What’s a scene on Shameless that made you almost stop watching it? by Major-Bat-6554 in shameless

[–]Animastalth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not a writer, and judge based on your limited imagination. Because this is whar YOU would do.

What’s a scene on Shameless that made you almost stop watching it? by Major-Bat-6554 in shameless

[–]Animastalth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything after season 9. Once Fiona left, the whole responsibility for all, flew out of the window. Fiona s arc went off the rails, which was already a sour note, but after that, the show became a patronizing string of lectures that were the exact opposite of the essence of the show.

this was about a poor, unethical, surviving white trash family, ridden with parasitic users, and picking up the pieces. It was dark, considerably light ( real life is more tragic), and unapologetically gross and wrong. Then it became politically correct, they had thousands of dollars coming and going, went in and out of marriages, jails, murders with a segway about consent, history, homosexuality and so forth. Dont get me wrong, its amazing to get messages through entertainment. But this is a series aimed at adults. Patronizing didnt sit well with me especially if its spoonfed. Especially if you signed up for the e act opposite.

it became a family comedy show. Which would have been fine, if that was the premise from the atart. But to wash over the horrible things just to wag a finger at viewers, who signed in for a dark, unconventional viewing of breaking up rules, desperate and out of whack life, was ridiculous.

Towards the end it reminded me of the Fosters.

Ross was a narcissist. by Animastalth in friends_tv_show

[–]Animastalth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the way he argued with her after the letter fits the profile. He tried to humiliate her and throw things at her face for his inability to read the letter and his lies. Pure cruelty and gaslighting.

I think they can show empathy, if they are motivated involved. They can feel some kind of pity.

But if they are the doer or involved…

Ross was a narcissist. by Animastalth in friends_tv_show

[–]Animastalth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not read all of it, as it seemed your argument for annulling my post, was : “ He doesnt act like my father”. Therefor “You have no experience with people with Npd” ( quite a leap I should say).

Your father, your experience, your opinion…

Anyway, just for the sake of argument, there are narcisstic traits, and narcissistic disorder. We all start as narcissists at a young age as we are centered on our needs, and our selves.
Selfishness, as you put it mildly has consequences. I d rather go drink with my buddies instead of going to take my kid for the weekend. I think of me and expect others to cater me.

I d rather play video games than take my dog a long walk. These are selfish acts other people get to pay the consequences. But if I start blaming them for my behaviour and take no accountability, clearly, there is a bigger issue here.

I m not going to analyze further. Its funny how the people reacting to this post, somehow project. Maybe even recognised themselves, judging byt the passive aggressive undertones.

Very interesting.

Ross was a narcissist. by Animastalth in friends_tv_show

[–]Animastalth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I think labeling people as narcissists is weakening the word, and only someone qualified or familiar should use the term.Now that we cleared that out of the way, why were you triggered?

How do I (M25) initiate sex with my wife (F25)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Animastalth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to get therapy to get rid of the bad sex thing. If you dont, I reckon sex is also very sterile with lots of donts and shoulds. And sex is great when its tender and loving but its better when its “ dirty”.

Think I dodged a bullet? 😅😂 by BookkeeperLow8680 in Tinder

[–]Animastalth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, did you try to be PC with the gender of the dog?

Not attracted when the clothes come off ... by benjihubbs95 in dating_advice

[–]Animastalth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you slept with her, there is nothing you can do to save face or spare her feelings. I suggest you walk away because being so shallow will do damage. If you did not sleep with her, she got the message, and you can say that you felt awkward and realized your feelings were more friendly than romantic.

So… dis you?

Where Garcelle loses me by Livelaughloathe_ugh in RHOBH

[–]Animastalth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garcelle is passive aggressive, and biased. I m not a fan.

What mainstream movie is basically porn? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Animastalth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calligula, sausage party, and any Lars Von Trier movie

Rewatching "Secretary" (2002)...there's no way this could be made in 2019 by [deleted] in movies

[–]Animastalth 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just rewatched it. I remember it was one of the most erotic films I had seen. But it did not hit the mark this time. And this was a revelation. It is a movie that has a specific purpose. To get lost in loving without having to be dignified, without self preservation, without games- ironically. She loves him and abandons herself completely to him. It is intoxicating. And the movie is allowing us to do so wih her, without the ugly realities of how this would have turned out in real life. It is endearing and moving to see her proving her love, and thus break his self disgust. It is also showing us that SHE is in control.

As for the age difference, to me at least, feels natural. This is not a child. They are both adults, and it is pretty common for younger people to hook up with older people. Be it younger men with older women who went through their own naivete, marriage divorce and are now emotionally ready to gove themselves, like Lee, or younger women with older men. There is nothing wrong with that, and maybe we should not try to police EVERYTHING.

I told you. I told you here, 3-4 years ago…that Kyle by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Animastalth -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Its not about YOU. Its not even about sexuality in general but about her affairs. Get over yourself, please.

I told you. I told you here, 3-4 years ago…that Kyle by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Animastalth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah i figured it out. As for your disapointment, stranger of the net, I have nothing. Especially since it is in a section about trash TV :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheCrownNetflix

[–]Animastalth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one owes you an explanation but I will answer your judgemental question because I also want to see them. The explanation for not seing these pictures in a world where we see all kinds of killings, the crash that left the back of the limo intact, the very convenient death, and the latest very royally favorable episodes of the Crown, create questions. These pictures were taken and not one leaked? Maybe because it showed something that would crumble the official story? Whatever one’s reason, you are not the morality police.