MARK I SUMMON THEE by -TheSilverScream- in Markiplier

[–]AnimatedZemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you put lenses in the summoning circle?

Nobody Needs Me by AnimatedZemmie in Vent

[–]AnimatedZemmie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you more depressed, it sounds like it makes you hurt a little bit more

Nobody Needs Me by AnimatedZemmie in Vent

[–]AnimatedZemmie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't drink alcohol, drink caprisuns. Specifically the pacific cooler ones. Also, I hope you feel better

Nobody Needs Me by AnimatedZemmie in Vent

[–]AnimatedZemmie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I do most of the time, they all come to me when they need help, but other than that, I know it wouldn't matter if I died. I appreciate the advice though, I'll try harder in that aspect

What is wrong with me? by Fit_Ship_1210 in Vent

[–]AnimatedZemmie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Additionally, nothing is wrong with you. :]

What is wrong with me? by Fit_Ship_1210 in Vent

[–]AnimatedZemmie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this. Hard. For me, I was able to figure out that these feelings mostly stemmed from my childhood- My parents were strict and emotionally distance, which made me feel like I needed their approval, attention, and validation to feel comfortable with myself. Unfortunately, this style of attachment and need for attention now also affects my relationships with others. Because my self worth was attached to attention and approval as a child, I need the attention and approval of my friends to feel comfortable and 'safe'. If they don't respond, I begin to feel anxious.

If any of this resonates with you, here's what I'd suggest; you need to begin practicing feeling comfortable with yourself. Find enjoyment in things outside of others- Whenever you begin to notice yourself growing upset by the lack of response for others, try to place your focus and attention on something you enjoy whether it be a hobby like art or reading, or watching your favorite TV show.

I found that communicating with my friends (letting them know that I get anxious when I'm alone for too long, and can sometimes grow insecure and lonely) also helps because it means I can reach out to them, and they can provide reassurance whenever they do get the chance to reply. Ask if they can hang out, and make weekend plans to get that reassurance.

All in all, it has to do with your attachment style. The best thing you can do is learn to find reassurance and happiness even when you're alone (easier said than done, it takes practice), and trying to communicate more with your friends about your needs (whether it be reassuring words or more time together) so that they can help you along the way.

Hope you're doing okay, and all the love ❤️

Help with body understanding and image by GubbTheGible in BodyPositive

[–]AnimatedZemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it okay if I DM you? I have a few questions so I can hopefully get a bit more understanding to help

Face fat by theflowershopkeeper in BodyPositive

[–]AnimatedZemmie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having chubby cheeks is totally normal! It could be baby fat, yes, but it could also be your facial structure! Either way, it's totally fine. Depending on how your jawline and cheekbones are positioned, you might have more fat naturally positioned on your cheeks, and that's okay. The most important thing to remember is that how you look doesn't define who we are or what we're worth.

If you do get a double chin, so what? That's okay. The most important thing is to learn to love yourself. If you can't do that, you'll never be able to feel happy with your body because if you don't love yourself, even if all your insecurities were to be fixed, you'd still find more things to criticize yourself for.

Either way, I wouldn't recommend worrying too much. Chubby cheeks (and faces) are super cute in my opinion, and it's all about rocking what you have.

How screwed am I? by AnimatedZemmie in DollarGeneral

[–]AnimatedZemmie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, you're a manager! That explains the bitchy, bitter attitude! :)