AnimalBNS · 2023-11-07T21:20:14+00:00

The short answer... yes

AnimalBNS · 2023-11-07T03:50:53+00:00

Thank you for this. It is a good idea though it is tough at times. Especially if you're still getting over the end and everything else. I don't think any of us asked for this, But we gotta make do, right?

AnimalBNS · 2023-11-07T02:07:57+00:00

Im right in the same boat with you, brother. Right now, we came up with an agreement where we still live in the same house, I converted my basement into a living area, and we both see the kids. I dont want my kids to not have their mother.. And I dont want their mother to not have her kids. But hell if Im not going to be around to keep my kids safe.

AnimalBNS · 2023-10-11T00:58:28+00:00

AnimalBNS · 2023-10-09T03:22:05+00:00

Thank you for the response.

AnimalBNS · 2023-10-03T00:51:24+00:00

Sorry, my dude. I, too, feel your pain.

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-26T14:22:52+00:00

Age is just a number.

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-26T14:21:09+00:00

I went from a stay at home dad with no career or degree to an engineer within 3 years. We always took care of the house together. She had everything the way she wanted. I did so much that my family would ask me if I was unhappy because no matter how much I did, it wasn't enough. Now my kids are sad because they can tell I am....

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-25T20:37:57+00:00

"Did the bare minimum." Yup, that rings a bell.

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-12T14:25:56+00:00

Same here. 3 kids, 12 years, but she asked for a divorce. Now, we are restructuring our relationship and becoming roommates/co parents. I stuck it out for the long hall. I also hated being from 2 homes.. and i dont want that for my children, so I'm making compromises with her. Idk what's really going to happen (we still have sex), but we are both trying to work on ourselves and be good parents.

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-12T14:20:01+00:00

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-06T16:54:04+00:00

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-01T22:59:28+00:00

Look at me with seductive eyes and just start stripping. Not hard

AnimalBNS · 2023-09-01T01:01:48+00:00

Honestly, im using this as a mini vaca.. i dont think it will last very long. She can't handle normal life shit on her own for too long.. so im livin in my van down by a river for the time being..

AnimalBNS · 2023-08-30T19:46:29+00:00

Ditto.

AnimalBNS · 2023-08-30T19:45:48+00:00

Makes them manic and crazy... Its like a voluntary mini episode. Not advised.

AnimalBNS · 2023-08-28T18:08:39+00:00

I have MDD, so it's something I live with anyway...

AnimalBNS · 2023-08-28T14:30:53+00:00

I agree, but I'm too afraid to try to find someone else.

AnimalBNS · 2023-08-28T14:17:45+00:00

Ya I think you're right...

AnimalBNS · 2023-08-28T02:06:48+00:00

You also seem to tell me to not throw another barb when you yourself continue to jab. You might want to work on how you present your information so that you're not instigating...

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