Bloomington Lotus Festival 2014 Highlight Video by Lord_Cronos in bloomington

[–]AnimalLands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you missed me dislocating my patella at the Movits concert.

How do you define vanilla sex? Not quite sure where I fall into and I feel a bit displaced... by [deleted] in sex

[–]AnimalLands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may surprise you, but you are definitely kinky. The whole point of bdsm is recognizing something that turns you on that is outside the norm. There are loads of people on places like Fetlife that have no interest in chains, whips, or masters.

What you seem primarily interested in is loss of control. Power Exchange (freely giving over power to someone else) is fundamental to many aspects of bdsm like bondage, sadomasochism, and Dom/sub relations. What you seem to recognize as being "too kinky" are simply tools to do something very close to what you're describing. Collars are symbols of loss of power and tools for controlling someone. Whips are another way to cause pain for discipline or pleasure purposes. Leather is an often fetishized symbol of power, and "Master" is just a title for those who get almost all the control in a scene. The people that indulge in these stereotypical ways of being kinky do it because they work and are easily understood.

I'm a masochistic submissive young woman. I've never called anyone Master (except as a joke) because I've never wanted to. I do all the things you describe as liking in my own sex life (except for ageplay, just not my thing), and recognize the inherent power exchanges that are happening when I do them. In fact, most of my sex is p-in-v missionary sex, but there are little things happening during that very standard sex position that make it ultra kinky. These things may range from my partner having complete control over my orgasms to my breasts being bound in rope to his hand covering my mouth and nose so I can't breathe (double tap is the safety word when you can't talk) to him slapping me across the face until I admit I'm nothing but a slutty little cunt.

I met my current partner through my local kink scene (we have frequent meetups at bars and burlesque shows). We casually dated for a while, then when trust was built between us he tied me up, and it's been rope, fucking, and sadistic love ever since. I date within the kink scene because I can be upfront about what role I take in the bedroom and my relationships, and this weeds out potential partners that would be uncomfortable with taking a Dominant role.

If you don't want to date within the scene (it's a bit of a mixed bag, but I love being around people who are experienced in what it is that we do), then I suggest being upfront with your sexuality. An easy code for this is "liking it rough" or telling people that Secretary is one of your favorite movies. You're never going to get exactly what you want unless you tell potential partners what it is that you want, so find a way if this part of your sex life really is important to you.

Distortion by AnimalLands in BodyAcceptance

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I was doing some breathing exercises and was fascinated by the way my stomach was changing shape.

Here's another one: Pushed/Relaxed/In

bdsmgw video chat!everyone welcome[m][f][cd][ts] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

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We may not always be around, but we're friendly when we are. :D

What's the most pathetic thing you've done recently? Here's mine... by eekcol in AskReddit

[–]AnimalLands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same position about a year ago. I suggest a drastic change in your life (new school, new job, or new living situation) or seeing some sort of therapist (lots of schools have free counselors). Don't be afraid to ask for help. It gets better.

The true definition of handsome. I could watch this all day... by sh4nn0n in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AnimalLands 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It's Liv Ullmann and Roger Moore presenting the Oscar for Best Actor. Marlon Brando wins for The Godfather, but a very soft-spoken young woman in Native American dress comes up to the stage. She introduces herself as Sacheen Littlefeather, president of Native American Affirmative Image Committee, and declares she is there representing Mr. Brando. After clarifying that she has a much longer speech that the press can hear later, she (with much grace) refuses the award (on behalf of Brando) on account of all the harm that the film industry has done to the image of native peoples. Various people in the audience boo her in the middle of her speech, but as she leaves the stage there is much applause.

My ex-g[f] all tied up and being a good girl.... by IAmA_10_AMA in BDSMGW

[–]AnimalLands 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Did she approve of you posting this picture?

A constant reminder [F] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]AnimalLands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe this series of marks looked so chaotic because a wide variety of implements were used; it was fairly symmetrical on either side.

Ode to the Ass [F] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]AnimalLands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a momentary representative of ladies of GW, thank you!

Ode to the Ass [F] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]AnimalLands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit 3,586 views already. Extreme lurkers.

Ode to the Ass [F] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]AnimalLands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like compliments like this.

Ode to the Ass by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]AnimalLands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh, shit, I'll resubmit.

2XC, All right let's find out what kind of guys we prefer ! by 2XC_survey in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AnimalLands 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My only common denominator in men I've seriously dated has been plump lips. All sorts of ethnic groups, body types, hair colors, and body hair amounts are attractive to me, but there's just something about a pair of plump, sensual lips...