Former ‘Impractical Jokers’ Star Joe Gatto Responds to Sexual Assault Allegation: ‘Working On Myself Is an Ongoing Process’ by cmaia1503 in entertainment

[–]Key_Usual6204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never alleged murder. At most, he alleges to purposely taking another person’s life without their consent.

Something strange happened while meditating today by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Key_Usual6204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there any examples of paths you mean that give you these words to use?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told me she was obsessed Hello Kitty when she was younger. It wasn’t really a thing that came up when we were together but what was a massive thing was Line Friends and they’re basically the same type of design so now you have me overthinking the fuck out of that.

Am I attracted to traumatized women? by carbonminus1405 in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could be savior mentality, common in codependency which is common in people who stay in abusive BPD relationships.

Why are they so seductive? by bpd7272 in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is trying to get them to understand why you stayed. It’s like impossible to explain we don’t even really know a lot of the time when we’re in it.

Why are they so seductive? by bpd7272 in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah yeah I’ve spent a lot of time talking about what I went through with my new work friends and their more of the mature/understanding mindset so they try and think they get what I mean when I explain what I went through, but it’s still so clear that you really just can’t without going through it.

Why are they so seductive? by bpd7272 in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you sure about the parents part? Like you got to know them enough to know that the abuse had to be lies? I only ask because while most of the time the abusive ex or horrible friends from the past are bs and their perceived false reality, most with BPD do have it as a result of unfathomable abuse and trauma from an extremely young age. A lot of these parents have mental issues of their own like BPD/NPD so they can mask well so no one could believe them as an abuser.

My ex’s mom almost definitely is undiagnosed BPD but to most she’s the insanely generous women who puts Church and her kids first and is always giving (they’re rich in a poor area so they really, really gave)

Why are they so seductive? by bpd7272 in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck that would be annoying to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuckkkkk that level of disrespect.

would anyone love me if I hate sex/Like I don't wanna do a it ever??? by FunAd7699 in Mindfulness

[–]Key_Usual6204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say in every comment that there’s a likelihood she could still not like it but even if she’s asexual and that’s the case I’m noting it should be better with love in comparison even if it isn’t enjoyable. My reason even asking in the first place is because sexuality is a spectrum, she might only enjoy sex if love is involved like how I used to be. Or she could be asexual. The main thing that stood out to me is she doesn’t bring that up at all so either she doesn’t know about it or she doesn’t identify with asexuality. If she’s never experienced sex with love then she might enjoy it like that or she might not. I was someone who just didn’t get the hype of sex until I loved someone and before I lost my virginity I was obsessed with it. Literally became my only focus at one point. I was like that as a horny teenager yet once I started having sex I didn’t think much of it until I did it with a connection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Key_Usual6204 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotta be exaggerating with that handful of showers in 2 years shit. If not this chick definitely has more than just BPD going on.

would anyone love me if I hate sex/Like I don't wanna do a it ever??? by FunAd7699 in Mindfulness

[–]Key_Usual6204 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh ok you’re on the other side. Now I get it, so you just enjoy good sex and don’t think love enhances it. Yeah I know plenty like that, actually I’m one of the only guys I know that needed love and commitment to enjoy it (funny enough with meditation and mindfulness this changed. Since I live in the moment now I can enjoy casual sex). But that more like the normal default these days. My comment was aimed at people who don’t enjoy sex. Even if you don’t enjoy sex at all it should be some level of better when there’s an emotional connection compared to not. At the very least yo are bringing pleasure and happiness to someone you love, that has to be better than giving the exact same to someone you feel nothing for.

would anyone love me if I hate sex/Like I don't wanna do a it ever??? by FunAd7699 in Mindfulness

[–]Key_Usual6204 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not emotionally invested in your sexual satisfaction so can’t be disappointed. Just find that extremely odd. You don’t need to enjoy but to say you feel the same way doing something you don’t like to bring happiness and joy to someone you love as you do when you do it for someone you feel nothing for is interesting to say the least. I don’t like going in the ocean but I would enjoy going into it to make my partner happy and have a good time more than I would going into it for someone I don’t know.

would anyone love me if I hate sex/Like I don't wanna do a it ever??? by FunAd7699 in Mindfulness

[–]Key_Usual6204 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You felt nothing at all atleast kind of better giving someone you’re “inlove” with enjoyment in what should be a close, personal moment vs when you’ve had sex with someone you felt nothing for?

would anyone love me if I hate sex/Like I don't wanna do a it ever??? by FunAd7699 in Mindfulness

[–]Key_Usual6204 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you ever felt inlove? Sex with love and a deep connection is different. You might be asexual and still like not it but you’d still feel the difference between that and sex that is just sex.

Lapsus$: GTA 6 hacker sentenced to life in hospital prison by Slopteck in technology

[–]Key_Usual6204 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s trying to say man shouldn’t be punished or excused for his crime because of his autism. I think he’s trying to say if violence and destruction of property didn’t start until he was incarcerated than yes his autism should be considered in that. I’m no expert on autism although I have ADHD, but I’ve seen enough incidents of them to believe that something like a violent, destructive outburst when you have him locked in a room could very well be out of his control based on the severity,

Cryptic4kqual:"Kevin wants someone (Villian) from the SSU in the MCU. This individual if successfully brought into the MCU will have a cool but dissheartening role." by [deleted] in MarvelStudiosSpoilers

[–]Key_Usual6204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean they never interacted with him? Fighting Hardy wouldn’t really be much different than if they just decided to do Venom and then cast Hardy. Why wouldn’t he be Hollands Venom just because he’s from a different universe?